**Do you Have a no Glory "Gory" Story? xxoo
I'm trying to figure that out myself. My bestie (female) has done that. But we both have probably just grew up more and left past in the past.
But it was most likely my fault.
Perhaps they just moved on
Opinion
17Opinion
Too cowardly to break up with you
Honestly I have often asked myself that question. It's happened to me on quite a few occasions and I still don't have an answer. Sometimes I think the reason is that maybe that person doesn't really care that much but he or she is simply biding time using you as a distraction until they eventually get bored and instead of talking like adult people would they run and disappear because its easier. Other times there could be things happening in that person's life like mental health issues or circumstances that make that person disappear. One thing I know for sure is that we " the ghosted " are never the problem or real reason for why that person chooses to ghost. We just get used as an excuse. So if a person has ghosted you it's better that way because the fact that you're thinking about why a person you care about has ghosted you without a reason already means that a certain degree of distress for you is happening and the moment a person makes you feel stressed it not good and it's best to let it go. I hope this helps. Xx
I had a short-lived crush on a childhood friend when I was 15. When she found out, she freaked out and cut off contact. She still doesn’t talk to me but I don’t know if it’s for that asinine reason or she just got bored with me. I have a near 100% failure rate with the females; contact always just slows and then stops altogether. Mainly boredom I guess, even though I keep myself busy with my own projects and research and have plenty to talk about. I was thinking very recently about how I have almost nothing in common with any particular age group. I just do my own thing rather than hopping on any bandwagons. One who had approached me and chatted with me for quite some time kept saying she is afraid of men. I thought, “then why the hell are you chatting with me?” When I confronted that one about slowing contact she said she didn’t want any friends at the time (BS, she had others I knew of). Another one who said she was worried about losing my friendship later ditched me to focus on her highly dysfunctional family and some stupid cats. Nowadays one would have to put in actual effort to get my attention, which I seriously doubt would happen without a hidden agenda, so fudge ‘em.
Usually it's just that the conversation slows down and they're not that interested anymore and they're busy or make new friends or something and then you just move on. This happens all the time online. But ghosted I can remember one friend who I used to play squash with who ghosted me maybe because he thought I wasn't reciprocating enough or he found out his girlfriend wanted to sleep with me although I didn't do anything and she wanted to sleep with a lot of guys I don't know.
And also a friend in Korea he's not responding on instagram and I can't log into Kakao anymore the Korean app and it's difficult to get in touch with him. But I don't know what the reason there is he might just be busy or focus on his Korean friends.
I knew a person, she spoke to a guy for months, finally met him for coffee, they hooked up that day. And he then disappeared, no contact at all. She was all "what did I do?" Ended up he robbed a bank and went to prison... she found out months later. He didn't have access to his phone or emails.
Just move one, they have a good reason. That’s why you don’t get too emotionally invest your feelings on people. For me it’s time for another adventure!
Its the negativity of people.. ignore them it's their work.. be positive ,
Even God messenger like JESUS, Mohammad, look at their level man God's messengers who do have any any attitude , always do good for people
Guess what they always ghosted or people hateveven beat them..
Sooo do your own stuff ignore those people's
Define ghost? Did you send a message and they just ignored it? Did you ask a question? Etc. what’s the circumstance?
A lot of people don't like to do a breakup in person. They just avoid the other person until they get the message
Sometimes they are facing depression and they keep to themselves.
People start ghost a lot of friends when they enter a new relationship.
For the person being gosted it sucks and you start questioning if the other person was even really your friend...
But if you have to think about it...
If you enter a new relationship then the person you are dating will always trump any friendship, because you want to get to know your partner even better now. You want to buid and grow your new found love
It is what it is
I get ghosted frequently by my situationship whose a fearful avoidant, but the frequency it happens and how long it happens for is getting shorter. Originally it would be for a few days after a serious conversation or him opening up. Its reduced down to a day max, but not a full ghosting, just a i need to go do things and recalibrate.
There are many reasons for that. Maybe they lost interest in talking to you or you said or did something that they didn't like.
They'd do it because they don't have the balls or backbone to tell you to your face that the friendship/ relationship is over. That makes them a lowlife coward
Because he or she lacks the courage to discuss the reason for backing away from you.
They're not interested.
They obviously weren't satisfied, so they just up and left.. Didn't know how to communicate..
They know their viewpoints are "based" on pure speculation, perhaps, or they are just cowards, or , just weary of the connection.
It's a way to break up with you without backlash.
Ghost you permanently?
Paris are you still going on about your ex?
The ex that you dumped?
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Most Helpful Opinions