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Do guys enjoy fingering a girl because it feels good to them or to make the girl happy?

Just curious because there is always questions on here about whether we give bjs because we enjoy them or to make the dude happy.
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So it seems like most of you guys do it to please the girl. So when you finger a girl and make her feel good, do you expect something back in return: like hj, bj, sex?
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Thanks 4 the answers. So in conclusion lol it seems that guys finger because they like to make their girl happy/excited in a a pleasurable way. Although the act of fingering doesn't turn the guy on it is the moaning that results from it that turns the guy
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on because he feels some type of achievement. So personally I say that if ur guy fingers you really well to make you feel good then you should suck the hell out of his d*** to repay the pleasure. LOL!
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  • We don't exactly feel good, but a lot of it is turn ons and making her feel good. Guys, like girls, want to make our partner feel good, and fingering is a good way to do that.

    As far as the turn on, typically when a girl is feeling good, she will make a lot of noises, which is a major turn on for a guy, which is gratifying in itself. And there's always the feeling of having a part of you inside your girl. The feeling/texture is interesting/feels good, but not in a pleasure way.

    • This is interesting! So guys don't necessary get turn on from fingering a girl but it's the noises that she make-moaning-that does? So can a girl be so loud that it will turn him off? If the girl doesn't moan would that turn off the guy??

    • Well, fingering a girl is a turn on too, but the noises are the big one. I would be careful with too loud, because although that is a large line, it can still be crossed to turn off. So, just don't scream bloody murder in our ears, otherwise, we're cool. Not moaning isn't a turn off entirely, but if there is none, we assume we're doing something wrong, because that is what most girls do when they are excited/feeling good.

    • K thanks for answering...very interesting...

  • To make the girl happy. Also, it feels good to make a girl happy. A girl that you like a lot, anyway.

    • So if it was a random chick would it wouldn't mean anything to you? -like if it was a girl you randomly hookup with you wouldn't care to finger her??

    • I wouldn't finger a random girl in the first place.

    • Lol-so if it was a girl that you randomly hookup with like a booty call/one time types of thing you wouldn't even finger her,u would just go straight to sex because she would not mean anything to you? That's interesting...

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  • well when a guys eats me out and fingers me I usually end up getting so horny that I have sex with him lol. but not really to return the favor...but just because I like the whole experience lol

  • I think it's just to make the girl feel good. I can't imagine how they would get anything out of it unless they get turned on because they're making the girl turned on

    • Well have you ever felt good when someone opens a great present you gave them?

    • Good Answer. ^^ cjwright79 :

  • speaking as a lezzy I love it. I can feel her get warmed up and control how she reacts... makes things last longer before I go down X)

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  • To make the girl happy

  • I do it to make her happy and horny and to play with her vagina and feel the texture.

  • both

  • Both we like it and it makes us excited and pleasing your girl is a good thing too.

  • Yeah I enjoy it mainly to make her happy. Of course I feel a sense of achievement when she squirts all over my fingers but really I just wanna make her orgasm hard :)

  • When I Eat My Girlfriend Out, I Do It Because;

    1) It Makes Her Feel Good.

    2) I Like The Taste, LOL ;D

    As For Fingering, I Do It Because Guys Shouldn't Always Get Pleasure, And I'd Actually Rather Finger Her Than Get Noshed Off, As It Makes Her Feel Good About Herself, So I Feel Good About Myself.

    Hope I've Helped? :-)

    • Yes you have, thanks for ur answer...

    • Number 2 lol x)

  • it turns me on eating her and her taste. sex is only best after oral. don't dry buck in bed its not fun. lol

  • love feeling a inside of a girls pussy, feels good

  • just to turn on girl

  • you're updates explain it all. if you can make her feel good you feel good. but I find that every girl I've been with shivers or starts to convulse right before they orgasm, so the best approach would be right before they orgasm, have sex, usually it'll take a little longer, but then it prolongs the feeling, and you can both finish together.

  • For me it is a turn on as well as pleasuring her as the feel of the inside of her feel so nice. Then add the fact of the way she moves and moans with desire then the feeling of her juices as she starts to squeezes down on your fingers as she convulses with her orgasm is the most amazing sensation i have experienced.I felt like i was foating on cloud nine as i felt the flood over my fingers as she reached the peak she felt so beautiful.

  • it teases me when I do it and because it makes the girl feel good, I like to eat them out too

  • for me both for sure

  • I do it for her. From my own point of view though, its nice to be able to smell her on my fingers when I get back to my place afterwards. There's something pretty sexy about that.

  • Wait... I thought it would mainly turn guys on... because they are imagining how good it would feel to put their penis inside her!...

  • good question!

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