How would you react to your boyfriend spreading your ass cheeks apart during sex?

Firstly he always wants me to be on top (unless it's doggy) and secondly he spreads my ass cheeks as far apart as he can, so he can have a look up there.. which I actually like, but it just seems strange. Again, I'm not uncomfortable with it.. I just wonder if anyone else would be and is this common?
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  • I do it all the time. I'm very anal so I like to look at it, touch it, lick it, probe it and most of all, ream in ruthlessly. If it hurts good, so much the better. I also love to make her spread them, so wide it hurts. One gf loved to beg me to not spread them while I was sodomizing her. It hurt and she knew how it turned me on for her to beg me not to while knowing full well that I was gonna grab two big ol' handfuls of those sweet cheeks, rip 'em apart wide and hard. and proceed to ream her balls deep.

    • and you managed to fit all 5inches of it in? my god she must have screamed with pain! mate hurting her in sex isn't right, its fooking weird.

    • This was completely consensual and wanted by BOTH of us. We had safe words in place and the sex was amazing. Just for the record, where is did you get just five inches?

    • ^^Okay dude... that's a bit too much info lol.

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  • I do it all the time, if he's doing what I think he's doing (what I do) he's just moving them outta the way so he can have a better view of it going in.. one of the best parts of sex for a guy in my opinion is getting to see it happen. Can't do that if her ass is in the way/

Most Helpful Girls

  • My guy sometimes does that... which is confusing because he thinks anal is gross xD I think it just turns guys on doing that and being able to see everything, having the dominating power to just inspect all of you... sort of thing xD
    Men are weird.

    • "men are weird" u got that right ;P

  • With sex there isn't something common or uncommon it is what it is. Some would like some wont. As long as you tell your boy friend what you like and dont and he is respectful of that then you are ok.

  • It's really common. My boyfriend does the same. I enjoy it too, so no worries. It's not too weird, I think. Haha.

    • Do you ever spread it for him -- so he can relax and just enjoy the view?

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  • I do it sometimes. My partner is less excited about it then you are, though she no doubt, correctly, realizes I'm thinking the exact same thing your bf is when he does it to you.

  • Yeah it's pretty common I think.

    • It happens every second of every day somewhere in the world. When you are in her vag and spread her cheeks, but butthole opens and closes like this with each thrust: O * O * O * O * O. Who does not love a free show like THAT?

  • He wants to put it in your pooper.

  • i'm guessing he's hoping you'll ask for anal. In general any attention guys pay to your butt is in hopes it will entice you to want to feel something throbbing in it.

  • It's normal for a guy to be attracted to a girl's bottom. And it's just so inviting to want to grab hold of those cheeks and spread them.

  • 1. Seriously raunchy.
    2. Looking at her "brown star" is naughty. I like it.

  • ohh that should be me. that's how I usually starts anal, spreading her ass cheeks and licking her anus. I think there is nothing strange in that since you are not uncomfortable with it. just enjoy it

  • I do it to my female friends all the time. The seem to get embarrassed at first but let do it anyways. Or I turn the girl upside down with her legs bend towards her chest and her back resting on my chest, so I can access everything and play with whatever I want. I’m not attractive to girls with too many partners. A small bit of shyness in a girl is also very attractive. It also helps us to cum faster, we want to see what we’re doing.
    B) girls are always sitting with their legs closed, which makes us more curious.
    C) girls front and back holes side by side is nice.. and I wanna have access to bother of ‘em. And opening it wide helps her to cum easier and we can see what she’s hiding.

  • Nothing is weird unless you think it is. Seems very normal to me, and is certainly common. Guys are very visually aroused so...

  • I would like to try it once, so I have seen everything at her. But I would find it weird on a regular basis.