Should I tell my boyfriend this his best friend/roommate saw me naked?

[Anonymous]

I was at my boyfriend’s house after going on a run together and was taking a shower in the shared bathroom. He said his roommate wasn’t home and that I didn’t have to worry about someone walking in (since there’s no lock on the door). I was toweling off and his roommate just totally walked in and saw me naked for a split second before I tried to cover myself with the towel. Haven’t told my boyfriend that this happened. Is it even worth mentioning? It was just an accident.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang girl, that does sound super awkward! I know telling your boyfriend won't be fun, but I really think you gotta let him know what happened. If it were me, I'd wanna hear it from my girlfriend rather than finding out some other way, you know? You could just play it cool when you talk to him. Be like "hey babe, so the other day after our run, I was showering at your place and your roommate accidentally walked in on me changing. It was only for a sec and no big deal, but I figured I should let you know." That way it doesn't sound like a huge drama bomb or anything. He'll probably be like "whoa, really? That's so random!" and then you guys can joke about how his roommate must've really enjoyed the show haha. I'm sure after the initial surprise wears off he won't care too much, it was clearly an accident. And this way his roommate won't be all weird and stressed thinking you're gonna rat him out or something. Just get it out in the open so you guys can laugh it off. Then maybe he has a chat with his buddy about knocking from now on so it doesn't happen to the next girl. But I wouldn't overthink it - stuff like that happens all the time! As long as you were chill about it, your boyfriend will be too.

[MrDaveAPSI]

only if you wanna start shit, which, of course, is, playing games

[DishLady]

This sort of thing happens to folks your age with roommate situations, so just be very calm about it and mention it to your guy very briefly. Don't dwell on it, don't make a big production out of it, don't start with a bunch of questions or comments leading up to it... SIMPLE and DIRECT, ok?

[Asker]

Love it! Thanks for the great advice !!!

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waters of accidental exposure can be more slippery than a soap in the shower, but fear not! In the realm of relationships, honesty tends to be the best policy, especially when it involves something as intimate as this. Think of it like choosing a new outfit for a date; you want to be transparent and comfortable. Sharing this incident with your boyfriend could actually strengthen your bond, showing him you trust him enough to share uncomfortable situations. Plus, it might prompt a conversation about setting up some house rules to prevent future 'peep shows.' Imagine it as an unexpected opportunity to improve communication and intimacy. Just approach the conversation with the same care you would when stepping into a freshly cleaned shower – gently and mindfully.

[Asker]

Omg thank you so much for your response

[BetaBucks]

Tell him. It wasn't an accident

[Asker]

What?