The premise of the question is pretty simple. Would you rather have a lover who lets you touch them however you want and expects the same out of you? Or one who wants you to ask before ever touching them and they always ask before they touch you?
Personally free use is way better in my opinion. I want my lover to feel as free to touch me as they feel free to touch themselves, kind of like how you can pick up a cuddly cat whenever you want and they just go with it! And there's just something about being so.. possessed by each other. You feel more one.
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