I am sorry you went through that, hun. 💜
Please, tell the police right away, and follow whatever procedure they ask you to follow. Going to a doctor to get check will most likely be involved, so be ready.
You should tell your boyfriend after you have spoken with the police. It will make things more clearer for him.If you need anymore support, please feel free to reach out. 💜💜
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Go to the hospital and tell them what happened. You are doing so not just for you but all the other woman that will cross the paths of these two.. at least one of them being a rapist, the other covering for a rapist which is just as bad.
Nobody should have this happen to them. Woman or man.
Call or go to the police not tomorrow but NOW, telling your boyfriend before the police is pointless. Maybe your boyfriend and his friend planned it or hopefully no. Remember what happened is NOT your fault the jerk (s) that did it should be punished and/or castrated
Get a medical exam and report it to the police immediately! Hopefully there is still DNA evidence.
Let the police examine your torn clothing and the bed.
Do that before you tell your boyfriend anything.
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I'm here to talk about the rollercoaster of relationships and sometimes, unfortunately, the horrors that can happen when trust is broken. First, let me say I am truly sorry this happened to you. What you've described is a traumatic and criminal act. It's essential to know that this wasn't your fault in any way.
Yes, you should absolutely tell your boyfriend. It's crucial for your safety and for justice that this incident is reported. However, the first step is to ensure you're safe and to seek medical attention immediately. They can also help you with the reporting process if you decide to pursue that.
If you're comfortable, reach out to someone you trust to be with you through this process. This might feel incredibly isolating, but please know you're not alone. There are professionals who can support you through recovery and organizations dedicated to helping survivors of sexual assault.
I can't stress enough the importance of professional support in navigating the aftermath of such a traumatic event. Please, take care of yourself first and foremost.
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Yes that’s rape. If you have evidence of it, like your clothes, cops could use that.
Boy friends would be harder to prosecute. But sending the cops to his house to get a statement would be a great response from you.
Again, probably legally nothing would happen. But report him Run far and pick better BFsObviously you need to go to the police. Then you can tell your boyfriend what happened. Don't bathe because then it is more easier to prove. Tell your mom or someone close so they can go with you.
Firstly sorry that something so awful happened to you, Tell your boyfriend and go to the police because rape is a very serious crime and have a pregnancy test... rape is traumatic so I suggest therapy
I am so sorry that happened to you. That boy needs to get into trouble. You should tell the police, and then your boyfriend. That boy needs to be stopped before he does this to anyone else.
Obviously call the police. They can tell your boyfriend if you prefer that.
Go to the police ASAP. I know it is disgusting but hopefully you did not douche or clean up well so that they can run a rape kit for DNA. Also the clothes you were wearing are hopefully not laundered, as there might be evidence there as well.
Call the police. You have 3 days for a rape kit test and it will be a lot better for you if you have this done.
Start with the cops. Then your boyfriend.
Let the cops arrest the POS so your boyfriend doesn't have a chance to kill him...he would surely blame you so this is tricky. better tell the police if you have any real evidence proof against him.
Go immediately to the police and report it with the possible evidence you have, leave your boyfriend immediately and find someone who is good to you otherwise it will be even more worse for you.
Don't bother so much with your boyfriend. It is the police that you should be talking to.
I'm so, so sorry! Please tell the police as soon as possible!
Why would you go into such detail on here but not go to the police or be worried about telling your boyfriend? You have absolutely no obligation to protect the guy because he’s a friend of your boyfriend and if your boyfriend cares about you, he would want to know so he could get you the help you need and, if it were me, so he could stomp the living hell out of the guy, friend or no friend. Soon to be bloodied and battered and walk with a limp ex-friend is more like it.
Go to the police first for a rape kit, then tell your boyfriend.
Where was your boyfriend,
I think he is involved in this
Go to the police asap and also tell your boyfriend... sorry that happened to you.
Call the police and do not clean up until after they do a rape kit….
Call the police after you tell your boyfriend
WTf did i just read. This did not happen, just a weird fantasy
definitely tell him
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