Yes, they should have access, but if they see that it's an insecurity/nosy thing, they should break up with the person. That's not healthy, shouldn't be tolerated & really, the relationship is already doomed to fail.
I don't require any access to his phone. I can give him a pin to mine if he needs it... but I would like to know why... I have nothing to hide... but I base my relationship on trust
Only reason not to is if you have something to hide or have sensitive information on it. My phone has sensitive information and even then my wife has access she just knows not to access certain parts otherwise we have legal trouble
It’s definitely possible to have unique password locked apps and even limiting the time spent on those apps. Parents use that stuff on the children’s smart phones all the time.
No, they should not. I wouldn't be with someone I didn't trust, and I wouldn't be with someone who didn't trust me. People who don't cheat assume that their partners won't either.
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When I happened to be in a relationship I had two phones , one personal which I never locked as it had no personal information on it, and the other one was a work phone that had a two level password encryption. the girlfriend was always wanting to know what was on the work phone but paid no attention to my other phone.
I'd prefer she not even have one! If nothing else, it'd prove to me that she's not a slave or knows that those things are nothing more than cancer causing tracking devices.
That's silly, you could just put it right down the middle if you both want some. All typically we will compare how many slices of pizza we've already had to make sure It's not too uneven
I have private conversations with friends where they detail how they got raped and all kinds of other horrific things. I am not sure my phone without watching you like a goddamn hawk.
@Juxtapose I raised a separate question about this, mainly from the numbers saying yes. People tell friends stuff in confidence, you don’t really want that made available to others.
Then it would open the conversation to “What are you doing on my phone?”
When I met my wife she literally passed me her phone to update it, change some settings, etc. I agree with you that it’s private but when your partner gives zero f***s then what is there to hide? Ya know.
No, I don't mean any situation. E. g. i'm okay to give my partner my phone so they can call someone, text someone, go through gallery if they want to see something or order deliverg service. But it's me giving them permission to do so. If he could just take my phone any time it would be a dealbreaker
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Yes, they should have access, but if they see that it's an insecurity/nosy thing, they should break up with the person. That's not healthy, shouldn't be tolerated & really, the relationship is already doomed to fail.
I don't require any access to his phone. I can give him a pin to mine if he needs it... but I would like to know why... I have nothing to hide... but I base my relationship on trust
Only reason not to is if you have something to hide or have sensitive information on it. My phone has sensitive information and even then my wife has access she just knows not to access certain parts otherwise we have legal trouble
It’s definitely possible to have unique password locked apps and even limiting the time spent on those apps. Parents use that stuff on the children’s smart phones all the time.
No, they should not. I wouldn't be with someone I didn't trust, and I wouldn't be with someone who didn't trust me. People who don't cheat assume that their partners won't either.
When I happened to be in a relationship I had two phones , one personal which I never locked as it had no personal information on it, and the other one was a work phone that had a two level password encryption. the girlfriend was always wanting to know what was on the work phone but paid no attention to my other phone.
I never wanted to look at the girlfriend's phone.
My wife 🤣
This lady here says it all for me.
Too long, didn't watch version: No - at least not for me.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/m1c3Ck5dwdcMy husband and I share each other's phones all the time, but then again, we both have nothing to hide.
I'd prefer she not even have one! If nothing else, it'd prove to me that she's not a slave or knows that those things are nothing more than cancer causing tracking devices.
Only with permission. You shouldn't know eachother’s passcode’s. Being in a relationship shouldn't mean all privacy is lost.
If they are committed or planning on being committed (meaning permanently together) then everything should be shared.
Everything?
Everything that comes up anyway
Even the last slice of pizza? LOL
Food always tastes sweeter when shared with your sweetie pie 😎
People fight for the last slice of pizza and don't like share it.
That's silly, you could just put it right down the middle if you both want some. All typically we will compare how many slices of pizza we've already had to make sure It's not too uneven
He knows my password but he doesn’t look through my phone because we have a healthy trusting relationship
Not at all. Just because we're married that doesn't mean we're not entitled to out own privacy.
I believe they should if they are committed to each other and have the decency to also respect each other’s privacy as well
No problem there.
I can always get me a second phone :)
With other words: a pointless suggestion in both directions, heh heh.
I have private conversations with friends where they detail how they got raped and all kinds of other horrific things. I am not sure my phone without watching you like a goddamn hawk.
*I am not sharing my phone without watching you like a goddamn hawk.
@Juxtapose I raised a separate question about this, mainly from the numbers saying yes. People tell friends stuff in confidence, you don’t really want that made available to others.
@RebelinSteel it's telling how many people don't think of that.
Their friends must not trust them.. nor should they.
No wtf it's private
Not that I'm hiding smth but knowing he can check the phone any time would drive me crazy
Then it would open the conversation to “What are you doing on my phone?”
When I met my wife she literally passed me her phone to update it, change some settings, etc.
I agree with you that it’s private but when your partner gives zero f***s then what is there to hide? Ya know.
No, I don't mean any situation. E. g. i'm okay to give my partner my phone so they can call someone, text someone, go through gallery if they want to see something or order deliverg service. But it's me giving them permission to do so. If he could just take my phone any time it would be a dealbreaker
Sure. Why not? We have had disputes over location tracking which I'm against. That's something for a child.
A couple should be healthy enough not to have to make a point of that, but generally be open about things in general, what's on their phones and such.
I personally don't care to be checking up on her phone when in a relationship.
If she wants to use my phone then fine, but I don't care to use her.
We both know each other's passwords. She is diabetic and I need access to her blood sugar readings in an emergency.