Are you needy or independent?

[OddBeMe]

Don’t lie to me, you emotional fck faces

Needy

Indy

[PeteBy]

Very much independent, probably too much. I emigrated on a whim in 1997. The idea of being in one place be it a job or house or city for too long has never appealed.

More than happy to quit a job at a moments notice, I have standards and expectations and have often walked out.

I basically plough my own furrow. Always have.

Just the way I am. Enigmatic, unpredictable. Hell I don't even know what I am going to do or where I will be the morning I wake up.

Hate monotony.

Strangely. Managed to be in a relationship for 12 years now, the only thing that has lasted. She gets me though.

Can't imagine staying in the same job, with the same people, every day for years. That would be so depressing! Same goes for living in the same place.

[OddBeMe]

I’m with you I can’t see the same shift day day out. But my wife thrives in that and she’s now a VP……

[Leapfrog00]

I've taken care of myself since I was little. My parents were abusive and took very little care of me. I had to learn everything on my own. I made my own breakfast, washed my own clothes, and cleaned up after my parents.

Im terrible at asking for help. Last year I was homeless and what little family I have left had no idea, and it's probably best. I do bette on my own. I don't trust anyone.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Independent. You learn to depend on yourself real quick when people have a knack of screwing you over or disappointing you on a regular basis.

If I ask for help, it's because it's something that's out of my scope or control, and I'm smart enough to know my limitations.

[Malwi93]

Thats true but also people simply are independent when they have no other choice

[Hawkes_Lady]

In my life, I have had to be independent. I had no one that stood in my corner to protect me. When in a relationship, I choose to be needy. I want to be loved, protected, and cared for, but I also want to love, protect, and care for them.

[Sonorous]

I tend to be independent. Well as independent as I can be. I have hyperacusis so I may need some people to help me with certain situations that are too loud for me.

[JacobJordan]

In the middle. Independent doesn't work well with relationships because of obvious reasons. Needy also isn't great for relationships. A bit of both is okay though. Being okay to spend time alone for example is good it isn't independent but it is in the realm.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I take a lot of medications, so I have to be Independent also I can't stand petty messes in the kitchen, so I make sure it's all cleaned up.

[exitseven]

I am the consumate independent. It caused problems in my marriage at first. I just refused to ever ask antigone for help or ever needed anyone else. i had lived on my own for so long I got a little too used to it.

[AmeerX]

I can be needy but if someone thinks she is superior then my independent mode comes back on. I don't need some bitch telling me how to behave

[Apple1996]

I'm a kitty cat 🐈

[NathanDavis]

resourceful, and self-sufficient...

till I need someone to repair something I can't... lol

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I can't really be independent, so I only have one choice here: Needy.

[deniz345]

Merhaba

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@deniz345 hm?

[molonski2]

If I were not independent at my age , in another country , we would have a serious problem.

[nonyabeez-wax]

Needy in a relationship.

Independent otherwise.

[IslaTheWitch]

Independent, always, to the core and beyond.

[Sabretooth]

needy... not by choice but by circumstance.

[bededazzle]

i hate hate hate it :(

[OddBeMe]

It stinks
It stinks
It stinks

[bededazzle]

hahhhha

[OddBeMe]

Have you seen his Santos clip? He’s still got it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpKLHWg2Ffg

[Juxtapose]

I can be needy in moments of weakness but I respect boundaries and people's space, privacy, etc.

[fatcat700592]

I'm independent from everyone except my partner and dad.

[12karen]

I had to be independent so...

[OddBeMe]

That can be tough thrown into the deep end

[Paul09]

I'm independent. But would be nice to have someone around.

[Chthou95]

What's with this independency bullshit? I do what i have to do

[lightbulb27]

independent when I'm not needy.

[OddBeMe]

We all fall

[sheikalana]

I'm both.

[OddBeMe]

Most are. Ying Yang