If women are supposely better cheaters, why are some still getting caught?

[Anonymous]

I've never cheated but 3 that cheated on their partners got caught. Two of my friends got caught up in their lies and through a text message they got to delete. Only (a friend's sister) one literally got caught in the act.

Supposely we're said to be the smarter gender in hiding our tracks if we were to cheat (not me but others) and not making it so obvious like men so... if so how are some still getting caught? I'm now curious what did those women did wrong in their cheatings that got them caught?

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**through a text message they forgot to delete.
I thought they we were supposedly the gender that can get away with cheating for more longer than a man, generally.

[Finchie40]

Bottom line if you are cheating period you are a piece of shit , a cheater is 100 percent at fault it has nothing to do with their partner , So many people cheat nowadays because they think grass is greener on the other side because they are a selfish person that only cares about themselves , they play a victim when really they are the piece of shit , When someone gets busted cheating they come up with every excuse in the book as to why they did it basically pointing fingers at their partner saying they are the reason , People that cheat will eventually get busted cuz they can only lie so much before the truth comes out , My thing is if I am going to cheat on a partner that’s my answer that I truly don’t love them and will end the relationship right then and there , why try to go back to someone you truly don’t love? For the convenience? For what was invested? You are living a complete lie and not only are you wasting your time you are wasting their time as well, If you truly loved someone you wouldn’t be cheating on them , If you can’t remove selfishness for your partner they won’t be able to remove it for you

[Anonymous]

Generally because they want to. Guys sneak around and cheat and do thier best to hide it so they can continue. When a woman cheats unless she has a specific reason to hide it (like money). Then generally she either wants to get caught or att least just doesn't care if she gets caught. Because if a woman cheats she's either just a flat out skeeter. Or she's doing it for revenge about something she feels slighted.

[Biancam13]

I think women are generally sneakier and (as you said) smarter about cheating, and also the fact that women are stereotyped as being gentler, more faithful and the ones getting cheated on, means that people suspect them of cheating way less than men so they get away with it.

I honestly don't know how they're the ones getting caught now. Maybe people are more vigilant nowadays towards cheating in both men AND women.

[FilmGuy93]

Cheaters are almost never the clever people they think they are. The reason they get away with it is usually because the person they are cheating on is checked out of the relationship (hence the cheating).

[inhua]

some men are starting to wake up and analyze situations logically rather than hide from the truth because it's emotionally uncomfortable.

[aaron210419]

There's no "better cheater". It is not something to be proud of, men and women cheat at almost exactly the same rate. The truth always gets revealed.

[Asker]

I meant to say female cheaters are more sneaky and get away with cheating for a much long time than male cheaters.

[aaron210419]

Maybe, or maybe men are more trusting of their women? Either way, it all comes back around in the end.

[TroyDT2]

Magnus Carlson is the best chess player right now, but he still loses some games. Being better does not mean being perfect.

[Anonymous]

I think less women than men get caught cheating

[Asker]

I think so too. I got surprised that those 3 women still got caught. The one that got caught fucking the other guy, ouch. They must have done something wrong to get caught so easily like that.

[Twalli]

Why do you want to know? Unless you want to cheat you don't need to know how to avoid getting caught.

[Fireguy17]

Because sooner or later you get caught.

[Wise4myage]

They slip up and make mistakes.