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How do you know you're in love with someone?
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I know I'm in love with someone when all I wanna do is just listen to her, she wouldn't have to be talking about anything deep and meaningful even yapping about her crappy hair day would be interesting to me. Ah yes the butterflies in my tummy everytime I wanna do something with her. If her opinion about things would matter to me.
When she's isn't talking I would be yapping about even the lost random things would probably go on and on... (Don't stop believing - Journey)
I would try to watch her without her noticing to catch her smile you know the one you do when your not awarw that your being watched.
I would actually get off my ass and make something for her with my own two hands.
Her evey move in the bedroom would have my attention stiff and proud (heart boner - ninja sex party)
Every date would be its own awesome adventure (first date - ninja sex party)
Would glady be her emotional sponge whenever required especially during those days of the month
All the Bryan Adams ever on loop while I cook her dinner
Free cuddles anytime
Dress up and have a totally cool girls night out
Dress up and have a totally cool guys night out
One day during the month binge watching Tom and Jerry, Charlie Chaplin, 3 stooges
Already named the unborn kids and their kids too.
Netflix and chill
Chill without netflix
Cartoon Network classics
Tiny muffin cakes if she conscious about her weight
A million tiny muffin cakes coz I don't care if she puts on weight
Braid her hair viking style!
Hmm well it’s different for everyone and difficult to explain
but for me it was when I felt at home with said person
For me, it’s several things:
- Doing certain tasks (like cooking, which I used to not even like doing for myself when I was single), is no longer stressful and you’re more than happy to do it for them.
- Putting their needs above your own (and not in a doormat way, but more like you care for them so much that it’s not even a second thought).
- You think about them throughout the day (but not in like an overly obsessive way that could impede on your ability to do things like be productive at work).
- Doing things that are “boring” together with them is SO much fun. (Something like grocery shopping or folding clothes.)
- Moments of silence between you two are peaceful and not awkward. In fact, you can still feel pretty close to them.
- You enjoy being in each other’s vicinity as much as possible, even if you’re not interacting directly with one another. One could be reading and one could be watching TV, but it just feels good to be in the same room.
- You still flirt. Constantly. Daily. No matter how long it’s been. (In my relationship personally, we’re daily corny af with each other. I think if people saw how cheesy we are with each other behind closed doors, with the things we do and say and the jokes we make, they might die a little inside. 😂 Maybe a lot. 🤣)
Not an exhaustive list, there are plenty others, but I also think love manifests differently for each person.
You start doing things that you never done before and your heart is settled when your around them
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I'm goona give an uncharacteristically simple answer on this one - I feel a softening when I see or hear or say their name. Names are very important to me - not that I like their name (cause I don't get to choose, nor do I choose people based on names), but names are personal. A name is one word that attempts to encapsulate all that a person is. (Which is, of course, impossible.) It is a sort of representation of them. And if I love them, I melt a bit, when using or seeing or saying it.
After years of dating I've boiled it down to one undeniable clue/tell that I'd recognize no matter what, I sing. Not just with the music but I sing out loud and off key with no shame. Haven't been able to do that in 8 or so years but you never know.
Think of the person you're in love with.
Do you see him/her? All those wonderful memories you've made?
Can you hear all the plans you've made for the future?
Doesn't it feel great? I thought so.
Keep those memories and cherish them. Never neglect or take for granted the love you have in your life.
You know when you know. However, a time may come when those memories remind you of what you had and it hurts.
So your brain asks:
"Who is he/she?"
"Why does he/she hurt me like this?"
When your heart beats to keep you alive, blood is fed to the brain to keep those memories alive too. However, when the love is gone... The heart feels absolutely nothing.
Numb. Doesn't flinch. Those memories should make you feel something in your heart. Little does the world know you're dead from the inside out.
As long as those memories whether from years ago, yesterday or even today, if they make your heart feel, feel the way it does when you're in love, then my dear you're.
When the heart no longer feels anything for that person, no matter what thoughts/images your mind reminds you of then sadly, it's gone.
If you're in love... Don't be the one to break the other persons heart such that it dies. It's the worst form of torture another human being can inflict on another.
Don't be that person. Be the one to keep their heart feeling for you and long may it remain that way.
How you do this is completely upto you. Everybody has their own way to love. Just do it right, give it your all and never stop working hard at it.
Like I said, when you know you know... You can feel it in your heart.
Well.
If you don't know it check a little things about yourself. Some things are almost the same for everyone.
Love can't be put in rules. Love are feelings.
You see when you love someone.
You enjoy he's of her company.
You want to be with him or her when you get the chance.
You sometimes wonder what they are doing and send them some messages once in a while.
When you are together you can be you and don't have to worry about what you say you know it will be accepted either way.
Also when that person asks you to do something together even when you do not like the activity you will say yes because you like spending time together.
Yes you can call this friends but the point is. When you feel all this and you still don't feel completely satisfied than you want to start a relationship with him or her.
Well that's how I think about it for now anyway.
When, beyond the blazing bonfire of infatuation, you've seen how they are in real life with all their idiosyncrasies, foibles, ways of thinking and behaviors and cherish them anyway. When you are the most important person in their life and know that you can trust them completely.
I got engaged really fast. My best friend asked me "how do you know that you want to spend you life with her, you really just met her". I answered "You will just know". Years later when he called to tell me he got engaged, he said "you were right, you just know".
Love is very much the same. People will list things all day long. But in the end, a lot of things people list I have felt with other women, yet I didn't love them. I have been truly in love with 2 women in my life. I just knew. There was another woman when I was very young that I thought I loved, but it wasn't until I met my wife (now ex) that I realized that first one was not true love.
That depends on what you define is in love it is my opinion that what people usually start off a relationship with it's not true love but yes they are in love which means they are in lust and they are infatuated with the other person... Then if that is taken into a friendship or blossoms from a friendship then if two people commit to better for worse regardless that they're going to try and if both people will try then that results in a lifetime marriage if one person gives up for a period of time a short period of time even it can completely destroy a perfectly good marriage so I believe love is something that you grow into you may start in love but with commitment you can find true love... Again it's just my opinion
Your know when Cupid hits you with the arrow Your heart flutters she haunts your mind You miss her when your apart Your primal instincts return Wanting to protect her Show how much you care Keep he away from emotional trauma the best you can So many things tell you your in love
For me it's when she walks into a room and the moment I see her she takes my breath away and my heart skips a beat and then when she walks out of a room I have this sudden emptiness inside and I feel lost without her. That is when I have no doubt I'm in love.
I know whenever I can't stop thinking about them and wanting to spend all of my free time with that one person. You miss them when they're not around and the thought of losing them causes extreme distress.
Love is the most powerful drug in the world and once we get a taste, it can severely fuck you up. My ex-fiance and I broke up in June and the last three months have been hell. It almost makes you question if falling in love with somebody is worth the heartache that might come after.
I'm curious, do you think some people can't fall in love?
@Jemini_Crocket I think some people can't because they've been too hurt before and they aren't able to open themselves up to it again.
When you ask random questions on GAG such as this and convince yourself that you're indeed in love, totally unaware of the fact that these feelings hold the potential of destroying you emotionally when it all comes to an end.
The same Way you know if you hate someone, you don’t hate them, you’re choosing to hate them because you really dislike them,
well love is jus the opposite hate,
you jus choose to love someone when you really really like them,
and u can also choose to stop loving them any time u like
well that’s how I see love anyway
Oh wait, you said “in love” not jus “love”
Well I can’t answer that, I’m not really sure what the difference between loving someone and being in love is... I think they mean the same thing but don’t quote me
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I have to break it down, examine every aspect and then assume it must be love (or
not). It’s hard to define what love is for me (because I’m on the spectrum). I have to include that fact in a lot of my responses, so you understand how I think.
I don't fall "in love." If we are compatible and have fun, I will choose to love. I never base relationships upon emotion, because those can be deceptive.
That is a very well written sentence that lingers with wisdom, kudos to you!
Same, I never felt the feeling of “being in love”
It’s more jus like a choice to love someone, not really a feeling
Must be cos were guys and guys are less emotional
Many ways
The most is keep im touch with you always
And most important share his secrets to you because no one can share it with anyone
Buying gifts for you is a start of the beginnings
etc etc etc...
I hope i helped
Really hard to explain because it's like it creeps up on you and it feels so casual. I feel like people think about love and look for things that are distinct, very noticeable. It's fact things that you might take for granted.
When I think of that person all the time and I want to spend more time with them is the way I know I want to be with that certain someone that I have fallen in love with?
Well, like the Oracle says in The Matrix, "Being the One is just like being in love... nobody can tell you you're in love, you just know it. Through and through, balls to bones."
When you are constantly thinking about them in a nice way and wishing to be with them.
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