Well that sounds kind of not true. Unless you date guys that are douchbags. Because by statistics most divorces are filled by women and i think it depends on a guy. If that guy is from the start doesn't look serious to relationship don't think you will change him. I think that is where most girls fail. They think they can change a bad guy to a good guy it doesn't work.
It's because someone doesn't know how to handle their emotions or want to quit when they're uncomfortable as they're not willing to fight through it. by the way, girls do this shit too as we're all human
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There's no sense in arguing with a woman. My ex used to get pissed off worse when I stayed calm and reasonable while she was throwing a fit, and that's pretty much all you need to know about having a "discussion" with a chick.
Wise men make a judgment call; put up with it or leave. Any other option is just a waste of time
Because men are fixers, when it comes to some things there is no fix. Thats aggravating to the point of rage, its better for us to remove ourself rather than saying something that can be misunderstood or take that frustration out on the person we care about.
Sometimes it has to do with the foundation. If the foundation was build purely on attraction or lust then even the slightest problems can make the relationship to fall apart. As the physical is no longer in the picture. That's why I try to build the foundation on something more, link her personalty and by building our friendship first. I have found it works great and can show what kinds of a person they really are.
My fiancé and I are in a argument right now. I walked away in the sense to talk down. So far I have 30 pending text messages from him saying sorry and that to not leave him. Which I won’t and he knows that but I need a moment...
Because women have a way of making it the mans fault every single time in an argument even if it is her fault or both at fault, I’ve been through this so many times with women, they manipulate during an argument, use sex as a weapon, cry to gain sympathy, use emotional abuse techniques to get their way, it’s much easier as a man too suck it up get over it and just don’t talk about it than deal with all that manipulation
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I don’t think that’s an appropriate usage of “helpless”
At the very least they can say the reverse about you.
Why is it not equally valid to ask why do women keep talking when they’re spouting nonsense?
Maybe the situation has made me mad and the responsible thing to do is to take some time rather than inform a woman she’s being a bitch.
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I won't have arguments where it is just the girls insecurity and jealousy that is creating the argument, i would never cheat on a partner, my father cheated on my mother, to accuse me of that is a huge insult to me. Those are the only type of arguments i would walk away from.
Same reason people don't do anything -- fear. In a lot of homes negative emotions are unacceptable. People who grow up like that can have a hard time expressing themselves when emotions run high.
Because women and men as well look for reasons to argue to cover up some other hidden agenda and I can tell when it happens and when it does I also know that no matter what you do or say the argument won't stop but it will jump from one reason to another and another and so on. Better keeping your sanity and walk away.
Not to be sexist but newflash women do it more often than men especially at this generation
If I get cash for the number of times men lost their jobs and the wives instead of supporting him leaves him and takes the kids. I would be a fucking billionaire
I don't think that guys run away when things get hard. I believe women drive them away by trying to force to much responsibility on them all at one time. No offence meant but i believe that also plays a big part in it. Relationships are a 2 way street.
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Why does anyone run away when things get hard? It's because it's hard. We don't know how it will end, and we don't want to try it because it's hard to do it. People of today want things to be easier, more picturesque like in a movie or tv show (or a book if you still read those).
I am sorry that some people do this. Both genders. I prefer to talk it out, no one leaving. Until its sorted out. My best guess as to why they do it Is that's how they were brought up.
Women in the same guise do this too. It's happened twice to me. That said the guys that are heartless buggers. They do this as they think that physical or mental problems equate to you not being the whole person you were.
Havn't heard this one yet: Some girls tend to bring up the same issues over and over again. A girl might complain a lot to her boyfriend and when she complains that he needs to listen more he is tired of it.
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Well that sounds kind of not true. Unless you date guys that are douchbags. Because by statistics most divorces are filled by women and i think it depends on a guy. If that guy is from the start doesn't look serious to relationship don't think you will change him. I think that is where most girls fail. They think they can change a bad guy to a good guy it doesn't work.
It's because someone doesn't know how to handle their emotions or want to quit when they're uncomfortable as they're not willing to fight through it. by the way, girls do this shit too as we're all human
There's no sense in arguing with a woman. My ex used to get pissed off worse when I stayed calm and reasonable while she was throwing a fit, and that's pretty much all you need to know about having a "discussion" with a chick.
Wise men make a judgment call; put up with it or leave. Any other option is just a waste of time
I hate to agree with that but i have taken the red pill (not the MGTOW pill!) and thus i cannot disagree.
Because men are fixers, when it comes to some things there is no fix. Thats aggravating to the point of rage, its better for us to remove ourself rather than saying something that can be misunderstood or take that frustration out on the person we care about.
Sometimes it has to do with the foundation. If the foundation was build purely on attraction or lust then even the slightest problems can make the relationship to fall apart. As the physical is no longer in the picture. That's why I try to build the foundation on something more, link her personalty and by building our friendship first. I have found it works great and can show what kinds of a person they really are.
My fiancé and I are in a argument right now. I walked away in the sense to talk down. So far I have 30 pending text messages from him saying sorry and that to not leave him. Which I won’t and he knows that but I need a moment...
Calm down*****
Because women have a way of making it the mans fault every single time in an argument even if it is her fault or both at fault, I’ve been through this so many times with women, they manipulate during an argument, use sex as a weapon, cry to gain sympathy, use emotional abuse techniques to get their way, it’s much easier as a man too suck it up get over it and just don’t talk about it than deal with all that manipulation
I don’t think that’s an appropriate usage of “helpless”
At the very least they can say the reverse about you.
Why is it not equally valid to ask why do women keep talking when they’re spouting nonsense?
Maybe the situation has made me mad and the responsible thing to do is to take some time rather than inform a woman she’s being a bitch.
I won't have arguments where it is just the girls insecurity and jealousy that is creating the argument, i would never cheat on a partner, my father cheated on my mother, to accuse me of that is a huge insult to me. Those are the only type of arguments i would walk away from.
Same reason people don't do anything -- fear. In a lot of homes negative emotions are unacceptable. People who grow up like that can have a hard time expressing themselves when emotions run high.
Because women and men as well look for reasons to argue to cover up some other hidden agenda and I can tell when it happens and when it does I also know that no matter what you do or say the argument won't stop but it will jump from one reason to another and another and so on. Better keeping your sanity and walk away.
Not to be sexist but newflash women do it more often than men especially at this generation
If I get cash for the number of times men lost their jobs and the wives instead of supporting him leaves him and takes the kids. I would be a fucking billionaire
I don't think that guys run away when things get hard. I believe women drive them away by trying to force to much responsibility on them all at one time. No offence meant but i believe that also plays a big part in it. Relationships are a 2 way street.
Why does anyone run away when things get hard? It's because it's hard. We don't know how it will end, and we don't want to try it because it's hard to do it. People of today want things to be easier, more picturesque like in a movie or tv show (or a book if you still read those).
I am sorry that some people do this. Both genders. I prefer to talk it out, no one leaving. Until its sorted out. My best guess as to why they do it Is that's how they were brought up.
men dont like confrontations and aren't as emotional as us ladies. Still doesn't give the right to not want to discuss serious matters though
Look at it this way when you mad you say things that you dont mean sometimes it's better to walk away and calm down then come back with a cooler head
@bklynbadboy1 You are right
Women in the same guise do this too. It's happened twice to me. That said the guys that are heartless buggers. They do this as they think that physical or mental problems equate to you not being the whole person you were.
Havn't heard this one yet: Some girls tend to bring up the same issues over and over again. A girl might complain a lot to her boyfriend and when she complains that he needs to listen more he is tired of it.
Thise passive-aggressive people who do that are doing you a favour. Move on and be happy with someone mature.
cause in this day and age, what's the gain from dealing with "hard" stuff, when you can just leave and look for something more easy?