Stop feeling shit about yourself because destroying yourself while still living is the dumbest shit you will ever do, especially the self harm with food.
You aren't weird, just pretend you are someone else and you get better in time with socializing.
You have anxiety, get it sorted so you can finally walk around and not be constantly worried what everyone is thinking about you.
Stop being jealous of your older sister, she will always be a bitch who isn't as smart as you.
Stop trying to find validation from other people you will never find it, but just know you are a good person and better than all the people who ever had something to say.
Enjoy your youth and be happy because this is the only time you won't be pressured by anyone or have any responsibilities.
Never fall in love it is the worst thing you will ever put yourself though.
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If you live your life by the standards of other people, you will never be happy. Hating your body doesn’t make you modest, it makes you miserable. Life is not a race, you don’t have to meet the same milestones as everyone else to be considered a person. You already are a person, you exist and therefore you are a person. The idea that you have to be a specific person to be a person is just conformity. You don’t have to do it if you don’t want to and you will be okay.
This would be a rough thing to try and explain to younger me, but I think he would probably appreciate hearing it; but I would tell him "if they wanted to, they would."
If they wanted you around... they would invite you. If they wanted to make you feel appreciated, they would tell you.
I spent way too much of my life trying to appease people who I didn't recognize didn't want me around. And regardless of whatever the reason was that they didn't want me around, I should have recognized that they didn't. And I guess I just didn't ever really make the connection that the reason it felt like work to maintain the friendships was because they didn't want to be my friends.
It's kind of a sad realization to make.
You have to get with Julie to have the most awesome son you'll ever have; but don't give her 200% like I did. After 3 nervous breakdowns, you'll figure out your son, NOT JULIE, was the answer to your prayer: "To find someone who loves me as much as I love them."
It would take 23 years to find the woman who loves me that way. And I married her 2 years after that.
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Always put God first and you need to work on your study and be kinder to parents.
Like a high school basketball coach once said, "It doesn't matter whether you win or lose it's how you play the game." "And even that doesn't matter very much."🤣
Run your race. Most people's opinion don't mean squat.
Start investing young (responsibly, not crypto or NFTs), don't give into peer pressure, look for the road less traveled and go that way for your future, you don't HAVE to go to college or do this or that. Look for the unorthodox even if conventional options are your choice (ie. College)
Also try more new things, step out of your comfort zone while it's all in a controlled environment since you're a minor. It'll make it easier to do these things when you're an adult.
I can't give any advice because I don't know what dire consequences that would have on my life. I like who I became.
Never let others convince you that you are not capable of achieving something.
Get into computers and tech and don't try to pursue acting.. Also start working out now!..
Collect more baseball cards. And most of your life will be spent after high school. Start getting ready for it.
Don’t waste time on sports. Play one sport ur freshman and unless ur phenomenal at it, have an after school job the rest of high school and save your money.
When kim wants to fuck your brains out in 1992 DO IT!!
Don't be scared to face your fears
Get everything in writing.
Keep doing stuff u love and are good at
Live authentically. Take risks, now’s the time
Keep going you will become me
See a therapist
Invest sooner
Buy Bitcoin.
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