if you truly want an abortion get an abortion. if you dont want an abortion, dont get one, it's as simple as that. fuck what your mom says, it's your life and body not hers. she sounds kinda unhinged and very brainwashed. abortion doesn't get you a ticket straight to hell anyways unless you never oh so slightly repent before your death, and that's if abortion is an actual sin at all stages of pregnancy because i'm not sure the bible talks about it
also i mean nobody has to know you had one. like just keep it a secret, dont think your mom would go babbling around that you had one either
I know that sounds scary, but you've got to do what's best for yourself. Having a baby when you're not ready is a big deal. And it's your body, so you get to decide what happens.
Is your doctor helping arrange everything for an abortion? Tell them what's going on, so they know your mom doesn't approve but you want them to handle everything privately. Planned Parenthood or women's clinics can also give you support.
Don't let your mom bully or guilt trip you. She had her chance to raise kids already. This is about your future. And who cares what gossips think - they're not the ones dealing with a baby!
Remember, you have options and people who can help. You'll get through this. And maybe give your mom some time - she'll see you're strong and happy in your decision. You've got this!
I mean if you have a husband why not start a family? Are you not planning on having kids at all? Like would you get an abortion and just have kids in 5 years when you’re ready? If that’s the case I wouldn’t do it. Poor people always have a bunch of kids that they get government benefits for, you can do that too. And if your mom is against it you can make it a condition that she has to help you a lot with the baby.
Ask your mother if she will be the one providing for this baby since you have communicated with her you can’t. See what her answer is, and then do whatever you want. You are an adult, you made an adult decision and it is your choice on what you want to do.
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Abortion is a difficult topic. Remember that the decision is yours, whatever you decide. People may diss you, whether you continue the pregnancy or not.
u A baby would be inconvenient so you would like to kill it. Do you have any children other than the baby inside of you?
If there is no danger of harm to you or the unborn child, you should carry the pregnancy through to birth.
You have a husband and a family to help you.
Seeking an abortion just for your convenience is wrong, and it feeds the flames of discontent among the Right to Life people.
And exactly how is she managing that? Just go get the abortion and your mother can mind her own damned business.
You are an adult and have to make your own choices on what to do with your body. She probably wants to be a grandma... but has to respect your wishes.
Screw her, its your body and life. Get it done and let her talk shit. She doesn't matter.
Then you shouldn’t have gotten married. You weren’t ready for that either. People get married for love, but a big part of marriage is starting a family. Where’s your husband in all of this?
this is what pro-abortionists call "healthcare"
no, just give your kid up for adoption then and learn to control your sexual urges
You pregnant from your husband, not from a stranger, I don't think that you should do that.
I'm not sure you'll rot in hell forever but, you could rot in hell a bit. Why didn't you think that before sexuality?
Perhaps you should listen and be more careful in the future.
Says you are 23 so...
Maybe consider adoption
Maybe you'll end up thanking her one day
Do not use abortion - it is murder.
Your mom cannot do that, since you’re an adult.
Go get one and say it was a miscarriage.
You are an adult. Your mom isn't in charge of you
That's for you to decide
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