Why don’t do men treat women the way women treat men?

[Peridot25]

For example, when a woman approaches a guy, he calls her a creep. Or, if the woman doesn’t make enough money, the guy rejects her. What is stopping men from doing these things?

[hahahmm]

Men & women don't think the same way. We are different due to biology. A lot of feminists & simps used to argue that we are only different due to how we're raised but then scientists went out to the jungle, found some really young monkeys & tossed a bunch of human toys out in front of them. The female monkeys picked up the dolls & tried to nurture/comfort the stuffed animals. The male monkeys played with the race cars. Boom. There's social stuff that goes on top of that. Your parents can raise you to be a real man (aka traditional man) or they can raise you to be a soft simp (soy boy) type going against nature. Either way society will hold a man 100% responsible for every action and only hold women responsible for maybe 10% or less of what they do. It is what it is.

Now we're in a world where a woman can get a man arrested on false rape/groping charges easily. His whole career is ruined and maybe he even does 5 years in prison and gets added to the sex registry for life. Even if she admits to lying she gets zero punishment and doesn't even have to pay back money she got awarded. Us men have to be careful how we deal with women because women have a lot of unfair advantages today that they can use against a man.

So you have the freedom to run your mouth... men do not. Men tend to grow up knowing they're expected and required to have SOME self control. A guy knows if he says/does the wrong thing he can get punched in the mouth or knifed to death any random day. Women tend not to have this concern/possibility. Men also know that we can do the violence to others too -- well some of us know. Some of us are too feminine to think/be like that too, due to being brainwashed into thinking and acting like the woman's idea of a "safe" male. As retarded as that is.

[RiseofArtemis]

So you want men to say women are creeps, slander them in the work place, make fun of them, reject them harshly, lead them on for years put them in the friend zone and make them think they have a chance but they never will, have impossible standards for their future partner but sleep around with anyone they want.

Outright create laws that prevent them from getting high paying jobs, have gender quotas in all positions of jobs where a certain amount of seats has to be filled by men even if they are underqualified which prevents qualified women to obtain said seat. Have women be fired from their job if a man says they got harassed by her with no way of knowing if its the truth but just his word alone. Have more men than women attend University which makes more men have degrees than women putting them at a disatvantage in the job market.

I'm thinking that you created this question as a Troll post or really don't know the truth how women actually treat men in reality. But hey all women see are only the more succesful men, the others don't even exist for them.

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Because the man wants sex & if a woman is approaching him, he feels like more than half the work is already done for him. As one guy on YouTube said when asked "Why do guys have sex with women that they don't even like?" his response was "Just because I don't like you, doesn't mean my penis doesn't like you." But to further answer your question, most men want sex, most women want a relationship/a connection/a good-looking partner/patience/compassion/an impressive partner that they can tell their friends & family about/etc. It's a long list for most women, but a super short list for most men. He doesn't care about any of that stuff most women care about. Sex is the goal. He'll overlook all of that other stuff for sex.

[Peridot25]

So, if a guy approaches me, he only wants to use me. Yeah that sounds about right.

[Peridot25]

Had that happen throughout my entire life. Guys never liked me but still wanted to use me for just sex.

[DarkLegacy]

Lol someone is salty, the asker needs to realize that women have never been any good at trolling.

[Angelo75]

Well this is harder than you think.

One very simple reason is, the average women is driven by emotions while the average men is driven by logic.
I'm just talking about average here. Ofcourse there's going to be exceptions, but the very way of reasoning of women compared to men has differences.

So trying to expect men to take behavioural decisions like a woman does (or the other way around) is basically just as difficult as expecting a bird to behave like a horse.
They're just different.
None is inferior to the other. But just "different".

[Anonymous]

Well that's simple. How many women do you think approach guys? It doesn't happen with any real regularity.

It's the unwritten rules, dynamics of dating. If women were told they had to approach men to EVER date. Some women would choose just to NEVER date again.

What I'm trying to say is most men know thier dating pool is limited to begin with you're asking him to further limit it by instituting arbitrary rules because women do it.

In short women have this LUXURY in dating. Men do not.

[Juxtapose]

Because those are shallow, illogical behaviors that are not intrinsic to men at all. We don't have a desire to mate select based on resources and a woman making the first move is very welcome.

If a woman working a minimum wage job approached me first I would have nothing bad to say about her based solely on that.

[sawno]

Men don't tend to care about being sexually objectified for example, thats just an opening to sex to them. They aren't feeling physically threatened by the woman and due to lack of approaches will probably find it flattering. We also don't care about money since we have that, we care about her being a good mother for our children for example. Its just not comparable.

[Unit1]

Maybe because we are the kinder ones, that don't do what these particular women are doing?

Most women don't approach men, so men don't get to call them creeps.

Most men seem to not care about how much money women are making. If some men are like me, they're looking for real love, not the "give me stuff and I'll love you" type of love.

[Juxtapose]

Oh my fucking god your last sentence really hits the nail on the head.

"Give me stuff and I'll love you" is EXACTLY what a lot of these women want but won't admit.

[Unit1]

@Juxtapose That's right. Andrew Tate has pointed this out too, stating that if he met someone, who just gave him things he couldn't afford he would feel pretty fond about that person too. That's shallow female love.

[hahahmm]

Okay but I would argue that women are simply not (biologically) wired to give a F about a man. And it doesn't bother me because if I think about what our male ancestors needed from women, I don't think it was "emotional support" or "love". I don't think the guys building the Roman Empire were unable to get out of bed if women didn't pump up their ego. They just had this self motivated drive to be the best men they could be & that is what I have wanted to be since I thought about it all. The only thing I require from my woman is loyalty and respect. I think it happens that those things will manifest in ways some call "love" but is it really the kind of love that leads a man to take a bullet for his woman at 3AM when ninjas swoop into the house? I don't think so.

[Juxtapose]

@hahahmm I don't want some helpless maiden who gets all the affection and all I get is some sort of warrior respect. That sucks ass!

I want a woman who if there is ninjas at 3:00 a. m., she will be right by my side.. utterly refusing to let me face evil by myself. THAT'S real love.

[hahahmm]

@Juxtapose You'll never really know because some of them are better actresses than anything you've ever seen in a movie. Sure, a small percentage of women are basically Amazonian warriors tho.

[TracyF]

Women are loved unconditionally. Men are loved conditionally. Women's value in society is sex, mens value is money. That's society. Society is trash. I believe men and women should both be loved and appreciated for who they are, and not what they are. But the world won't change just cause we see how crazy it is.

[Peridot25]

What’s your parents’ relationship like? Did they get married because they wanted to or because of sex and money? This is legit question.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not sure why, I defer to the old saying if you want to attract the queen bee use honey, not vinegar.

If she is being sweet on you, you do the same thing for her and treat her with respect.

[DarkLegacy]

WTF parallel Universe are you living in. It is the other way round, i think you are just salty about being rejected for not being attractive enough

[Peridot25]

Yep! You’re absolutely right. And you’re always right no matter what.

[DarkLegacy]

Good response

[Peridot25]

You know everything about me it’s crazy.

[DarkLegacy]

I wouldn't call it crazy

[Peridot25]

It is crazy. Because we haven’t met in person, but you know my whole entire life story.

[Peridot25]

Oh! Tell me where I met my best friend.

[DarkLegacy]

You give a lot away

[Peridot25]

Guess where I was born

[Peridot25]

What high school did I go to?

[DarkLegacy]

I live in the UK so how would i know

[Peridot25]

Well, you know everything about me so I assumed you knew.

[236color]

Look up "drizzle, drizzle" on YouTube.

[HighValue]

Men care about people more than women do most of the time, that is why men often treat others better.

[Joshydavid25]

Well, most women are fairly friendly towards stranger men.. It's certain types of women that act that way towards men.. I guess that's why.. I suppose..

[mayurr]

I treat women the way they treat men.

I never approach them.

Sometimes if a woman talk to me respectfully then I also do the same. In short it depends on their behavior.

They get back what they give.

[FunkyMonkee]

Because, then, NOBODY would ever get married and have kids and human race would die out.

[Peridot25]

Why do people make that sound like a bad thing?

[FunkyMonkee]

Because, after all the money we've spent making roads, buildings and tennis courts, when we're gone, who would use them?

[Peridot25]

Animals

[Telekinetic-Potato]

We don’t understand why women do those things and view it as disgusting behavior

[ProbablyClueless]

If men treated women the way women treat men, no one would ever form relationships ever.

[Peridot25]

Eh. We’re already going down that road anyway 🤷‍♀️

[ProbablyClueless]

Sad but true! And unfortunately, we can see that the state of relationships leaves a lot to be desired.

[Balancee]

You're wrong. Because these situations bring out the worst in people. In the same way, a woman who is powerful in status treats a man who is lower in status badly.

[Anonymous]

lol a majority of men don’t do that. There’s a handful maybe, but you’re mistaking that w things a lot of women do.

[LiamJHayden]

I have always been flattered when a lady approached me, and I really do not care how much or how little she earns.

[dudeinohio]

I don't think any guy will shoot down a woman if she approached a guy.