I have pretty wide shoulders, but the rest of my body is toned and fit. I feel like they stand out like a sore thumb and Im wondering if I should embrace them or hide them. Turn on or turn off?
1. Are your hips feminine or masculine? Your hips should be wider than a man's of the same height. If they aren't maybe your body fat is too low. When a woman's body fat is too low she loses some feminine body characteristics.
2. A guy never saw a woman's shoulders and thought that was a problem, in my opinion. More like how is your overall look. This is what guys really notice. It's why the same guy who likes big boobs does NOT want big boobs with a woman who has a face he finds disgusting.
3. See my reply on Gentlemen, what body type do you prefer for women, or find attractive? where I wrote: "To me this is a trick question. I'm old school. Women are supposed to have nice hourglass proportions or at least be smart enough to wear clothes that make it look like they have better proportions. You see, if a woman is an idiot, she looks less feminine than she otherwise would. And a lot of women are even intentionally idiotic today. Obese green haired freaks with cowbells on nose rings & similar"
It never crosses my mind. The woman in the photo looks perfectly normal to me. I would never have given her shoulders a second thought in real life.
So you'd rather hide a part of your body that some men might not be attracted to than just live your life and wear what you want? You make it dependent on some randos if you should be embarrassed about your body? Jeeesh... You need to sort that mindset out.
A lot of models have wide shoulders and it's beautiful. Helps balance the proportions out. Flaunt it girl! 🤗â¤ď¸
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Sort of is a turn off to me. Sorry.
Usually the outside of a woman's arms are in line with the outside of her hips. Potentially your hips may be slim rather than your shoulders wide.
The girl in the pic is accentuating this with how she is holding her arms. It would look different if held her forearms differently. Some girls tuck their elbows into the waist and hold the forearms E-W. Some other girls hold their hands in front of them as though carrying a clutch purse
Both looks quite cute and femme. Could try if you want to de-accentuate your shoulders.
Hm, well, some guys may have a hang-up with them being wider than their own, this can happen. If I had to guess, I'd guess it's 50/50 that guys your age would care. But I've seen several people, some are even celebs, that flaunt their nontraditional, overly-noticable qualities & it makes them more attractive through that confidence & having something that others don't.
By you collapsing your shoulders in as you are in the picture - it diminishes your attractiveness. Keep those shoulders aligned and solider on.
If you're cut and wide that's fine. Shoulders are sexy. If you're fat and wide not so much. Since you seem to be in the former category, embrace it.
Well if that's "almost identical", then you need to be an "almost model" because she's fantastic.
i prefer wide shoulders as i wrote recently.
Looks good and slim. Nothing to worry about.
I prefer what's between the shoulders, especially what's inside a woman's head.
Women tend to take one feature on their body that they don't like and turn it into a catastrophy.
Just do you and do what you like. Donât hide anything, some men may not like it, but some will! No one is perfect so we should all stop trying to be.
I'd say before it use to be a major turn off. Now it's a complete no go, because of the high probability of being a tranny.
They're not a turn off. I wouldn't exactly say they're a turn on either. It's not something I consider.
Fairly wide shoulders are great on a bosomy woman.
I have strong shoulders... definitely get a lot of looks from guys !!!
If u are looking so skinny and tall like the above pic. It would actually look very structured and sexy
Wide shoulders only look good on tall women.
Compared to me, every woman is tiny; So why would I care?
my former girlfriend had bulldozer shoulders really thick they look like they are padded. I never seen that before.
I don't think I ever cared about that.
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