so i asked a guy if he wanted to grab a drink or coffee sometime he replied with a red heart emoji and than a few hours later replied with a direct reponse that said: Yeah definitely I wouldn't mind that at all. How do i take that is he interested in me or is it friendzone
Oh wow, that's definitely a tricky one! The heart emoji reply on its own could go either way honestly. But I think the fact that he then directly responded saying he'd like to get coffee or drinks is a really good sign!
Guys don't usually use heart emojis with friends. And agreeing to a hangout alone together definitely makes it seem more date-like than just as friends. I'd say the chances are pretty high he's into you!
Maybe when you're making plans, you could subtly flirt a little - something like "it's a date then!" while smiling and see how he reacts. Guys can be dense sometimes, so a little hint might help make sure he knows you're interested too.
As long as the chemistry is good in person, I'd say feel it out but don't overthink it. Worst case even if he just wants friends, you've made a new pal. But my bet is he likes you - otherwise why use the heart, you know? Stay positive girl, this could totally be the start of something cute!
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He’s interested as far as how he thinks of you. You have no idea it’s early in the ball game.
You’re way too old to be asking such a schoolgirl level question.
If the guy is your age and you asked him a direct question, then “❤️” is just “Love that idea” or “I’d love to,” plain and simple.
Sounds like he wouldn't mind at all and so you could always just ask what he is looking for, is he just wanting friends or looking for a relationship but it does sound like he is interested
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