Guys, What's the big deal?

[DishLady]

A friend and I were chatting yesterday about how much more tortured guys seem to be about trying not to stare at "a nice rack" today than they were about avoiding the medieval torture rack... And, both being women, we wondered precisely why boobs are so unabashedly attractive to you lot. I mean, aesthetically, ok, I get the whole appeal of a bouncy curve here and there... it's feminine and all that. However I've literally seen guys loose their ability to think logically just because a woman leans over a little too much or has a little bit of a jiggle in her walk... So what's the big draw for you?

I'd get it if it was just a sexual thing, but clearly there's more to it. So have at it... (Keep the comments as clean as possible. I'm not asking for a diary entry about what gets you off, just your honest opinion about what the big draw is.)

[RingOfFire]

I'd like to avoid saying it but in fact it is a purely sexual thing.

Womens' bodies are designed to induce men to have that certain physical reaction. It's instinct not logic. Men's brains and body chemistry are designed to see a certain body shape and details and have a reaction that is conducive to reproduction. That's nature and evolution.

Instinct cannot be explained in terms of logic. It just is. Men are sexually stimulated by the appearance of women's bodies. As I learned it in a biology class many many years ago, human women are the only animal species with swollen breasts and they were designed to sexually attract men to promote reproduction. It's part of the design of the human species. They are sort of an advertisement showing off fertility.

As a woman your brain and body wiring and chemistry is different from a man's, so you are not able to have the same physical stimulation or reaction to seeing breasts that men have. So you can appreciate the aesthetics, and maybe even a little bit of the exoticness, but it's not the same. Men experience an actual physical reaction and sexual stimulation from seeing a woman's breasts and the shape and details of her body parts.

[DishLady]

Very detailed and logical. Thanks ROF!

[HawkPerception]

You know me being a logical thinker, I've wondered why too. Boobs are literally just blobs of fat with a tit on each of them. But you could technically use that logic for any part of a woman's body. Her butt is also just some fat and muscle in a specific shape. But you can definitely tell a man's butt from a woman's butt because their shapes are different and what men are attracted to. Their legs? Same thing. It's the shape of it. Their facial structure? The way they move?

All of what a woman is, is wired into men biologically to be attracted to. And certain shapes just better than others. I would say it's a mix on how healthy, fit, and how well her proportions look for giving birth that attract men, all in different ratios depending on the man.

I personally don't care about the size as much as the shape when it comes to boobs. I won't go into detail over my preference 😂

[DishLady]

I actually love this answer -- very logical indeed. Thanks HP!

[HawkPerception]

Always happy to give my opinions 😁

[Finchie40]

Because boobs are something most of us guys’ don’t have , and they look amazing on a beautiful girl , most of us guys’ are very visual when we see a beautiful girl with a nice rack , we picture her naked in our arms and we picture her boobs in our mouths or bouncing while having sex with her. They are sexy to look at and sexy to touch with out hands and our mouths and our dicks as well. So that’s why we make a big deal about them. Most females’ find something on a guy , that she feels very attracted to so it goes both ways in a sense. I dated girls ‘ that loved my arms or loved my chest , or my eyes etc. , I had one girl love my arm pits as well lol so whatever floats her boat is all that matters. I prefer a girl with a nice set of tits and a nice ass , As well as a pretty face and eyes. and hair , I also like a girls’ sexy feet as well , even better if she is wearing sexy shoes. So that’s why most of us make a big deal about her boobs , I love sucking on a girls’ tits , it turns me on and it usually turns her on as well

[TonyMetal___86]

It seems that miss dish is using her special 18+ vintage channels 🤣🤣

Well like i always say, a woman's boobs are sexual wether she say yes or no, it's true that their primary goal is to breastfeed the baby but are also used to entertain her husband sexually!

I'm not so much into a woman's boobs but ofc it makes me aroused if i see them half bare or more, but you know miss dish that i have control over myself, unlike a lot of other guys who doesn't...

Usually when a woman bend over a too much of her boobs are revealed, i turn my face or just take a peak, never focus on them like a wild predator who's focusing on it's prey in the jungles, these are private parts in a woman and i shouldn't look at them if they are revealed!

I can't stop myself from making a comment on this woman in the photo that you have uploaded, these were the times where men enjoyed real women, when a husband touches his wife backthen it was all natural 😌

This woman's husband came back home one day and he didn't find a delicious meal ready on the table and asked her: "where's my goddamn meal?" She said: "chill out ma' man i'm yo goddamn meal today" 😂😂

Look at the beauty miss dish, at least each woman had looked different not a copy/paste printed women!

[DishLady]

My goodness, Tony. Rita Hayworth is actually a major Hollywood Icon and the object of attention to a really ridiculous number of guys even beyond her generation. I just pulled the one pic that didn't seem blurry on Google.

[TonyMetal___86]

I really don't care who she is, women from her era were real and the ones who were beautiful were truly naturally beautiful...

Miss dish hayworth 😁

[DishLady]

Aha, I get it. I didn't understand parts of your earlier post, then. I didn't mean to explain something you already knew. :)

[TonyMetal___86]

😁👍🏻

[OfMiceandMen]

I find them beautiful, both the breasts and the cleavage. I like how soft and feminine they look. Although, I have to be attracted to her face and other features for it to draw my attention, it's not just the breasts that do it for me. Size doesn't matter, it's more so the whole package for me.

[DishLady]

Nice. :)

[MicahRaine]

Honestly, I don't think it's that boobs have such a big "draw" to them.

Don't get me wrong, I'm a total boob guy. But also I've always been able to keep my eyes up.

I think the reason so many guys glance/look/stare is simply that they lack basic respect and self-discipline.

[Berethor]

Isn't it a comedy trope? I support the free the nipple movement so for me it not big deal.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/I_Have_Boobs_-_You_Must_Obey!

[DishLady]

Oh my...

[SixFootSexy]

Staring at women's breasts helps men live longer. It's science.

https://nypost.com/2017/03/22/staring-at-boobs-may-give-a-boost-to-male-lifespans/

[DishLady]

😂 My goodness. Yeah, I take what the NY Post says like 1/2 a grain of salt.

[Juxtapose]

It's entirely sexual, cleavage even mimics how an ass looks. It's a sexual frontal display and because they are covered up a lot it makes men go crazy when they are revealed a bit.

A good looking rack is.. magical. It's a brain hack into the primitive part of men's brain. When I first saw breasts by accident, I felt like I was going to pass out and it felt like a damn spiritual experience. It was very intense and I haven't felt something like that since.

[NathanDavis]

virgins and immature guys... problem usually

not a problem a man would have

[DishLady]

I don't know about that. I won a chess match with my ex once. I was rushing between our game and making dinner -- his fave because he'd been traveling -- and it was my turn to make a move, so I leaned over to move my piece then said "your turn" and he looked like he'd forgotten about the game, the dinner, all of it. He went straight into "pounce" mode... a grown man in his 40s.

[NathanDavis]

but that was your ex... so he's "allowed" to jump on you

I've also jumped on my exes for less reason and even no reason at all... lmao

[DishLady]

Hahaha. Ok ok, fair point.

[Danny_dan92]

Well. Honestly if I see a woman wearing a top that is purposely designed to show as much cleavage possible, I’m automatically going to think “she wants people to notice”




That being said. It depends on the context, in a professional setting I’ll glance once but that’s it.




However, if I go on a date and the woman is wearing a top like this. I will see her cleavage as more inviting (given the context of the situation)

[DishLady]

To be fair, on a date is most likely an intentional enticement, no?

At work I think women should cover up more bc I can't even tell WHAT some of these girls are wearing today. I've had to pull many a young person aside this spring to tell her not to show up to work looking like... well, you know. We have a dress code in place and the young ladies are all expected to follow it.

[bananathunder]

we are trained to like them as a kid and for some guys that probably grows into an obsession. I can appreciate a nice pair, but I can control myself lol

[DishLady]

Trained?

[bananathunder]

yeah. A lot of stuff on TV and movies focuses on girl's breasts being sexy or something that we should think are part of sex. Like, if we are making out, we should touch your breasts. And girls have to cover them up because they are something sexual. That basically trains us to think that they are a big deal

[DishLady]

Ah, ok, I get it. Social conditioning basically.

[bananathunder]

yeah pretty much. I'm sure if girls walked around shirtless, we wouldn't make any kind of fuss about breasts at all. They would be just another random body part

[DishLady]

Hmm. Maybe. I'm trying to think about parts of the mediterranean where topless/nude beaches and such are a thing... about whether anyone actually looks at anyone else. You might be right.

[bananathunder]

I'm sure breasts are less of a big deal around there... I can still imagine that people would admire a nice looking body in general though

[DishLady]

Normally, sure, but if you're surrounded by it all on a beach... it's possibly just a visual overload.

[bananathunder]

never thought of that too... I've watched enough porn that breasts aren't really a big deal to me. I still do think to myself sometimes, "Those are some nice ones..." if I see a pair that are exceptionally nice in my mind. Other than that I'll generally focus on other things going on

[DishLady]

Fair enough. :)

[bananathunder]

that's the only way I can relate to that situation since I've never been to a topless beach lol