Why is he still wanking over my vids?

[Anonymous]

My situationship with this guy ended 3 months ago. He ghosted me after admitting he had feelings.

he messaged me at 4am sending me a video of me sucking his cock saying to me “hope it’s okay I still use these” then going on about how amazing my skills are.

why? I feel kinda disturbed but I guess ego boosted hearing this. I wanna know if guys prefer their own videos? Is it because seeing yourself getting sucked is hot or is this guy trying to creep back into my life. Pretty random message I wasn’t expecting it.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. I don't have any videos of myself except for the one where proposed to the lady who is now my wife.

2. "Situationship" means we were having sex but never clarified what we wanted from each other, OR I was in a relationship that was so screwed up that I am embarrassed to tell anyone the details. Why didn't you clarify what you wanted?

3. You were horny, you wanted to get poked, and you got what you wanted, for a few months.

4. He probably wants to have sex again.

5. What do you want?

[meepmeeperton]

Probably because men make stupid decisions when horny. Getting his dick sucked by you in the first place was probably a stupid decision when horny, considering he didn't like you enough to keep you around. Now he watches the video back and wants to text you about it in the moment, and probably feels like a jackass after busting a nut. He should learn to have some self control but sadly most men don't.

[PeachyPie93]

Not too sure, since I have never let a guy record me in the act before. But I would just ignore him, they always try to creep back into your life, just because they are bored and don't have any female attention.

[DishLady]

First of all, how creepy it is that the guy is contacting you about this. There's nothing RANDOM about his message. You should probably either take the vids down or block this idiot -- both in my opinion...

[Aubrey97]

Definitely no point to sending it unless he's trying to get back in touch with you regularly and at 4AM? That's a giveaway as to his intentions. I think the guys also so love videos of themselves. It's not really an either/or necessarily. It sounds like both.

[AviatorTom]

He likes to watch porn while he wanks, and your personal porn is the best for him.

Don't be surprised if he shares them with friends, and they appear online.

It sould be an ego inflater for a guy to post a video and see "See that babe sucking cock. That's mine."

[BarryLiverstone]

Did you also have feelings for him? He was horny and thought he could send you a message and you would just fall back into the situation-ship. 4 am makes sense as guys have a daily testosterone cycle that peaks in the early morning. At least you were honest in admitting an ego boost as had he sent a random porn clip that’s got less to do with you.

[Danny_dan92]

LMFAO he wants to fuck again. That’s why he did this

[Asker]

HAHAH he ain’t getting no second chances 😉

[Danny_dan92]

Poor boy. Demonstrate this by leaving him on read. Eventually he’ll die like putting salt on a snail

[Asker]

LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣 definitely plan to!

[Danny_dan92]

Good. Have fun

[exitseven]

I would have to actually see the video to give an honest answer

[ProbablyClueless]

Personal porn lets him relive the moments he had with you.

[Nikki1989]

Most men are immature till they hit their 30s.

[jjj101010]

I don’t have any vids of myself so can’t say for sure but imagine it would be good to see them. U do t have to try and picture yourself in that situation as u have been there already

[jjj101010]

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