He is too immature?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy a lot. I’m 25 and he’s 23. He’d make slick comments when I’m on ft with him and his friends saying. “When are we about to hit the strip club?” Or references to a club. I know we aren’t dating but it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. Lately when I’d see him - he’d think it’s funny to acknowledge all my friends and forget me. But would come back and say ‘I’m kidding’ or ‘I was just joking’. Is it best to just leave him alone before I really get hurt?

[Lowly_Grump]

His jokes are about as funny as a pair of concrete underpants, and his memory is like a goldfish with amnesia. This guy is so immature, he makes a toddler look like a wise old sage. His sense of humor is as subtle as a brick to the noggin, and his respect for women is lower than a snake's belly.

My advice to you is to give this joker the old heave-ho. He's about as welcome as a fart in a spacesuit and twice as smelly. Don't let his childish antics get you down; you deserve someone who treats you with the respect and dignity you deserve.

So, tell this goofball to take a long walk off a short pier and find yourself someone who appreciates your awesomeness. You're worth more than this clown's nose of a man's shenanigans! Stay strong, and remember, you're a glittery unicorn in a field of donkeys!

[bobby_bush_eater]

I'm at a similar age and guys do like that stuff. Honestly it was never my scene (too loud too expensive) but a lot of guys just want to go to those places for clout, it's what "you're supposed to do at this age".

I wouldn't say that alone is something to run away from but speaking in private definitely bring up these concerns before you give up. Be honest with him about your expectations/goals should it develop into a committed relationship

[DishLady]

What does your dating status have to do with the strip club comment? Sounds like the guys completely forgot that you were even on the vid chat. That with the fact that he actively continues to pretend that you're not in front of him? Why are you talking to or even thinking about this guy? He sounds like a creepy loser.

[kylee2437]

All men are immature and it is on you to decide what you would like to stick around. You will never find a guy that isn’t immature by the way. If what he is doing is bothering you this early in, I’d say he’s not the guy for you

[Anonymous]

Usually it’s better for women (especially mature ones) to date older men. We’re several years ahead of men when it comes to maturity, so dating someone your own age is a gamble let alone younger. I don't know if you’ll get hurt but you’ll for sure get fed up feeling like you’re dealing with a toddler. There’s nothing sexy about that.

[BetaBucks]

If you don't like his sense of humor now, imagine what a lifetime will feel like. Besides, 90% of 23 year old guys are still children, mentally. That's always going to be a tough situation.

[Anonymous]

This is why we can't date guys younger than us. They need to be a little older so the maturity levels are even. 23 year old guys are often yet to become mature adults.