I accidentally unfollowed my crush, should I follow him again?

[Anonymous]

Its a long and complicated story but my crush already knew i like him. I sent him fr on instagram and he didn't accept it for 4 days. I was at a club and his friends made him come up to my table. We somehow ended up going for a walk and he kinda gave me a hint he doesn't like me back but when I got home he followed me back. Today i accidentally removed him, should i just let it be cause he doesn't like me back or send him fr again in a hope for us?

[_Maya_]

Doesn't matter either way. The whole thing about who follows who is overrated big time. If you want to follow him then do it. If you don't because you know he doesn't like you and following him was your way of flirting or trying to get his attention then don't follow. It isn't going to change a thing if he has his mind made up that he isn't interested in you. Just following him isn't going to make him change his opinion on that so really just do what you want. If it were me I wouldn't bother since I would know that there was no chance of us getting together. It isn't worth playing these little games of following and unfollowing for me to do it but it is up to you. Just remember it is highly unlikely to change a thing.

[HollyK21]

I definitely agree! If following him is to relay a crush that isn’t reciprocated then it’s a waste of time Asker, so do as you please.

[_Maya_]

Thanks Holly.

[Asker]

Wow thank you😊

[_Maya_]

You're welcome 💜

[lornakrys]

Follow him if you want to, but know that it won't mean that there's hope for you. If he already told you that he's not into you, following him won't change anything but friends can also follow each other so following him doesn't have to be about dating.

[RingOfFire]

I would say don't do anything just leave it the way it is. If he's interested in you he will pursue you, if he's not it's time to move on.

Although I do have a story about a girl I dated years ago. She was from a different state, but living in my area temporarily when I met her. When she went back home we connected on the same social site where we originally met.

One day I accidentally unfriended her and didn't realize it. Then when I came back I noticed she unfriended me. I found that kind of annoying so I just let the whole thing go. If she didn't even care enough to ask me what happened I lost interest.

[AviatorTom]

You "accidentally removed him" is your subconscious telling you that he may be your crush, but it's not going anywhere. You can follow him again, but don't get your hopes up.

[Anonymous]

Sorry for being blunt but there is no “us”, just you with a crush. If this guys showing signs of not being interested then move on.

[Asker]

Yeah I dont know, my friends are telling me he's totally interested so thats why Im debating. But thank you for advice😊

[Opinion Owner]

Your friends are telling you one thing, and his friends are pushing him, but how does HE feel? I don't know if you’re used to having your friends push and pry when it comes to your dating life thinking they’re helping you get off the market, but for those of us with friends like that it can be exhausting. If he were truly interested then he could reach out as well. He knows your name and could find your profile just as you easily found his, even asking your friends. The fact he’s doing nothing should say more to you than friends being in your ear.

[Asker]

you're totally right. When we were talking he was so nice and it totally made me like him even more. But yeah maybe im just delusional and shouldn't be making a fool out of myself. You opened my eyes lol

[Opinion Owner]

One thing about nice guys is that they can be good just in general but as boyfriends or potential dating partners they kinda suck lol. I actually think those guys get away with murder more often because their kind personalities immediately buys them benefit of the doubt with women. In which case I’d say learn to separate the personality from the behavior. Nice guy doesn’t always equal good boyfriend.

[HawkPerception]

LOL such a toddler question. If you have to ask this, then I doubt you're mature enough for an actual relationship. Move on.

My advice is to stop worrying about social media if you want an actual relationship.

[EmyyWolf]

Do it. Cause who cares. He’s not bullying you and degrading you. And putting you down , at the very least.

Who cares.

If and when you get hot and you glow up. You can then reject him back. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[DishLady]

Ugh. Social media drama. I’m 75% certain he won’t notice.

[PeachyPie93]

Even if he accepts it, he doesn't like you so it doesn't mean anything anyways. Might as well let it go because it just makes you look desperate, men can tell with these things.

[SotiCoto]

Are we living in a world where people take this shit super seriously now?

... Why would you even waste as much as 5 minutes of your life stewing over something so utterly trivial?

[MrDaveAPSI]

Sure. all you need to say is, i was going through and accidentally unfollowed. sorry. If he's a dick about it, then you obviously wouldn't be compatible. He should be good with it though.

[DarkLegacy]

No, i wouldn't. That ship has long since sailed and sunk.

[Feels_like_me]

Why not? If you don't they might think you're not interested in it may lead to losing an opportunity to take it to the next level

[OddBeMe]

Sure. If he did see the notification it’d be good to you refollow. He’d know it was an accidnt.

[nawtee_me]

Nope, find another crush you have had that one for to long anyway….

[AdolfWasRight1488]

Absolutely not! Do you want to make him think you like him? Are you stupid?

[slatyb]

Stop wasting time and ask him for a date.

[StudyingAuthor]

Read this: FOLLOW HIM BACK!

[Alex-Snow]

Give it a try and see what happens.

[Pterodon]

Why don’t you ask him out already?

[andy530]

Yes of course

[Asker]

Why is that?

[andy530]

Might as well be persistent

[Twalli]

It's your decision