What are things guys wish girls knew?

[coxoabean]

What are things guys wish girls knew? About the way guys think. About how you communicate... Or things guys wish girls knew when it came to dating. Things guys wish girls would understand about them.

[MrGenuine]

About the way guys think - we all failed mind-reading class. So we have to learn lessons the hard way sometimes. Give us some grace

About how you communicate - we tend to hide embarrassment with humor. tell us who what when ans where before you tell us the why.

Or things guys wish girls knew when it came to dating. - every dude needs a mixture of three women. We need a nurturer. We need a bitch. We need a best friend. Pick your times carefully when you show these sides of yourself to him.

Things guys wish girls would understand about them.- dont just point out what you think our flaws might be without understanding why they are there.

[DishLady]

Love your answer!

It's true the mind-reading thing... but guys have the "gut feeling" thing that sort of serves the same purpose...

Some girls DO give their guy a lot of grace and it gets overlooked... so use that gut feeling a bit more to sense when she's being patient with you... and then ask her why it is that she's being patient... something's bugging her. Ok?

Your communication also tends to be more linear (point a to b with the solution in progress) whereas ours is circular (thinking about a thing over and over again before moving from point a to point b). I don't know if all of womankind can change how we're wired.

I get the nurturer/bff part... the bitch I'd say is overrated, but a firm hand sometimes... pure, genuine honesty... is definitely a plus. Not all girls are comfortable doing that (or they're stuck in one mode over the other two). A guy also has to be ready for all three...

That last point is a very important one.

[BarryLiverstone]

Guess in general guys wish girls knew how they think and how to better add to their life in a motivating and healthy way.


Regarding dating guys enjoy when she steps up sometimes and pays or plans surprises for them. If she can learn a guys patterns and suggest fun things to do.

[coxoabean]

That's great to know! Thanks 4 sharing. Yaa, the paying and planning surprises for him sounds like a sweet thing to do. As he shouldn't always be the one doing things for her, but her doing things as well!

[Wallythewalrus2]

That when we become passive and no longer wish to argue, kind of go through the motions of everyday life, we have given up on our lives and our relationship. Also, don't criticize us for everything little thing we do or don't do, that YOU as women expect! Leaving the toilet seat up, making a mess when rinsing the dishes, taking the garbage out when the bag isn't full... Trust me, there are plenty of things we can criticize the lovely women in our lives about but most of us choose not to. Thank you! This felt wonderful!

[coxoabean]

That's good to know, thank you for sharing

[Gent207-2]

In a healthy mature marriage - rejection of sex hurts really badly. I can honestly say i rather piss out kidney stones the size of quarters than get rejected.

When I ask "are you okay?" That means I noticed you are not and this your chance to help me, help us address it.

When I surrender and sleep on the couch, I'm withdrawing to preserve what little peace I have left

I don't get hints - give it to me straight

[coxoabean]

That's good to know. Thanks for the opinion

[kylee2437]

I guess from my experiences of dating, is guys want women to know , let them do their hobby. Navigate your relationship in a way where you can work around what a man loves to do, and if his hobby is too much (leave him) , let him find another woman that loves the fact that he is in tune with a hobby.

[abc3643]

Everything in this excellent, spot-on book:

[jeremy_09]

and...

[coxoabean]

@jeremy_09 thanks for sharing, I'll definitely check it out

[coxoabean]

Thank you, I'll definitely have to check it out

[abc3643]

"Dr. Laura" is a bit of a loon but not too bad. I used to listen to her 30+ years ago when I lived in Los Angeles. But the 1991 book I suggested exactly answers your questions.

[coxoabean]

Ok, that's great! Thank you. I have also found a book called "For Women Only" by Shaunti Feldhahn that I have read a bit from. I enjoy adding new books to my collection and learning more

[RetroReviews]

About Snapchat filters are lame or you try to make yourself look like an animal. It's like... Mmmmk?

[coxoabean]

Lol I agree

[loveslongnails]

I'm still pondering this one, but here's the gist of what I read somewhere, and I'm paraphrasing: " No matter what combination of traits a girl possesses, be it beauty, intelligence, sexual prowess, affection, friendliness, kind heartedness, and all-around wonderfulness, there's a guy getting bored with fucking her".

I suspect you'll hear a lot of men comment "not me!", but I wonder what percentage of men in relationships this might apply to?

[SixFootSexy]

I wish women knew how easy it is to make men happy.

Believe in him, keep his belly full and balls empty. It is that simple.

Also, we don't respect hoes, even if some guys sleep with them or they are "popular" it's just for being easy and their physical beauty. The girls guys talk fondly of behind closed doors are kind, loyal, sweethearts. The tradwife types.

[Anonymous]

it's better to get married a good man as quickly as possible between 20 to 25...

treat him as king then only you can be Queen...

unless if you treat / make him feel as a worker then you can be only worker's wife... so be aware



finally true love only able to express and feel only after getting married, try to be family and joint family

[Anonymous]

that our preferences, standards and boundaries aren't impossible to achieve

only through poor choices does a girl push herself out of competition

[DevikaButts95]

What their dicks look like, apparently. Even though we don't want to know it.

[Juxtapose]

Think of all the attention and little details he pays attention to, if he is that kind of attentive guy. Us guys who are attentive are projecting what we want done to us..

[Anonymous]

How much we like to jerk off with then when they are showering

[Anonymous]

I would say if women aren't getting it by now then the problem isn't them not knowing. It's them simply not caring. Willful ignorance.

[Billlewis]

I assume you mean besides politics.

[coxoabean]

Ya, just anything

[Billlewis]

That when we take you out to dinner, it isn't necessary to spend forty five minutes to an hour making your selection... lol If we're talking during that time, that's one thing, but we're having a meal, not buying a car.

[coxoabean]

Makes sense lol

[coxoabean]

Thanks for the opinion

[Billlewis]

Sure. One time, around 1991--92, I was meeting a young woman at a suburban (Chicago) pizzeria, and when a half hour went by and she hadn't arrived, I ordered a pizza. I had sufficient time to place the order, wait for it to get to the table and sail through about half of it when she finally came sauntering in with her girlfriend as a chaperone.

[coxoabean]

Oh wow

[Billlewis]

Oh, yeah. One of the cruelest things you can do to a guy is to make him wait for a protracted period of time before he can eat. Like many guys, I simply have eat fast. Those people who say, 'If you wolf in five minutes, you won't be able to enjoy it' are full of it. She can take as long as she wants to eat; we just don't want to spend an hour sitting around waiting for it to hit the table.

[NathanDavis]

they already know me...

[Hotboy_booblover]

That they are all attractive in their own way.

[coxoabean]

That's a good one!

[stratford]

We like to be made to feel good too