Giiiirl, this guy is messy and I would not mess with him anymore if I were you. A few thoughts:
- The hot and cold routine after all this time shows he's not serious about you.
- Saying he wants to "hurt you" is a major red flag and manipulation tactic. Drop any dude who admits that.
- Getting defensive and starting fake fights when called out on his games proves he just wants to play with your emotions.
- You deserve so much better than a pen pal you never see! Don't waste more time on this nonsense.
If I were you, I wouldn't text him again. He's shown you where you stand, which is nowhere good. Go find a guy who's excited to chill with you and treat you with respect, sis! You can do so much better. This one ain't worth the headaches.
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You know the answer to this, you just don’t want to come to terms with the answer. A man that truly wants to hang out with you will not have a non chalant attitude towards it. and the fact that he’s leaving it up to you on whether you two hang out goes to show that he doesn’t truly care about this situation as much as you do. And a man keeping you in this loop for over and a year and a half is very telling that he isn’t interested in pursuing you beyond what the current situation is.
“ He asked me if I wanted to chill a couple times but never really pulled through. I’d ask him to chill and he’d answer things like up to u.”
Sex.“ I want to hang but I just want to hurt you u know”
Sex.
You are welcome.
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Wow wow wow, it’s so disappointing to see you here again after we last spoke about this situation. The whole night club kiss thing had just happened and you were pretty adamant about feeling silly for letting him use you and being done. You already know this isn’t going anywhere so why are you doing this to yourself? It’s incredibly sad man. You seemed to have more self respect than that.
Sounds like a guy not worth chasing. Why are you wasting your time? I don't think he wants anything from you...
Shouldn't you be asking him this? smh
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