He just wanted to see me in pain?

[Anonymous]

After one week of no contact my ex came all the way here to tell me he wants nothing to do with me and the baby while hugging me and telling me i won’t have a happy pregnancy because he's not going to be there and he actually has 6 kids in total by 3 different women and how he still loves me but doesn't want to be with me like dude you could've said this on the phone. Then had the audacity to say why are you crying this is all your fault Im like why would i not be crying when im carrying your child that we planned and your telling me you don't want any parts of what is inside of me so fine ill get rid of it and he’s like look how easy it is for you to say that im like what do you want me to say when your telling me you dont want it. Im like i really don't want to kill my baby and he's like your priorities is f*** up you worried about killing a baby when you threw out my helmet I'm like wow okay this is all my fault when you constantly lie and tell me your coming and don’t show up having different women calling your phone and when i question things you make me seem like I’m weak and now I'm pregnant and he is like yes it is your fault you gotta live with this one. I feel like this guy came over here just to watch me cry like why the freak are you hugging me while I’m breaking down while you say this shit and plus you drop a bomb on me by telling me you have way more kids than you told me from the beginning but calling me a liar. This pain is different but I'll be okay Im still crying now. He also said like what do you want me to do hold your hand and tell you i want to go through with this i would be lying if i told you that. My thing is why did he come all the way to see me to say this? Was it to see me cry cause he could’ve said this on the phone. Once he dropped me off he told me to call him from my window once im upstairs and when i did he blew me a kiss through up the heart signal and drove off

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that's really messed up what he did to you. Coming over just to break down and tell you awful stuff like that, of course you're gonna cry! Then acting all huggy while saying he doesn't want anything to do with the baby - what a jerk.

He totally just wanted to hurt you by coming in person. If he really didn't care he could've said it over text or something. No way he had to drive all the way there just to break the news. He must've gotten some sick thrill out of seeing you cry. That's super twisted.

You didn't do anything wrong - this is all on him. You don't lie and have other girls on the side like he does. And you're not the one who knocked someone up then pulled this BS. He's just trying to make himself feel better by blaming you instead of taking responsibility.

Please don't even think about getting rid of the baby just cause of what he said. You'll be an amazing mom. His opinion doesn't matter - he's shown who he really is. Block him on everything and don't give him the time of day anymore. You and the baby will be better off without his lame excuses and games. Stay strong - his actions show what kind of scum he is, not anything about you.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I have no words after reading that.

The only thing I would like to know is. How could you have not known he was a monster until now? Surely there must have been signs? He has to be the lowest form of life known to be living on this planet!