I think this guy likes you but you are not the dream girl he has in his mind. He is confused between fantasy and reality. Guys like that would escalate if he finds a girl closer to his fantasy.
I went through this with a girl, she was with me for the fringe benefits: free lunches, dinners, gifts and company. The day she met someone who she considered better than me, she escalated. She told me she was dating another guy. I walked away and never contacted her again. Her dream guy lasted for two weeks and maybe a one night stand. Now she is sending me messages "by mistake". You get the point. I think you should sit down seriously with him and tie the loose ends. If you are serious about this relationship make it clear to him that he is risking loosing you. If he is casual I suggest you not to waste any time. If he is ready to risk loosing you, he is not worth your time. If he is confused and a serious talk clarifies the butterflies in his head you would get what you have been working on all this time..
It sounds like he is weighing his options and more than likely seeing other girls’ as well , He only wants what he can receive from you , sadly you are just a convenience to him , not a priority , he will more than likely have sex with you if you let him , but he will also have sex with other girls’ as well while trying to play a victim instead of just accepting that he is a selfish person that only cares about himself , My advice to you, is don’t sleep with him , move on from him and find yourself a guy that will make you his priority
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Being indecisive as a man is a red flag. Dont settle for the “casual wherever the wind takes us” bullshit. Been there and done that. You’re going to end up being used for sex and discarded if you agree to that dynamic. One of the most attractive things a woman can say is no. You’re a high value woman who requires a good man’s commitment to even consider them. Don’t sell yourself short. If you do, you’ll get used.
. You have to understand his mind is made up he's just trying to change your mind he wants his cake and eat it too. . And this is where your smarts comes in and his disappears you'll put it all together and he'll just keep trying just remember you make the rules not him
Weird world we live in when women act more like men, then men do.
Decades of emasculating men has led us to this point...
Men actually are not really interested in trusting or dating women anymore. So lets. hang out and have fun, and the second its not fun any more, I am out of here.
Might have something to do with this…
And this
https://youtu.be/Zg8DfeDw04I?si=XRXlBtphwf3wmtF7
Because he wasn’t ever serious in the beginning and you agreed to be casual as well. Did you go on any dates?
He may be interested in other girls and can’t make up his mind or wants to keep playing the field.
This problem is common in men and females too.
we can, but we also want to make her happy
Some can. Ignore the rest.
Girls struggle to decide what to even wear…
That isn't a gendered trait
For the same reason women can't
For much the same reasons women can't.
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