Sooo I have a crush on one of my classmates and he knows it cause I like an idiot accidently told him I like him and he is cool with it now one of my good friends asked him if he knows that I like him then why doesn't he date me? And he replies saying " she is way too beautiful to date " what does he mean by this I mean he is a good friend of mine and we chat and share notes with each other as well as talk on random stuff and he also know I like him and he is cool with it
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Can y'all just tell me like is he interested and he is hiding it or is this just normal
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Can't know exactly for sure what he really meant by this without more context, I think it'd best to just ask him yourself, if he doesn't wanna date you then it'll be the fact that he doesn't wanna date you.
Do you perceive yourself to be beautiful? Do you have a lot of pursuers that might make him feel scared to be with you? Does he have enough confident that he thinks he deserves a beautiful girl? Normally a guy won't let a girl pass by simply he thinks she is beautiful, it's very uncommon.
"he is a good friend of mine and we chat and share notes with each other as well as talk on random stuff". He could just see you as a friend, not necessarily romantic feelings.
"he knows that I like him then why doesn't he date me?" Just because he knows someone likes him doesn't mean he will date her if he has no romantic feelings for her.
There could be many reasons why he doesn't wanna date you now, could be he has a crush on someone else, or he has his things to deal with right now. I encourage you to ask him so that you will have a clear answer.
Okkk thank you😇
When guys say that, its an excuse not to ask you out. They are too chicken.
So u mean he is scared to ask me out?
Yes, that's correct.
But he already knows that I like him? Then why is he scared 🤔
He probably lacks self confidence.
Yaa I mean he does. So what ur saying is that by this story u think he likes me but is just scared?
Yes, he is scared.
Okkk thank you it was helpful 😇😇
You're welcome.
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He is insecure