He only calls to check what I’m doing. Is he interested?

[Anonymous]

Ex. Today he called me just to ask me where I am and to let me know he’s watching everything I post to analyze me. He just calls me to to know what I’m doing and ends the call. Sometimes we do have longer conversations but most of the time is for that. Lately he gets upset or won’t let me end the call first until he has to go. 🙄 We’re just friends. Sometimes he stops taking to me if I mentioned other guys (but I’m single and I thought we were friends. We’ve been talking for 3 months already. He’s taking things very slow. Never insinuated inappropriate things. We’re just friends. He told me he likes me a few days ago though and I like him too.

[KittyKat90210]

I think he's interested in controlling every aspect of your friendship/relationship. He sounds stalker-ish and obsessive. Constantly checking to see where you are, what you're doing, and telling you that he's watching your posts to analyze them. None of this is normal. He gets upset if you need to end the call, because that takes some control away from him. He stops talking if you mention other guys. One more thing that's outside his control. Actually, when you put the calls, the checking on you, analyzing your posts, and stopping his conversation if you mention other guys... it sounds like he's stalking and keeping track of your interactions with other guys. Have you been with any of the guys that he knows about? If he knows that you're seeing someone it could lead to unpredictable behavior from him.

I'd be cautious with him. I realize he's your friend, but he's raising some red flags for me. You don't "owe" him information about where you are and what you're doing. He shouldn't need to know this at all times. If you'd like to continue your friendship I would try to discuss what his objective is. Is he hoping to get back together?

Good luck with this.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If he's a "friend" that sounds a little creepy and maybe even borderline dangerous. He needs to respect your life over his. Next time, hang up on him and if he blows up, take it as a sign that he's way more possessive of you than he needs to be.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Soooooo... you're getting possessive behavior out of this guy, but not all the sexy stuff that usually comes with that?

Sounds kind of off to be honest. It's like he's "mate guarding" without making you his mate. Wasted energy in my opinion... if I was his friend I'd be genuinely interested in what the fuck he's bothering himself with all that for.

[Guy13]

It sounds like he is focused solely on you despite what he says. He seems very controlling to me.

[Sour-rose]

O he's one of those mofos who think you're a dog. A dog they can have a leash around but still keep it at a safe distance to think you have control but he's gonna want more control than you. Should be careful around said guy.

[the-mad-german]

Ex-Lovers NEVER EVER wanna be your "freind" if they keep stick around you they still hope for some form of relationship or sex.

[RockyHammock]

If he is your ex and you have no kids together, why do you entertain his advancements. You broke up for a reason.

[Mayo503]

So go and see him tell him how you feel and maybe you can work something out for the both of you or do you want him more than just friends …?

[Stevefiveo]

That fact that he gets jealous about other guys means that he wants to be more than friends with you.

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, he's only interested in that poosy, ma'am

[Nikki1989]

He sounds controlling. Too many red flags. Move on.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a controlling narcissist to me. I’d block him all over and change your number.

[MountAverage]

So, he's a possessive control freak. And you're into that? Sounds like you got issues.

[Liliana-jam]

Sounds very stalker-ish to me too. That's not healthy.

[the_bruh]

Quick question, how long have you known him for?

[Asker]

3 or 4 months.

[the_bruh]

Does he know your personal life? Family?

[Wise4myage]

He sounds like a control freak.

[In_Trance]

Stop interacting with your ex

[teddybearthefirst]

That is another way of caring ❤️🌹

[Nuthouse]

He is being noisy on your personal life

[Julia1244]

Probably !!

[Iron_Man]

Not sure