So does a man not ask me out because he just simply doesn't like me as much as I like him or at all? Thoughts on this man?

[Anonymous]

I thought he liked me cause he gave me compliments like saying i must have tons if guys texting me and i must get tired of them and he also insinuated im smart. I always wondered of he was plain flattering me or if he really thoguht/meant that kinda stuff that he said. But he hasn't asked me out or made moves towards me and it has been a long time now and I am worried maybe this whole time i secretly loved him and he could tell and yet never liked me back just liked the idea that i was infatuated. And trust me i am not the only girl into him. He has that pete davidson effect. he's just sexy without really trying to be. I see many women how they act around him. They get get nervous, and give off signs that i can tell.. Heck i fell in love at first sight with him and soon after the strong lust for him came outta nowhere. He was just sitting there in front of me and i got a glimpse of his arm/elbow area and got physically turned on. You tell me how a mans elbow made my vagina aroused. YOU TELL ME. exactly. He just has IT. I know it and almost every other girl feels it. The funny part is there was one girl we work wth who i never saw her give off any hint she was at all interested and later i heard about how he asked her out (and got rejected apparently) and also he would gossip and sounded jealous of her and another guy we worked with dating each other. I remember thinking to myself why would he ask her out when it was clear to me she had no interest in him. I thoght it was random as hell that he would ask her out. I never sensed any chemistry between them or anything. I mean i knew he was a bit of a manwhore so he would sleep with anything probably (this is just my impression from how he talks about himself... Im not just sitting here judging ole man and making up stuff lol). So it wasn't surprising on his end but the fact he would go after someone not even into him was funny to me.

Maybe its true that men want who they can't have. 🤣

[jst4fun]

Ok, I think you’re trippin girl lol YOU want what you can’t have. Maybe he does too, and maybe other people out there are the same way. But he probably senses you like him and he’s complementing you because he means it. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t think those things about others too, it’s not super rare. The things he said to you were basic and kinda flirty. If he wanted to ask you out I’m thinking he would’ve done so, but chances are he won’t unless something casually comes up for you guys to do together. But ultimately I want to stress that whatever you do, never tell him he has the Pete Davidson effect, please don’t… I mean this.

[Asker]

Damn, why the hate for the Pete Davidson effect? xD

But thanks your probably right. I honestly had no clue those were basic compliments i thought they were special damn :s i really fell for that stuff. Frustrating. I probably never would have assumed he liked me if it wasn't for those stupid compliments.

[DavidRaul]

Yoi clearly knew he was manwhore. Why focus on a man who focuses on a bunch of women. That man can never be trusted. You seem genuine. Try to find a good guy for yourself who respects you. I don't know why women fall for the wrong men

[DavidRaul]

*you

[Asker]

I fell in love at first sight. It's hard for a woman to let go. I had no clue he was a manwhore until later on when he started revealing that by his words. I tried to stay away and keep a distance as soon as I found out but I also kept noticing how sexually attractive he was and believe me I was trying to stay away. I wasn't flirting with him or chasing him and stuff like other girls might do. So if a guy is not only someone you fell in love with but also the sexual attraction is the highest you ever felt... Yeah you try ignoring that.

I dont get any attentuon from good guys.

[DavidRaul]

Yeah its normal to let go knowing every bad aspect about him. You seem nice, any good guy would date you, believe me

[Asker]

Thanks man xx means a lot i hope one good man asks me out one day cause i need one

[DavidRaul]

Yeah dont worry, hopefully you going to encounter him soon