which guy you're talking about. A Boyfriend should always reply as soon as he can. others I don't think I even reply to girls unless it's necessary. I only reply to my girl. and I reply when I can.
Wrong some people sadly are very busy and work more than one job where they are unable to look at their phones where the only time they really get off is to sleep for the next day of 2 - 3 jobs
Doesn't mean he is playing games or not interested he could genuinely trying to survive in a world where no money can equal starvation, homelessness even death
Maybe some guys are just nervous about texting back, In my case, I try to reply fairly promptly, on the other side of the coin, I've messaged women I've met & gone days without a reply, I think it happens to everyone.
because we actually do things other than be on our phones 24-7, most the good guys (the ones you actually want) avoid being on our phones around others more than nessary.
If girls do the same just answer the question from your side and you get your answer i guess. And please dont say that girls should make hard to get while boys dont, thats bulshit
I just blocked a guy who would continuously hit me up and make plans and before the plans were finalized just stop hitting me up. Then hit me up again. I've realized he's just like this. And when I got mad about it he called me impatient. No you're just acting like a child and can't make legitimate plans. So I blocked him bc the back and forth was endless and pointless. We spent more time making plans and not meeting up then actually meeting up.
Im a shy guy myself so whenever i send a lady a message they take so long to respond so even though. Know they are busy or lost interest i move on from the situation
I don't know much what's they do there, but my friend he's text me when his break time or business guys they're answer some question when their break or have some business in toilet, also i am. Maybe we're lost attention, then they haven't business to talk with us.
by long what do you mean? my ex would flip if I didn't respond in less then 3 mins but she could take alllllllll day if she wanted to. it not urgent. if you need an answer right away, call.
I usually always have my phone on me. So you'll get a response within minutes unless i'm in class or at work. So yeah, its just the ones you're texting. It takes less than 10 seconds to respond so i don't really see an issue.
I don't know, sometimes I send a text and throw phone in pocket or car console. dependant on the situation I can sometimes not realize how much time passes. It's not intentional. if it's an important convo, then I may keep my phone in hand. Totally situational.
Why do you assume it means playing hard to get. For me, I rarely check my texts except for when I'm on break. And I don't even check them everyday, so If you message me in the morning, I may message you around lunch or at the end of the day, or when I'm going to bed for the night unless I don't check my messages today and respond when I check tomorrow.
That depends. Are you just getting to know each other and dating? It's a power play so you don't think he's desperate for your attention. Are you in a relationship? He either sucks at texting, doesn't want to talk, or is just busy.
I personally am a fast texter, and also hate when it takes a long time, unless i know she's at work or doing something where it's logical for her not to check her phone a lot
Guys sometimes take a long time bc we don't want to seem desperare. some girls get pissed off if they instantly get a response. it just depends on the girls on if we reply quick or not
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which guy you're talking about.
A Boyfriend should always reply as soon as he can.
others I don't think I even reply to girls unless it's necessary.
I only reply to my girl.
and I reply when I can.
I take a few minutes to reply because I first try to make sure I say the right things. I still end up saying the wrong things though
It could be that they are bad texters or that they just aren't on their phone all the time
I'm horrible at responding so as long as he eventually replies (hopefully within the same day) I'm fine.
Usually indicates that the person is not very much interested or likes to play games and act like an immature child.
Wrong some people sadly are very busy and work more than one job where they are unable to look at their phones where the only time they really get off is to sleep for the next day of 2 - 3 jobs
Doesn't mean he is playing games or not interested he could genuinely trying to survive in a world where no money can equal starvation, homelessness even death
You are completely over exaggerating but I get the point lol
I was only using myself as an example as I work 3 jobs so I very rarely have time to message people just the occasional chance I get to reply
And you still have time to be on this site and socialize that's great.
I would say usually when we fancy someone the time it takes for them to reply is emphasized by our desire for them to reply as quickly as possible.
yes they know, most are idiots that thing that it'll make a girl want them more... it's even in one article on wikiHow 😂
Maybe some guys are just nervous about texting back, In my case, I try to reply fairly promptly, on the other side of the coin, I've messaged women I've met & gone days without a reply, I think it happens to everyone.
because we actually do things other than be on our phones 24-7, most the good guys (the ones you actually want) avoid being on our phones around others more than nessary.
If girls do the same just answer the question from your side and you get your answer i guess. And please dont say that girls should make hard to get while boys dont, thats bulshit
We got only so much time in our life, so we go out and be adventurous, at least we don't leave you on "read" like you do with us
I just blocked a guy who would continuously hit me up and make plans and before the plans were finalized just stop hitting me up. Then hit me up again. I've realized he's just like this. And when I got mad about it he called me impatient. No you're just acting like a child and can't make legitimate plans. So I blocked him bc the back and forth was endless and pointless. We spent more time making plans and not meeting up then actually meeting up.
Maybe he was to shy to go through with the plans? Some guys aren't confident like others
Im a shy guy myself so whenever i send a lady a message they take so long to respond so even though. Know they are busy or lost interest i move on from the situation
I don't know much what's they do there, but my friend he's text me when his break time or business guys they're answer some question when their break or have some business in toilet, also i am. Maybe we're lost attention, then they haven't business to talk with us.
by long what do you mean? my ex would flip if I didn't respond in less then 3 mins but she could take alllllllll day if she wanted to. it not urgent. if you need an answer right away, call.
I usually always have my phone on me. So you'll get a response within minutes unless i'm in class or at work. So yeah, its just the ones you're texting. It takes less than 10 seconds to respond so i don't really see an issue.
I don't know, sometimes I send a text and throw phone in pocket or car console. dependant on the situation I can sometimes not realize how much time passes. It's not intentional. if it's an important convo, then I may keep my phone in hand. Totally situational.
Why do you assume it means playing hard to get. For me, I rarely check my texts except for when I'm on break. And I don't even check them everyday, so If you message me in the morning, I may message you around lunch or at the end of the day, or when I'm going to bed for the night unless I don't check my messages today and respond when I check tomorrow.
That depends. Are you just getting to know each other and dating? It's a power play so you don't think he's desperate for your attention. Are you in a relationship? He either sucks at texting, doesn't want to talk, or is just busy.
I personally am a fast texter, and also hate when it takes a long time, unless i know she's at work or doing something where it's logical for her not to check her phone a lot
Guys sometimes take a long time bc we don't want to seem desperare. some girls get pissed off if they instantly get a response. it just depends on the girls on if we reply quick or not