I use to text right back every time! In doing so it became an expected behavior from me! On occasion when I didn't text right back, that's when I was accused of having affairs with other women! I am not a puppet on anyone's string and I am not a cheater! That's why I am single and giving my opinions here! Accuse me again!!
for most guys girls are like a piece of puzzle cut the wrong wire and the bomb explodes, its not necessary that we try to trigger flags with every girl we text but we sometimes treat mosts of the girls the same way probably for any future possibilities
Every time I see women talking about this, I can't help but wonder how much they text the guy. If you are in his eyes pestering him, he is going to be more likely to give up answering cause it's going to do no good to answer. Same with anything, when it becomes useless to do something cause it will yield no results a guy gives up on doing it at all.
personally, when I take a long time to reply, it's either because I can't reply right away for one reason or another (phone battery dead, in class/at work) or because I want to think about my answer becore I day anything since I've had many cases where girls would suddenly start hating me because of one stupid inoffensive thing I said without really thinking about it. But I think most guys are just trying to play hard to get
If guys are replying late it's probably not because they're playing hard to get but because they do actually have life's and their entire day doesn't revolve around texting with you.
Usually the only time I don't reply immediately is when I'm at work. However, I have the opposite problem of women not replying to me despite knowing they've replied to someone else, or been browsing Facebook.
He could be busy, tired or not know what to say. Who knows and the same applies to girls because we have so many things going on in our brains at once.
I always reply super soon. Sometimes creepily soon. Like she'll send it at a random time in the day and it'll immediately say "read" and then the typing logo cuz I was just looking at her texts or something.
Maybe because they're busy? I take quite some time to answer too because I'm busy doing something else
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If anything for me it's the other way around, my guy is office based so is mostly available, I'm not so I rarely get to reply much from work except on breaks.
Ummm... Most of the time i personal won't respond to text cause its so bullshit and a half (if you wanna communicate fucking wait and call me) but i sleep around 8-20 hours a day so if i dont text back its cause the question is not for me to answer or i am sleeping
most of the time for guys it's cuz were busy, whether it's super important like work or sometimes just hanging with friends, videos games or movies/shows there's times when a lot of us don't check our phones. for me it's mainly work cuz I can't text on the job
well to me there might be a couple of reasons, if a guy doesn't respond within a few minutes then the girl might not be that important to them, and next no service or they dont have their phone with them but more than likely its the first sorry girls y'all wanted to know
Mostly, it depends on two reasons (only that I'd noticed): a) their level of interest in the gal b) whether they have both their hands on the mobile or not. Cheers 💕
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I just made a status today about this.
I have a life outside of you, I can't always respond fast if me having a life is bad, we need to break up. being clingy isn't cute
I use to text right back every time! In doing so it became an expected behavior from me! On occasion when I didn't text right back, that's when I was accused of having affairs with other women! I am not a puppet on anyone's string and I am not a cheater! That's why I am single and giving my opinions here! Accuse me again!!
for most guys girls are like a piece of puzzle cut the wrong wire and the bomb explodes, its not necessary that we try to trigger flags with every girl we text but we sometimes treat mosts of the girls the same way probably for any future possibilities
Every time I see women talking about this, I can't help but wonder how much they text the guy. If you are in his eyes pestering him, he is going to be more likely to give up answering cause it's going to do no good to answer. Same with anything, when it becomes useless to do something cause it will yield no results a guy gives up on doing it at all.
happens to both
but may be it's just a part of Dating game
( to check how desperate the other person is )
boys usually text instantly if they are interested in chat
otherwise I have bad news for you
They're busy. They've got stuff to do. I don't reply when I'm busy.
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personally, when I take a long time to reply, it's either because I can't reply right away for one reason or another (phone battery dead, in class/at work) or because I want to think about my answer becore I day anything since I've had many cases where girls would suddenly start hating me because of one stupid inoffensive thing I said without really thinking about it. But I think most guys are just trying to play hard to get
I wouldn't say most guys are playing hard to get.
If guys are replying late it's probably not because they're playing hard to get but because they do actually have life's and their entire day doesn't revolve around texting with you.
Because we're busy. A lot of guys don't have the time or desire to check their phone constantly.
i just assume they are busy, it does not piss me off when they do that i like to think i respect their space
Yeah but what if it's been 24 hours then they talk to you for two minutes then they stop again
you gotta keep them boys interested 😉
sanguinnia that was more than awesome how you said it :D but indeed we are not always with our phones or we are busy, anyway i respect your answer ;)
thanks its all about mutual respect right?
agreed! :P ;)
Usually the only time I don't reply immediately is when I'm at work. However, I have the opposite problem of women not replying to me despite knowing they've replied to someone else, or been browsing Facebook.
It's not just guys. It's everyone that is busy threw most of the day.
He could be busy, tired or not know what to say. Who knows and the same applies to girls because we have so many things going on in our brains at once.
I always reply super soon. Sometimes creepily soon. Like she'll send it at a random time in the day and it'll immediately say "read" and then the typing logo cuz I was just looking at her texts or something.
Maybe because they're busy? I take quite some time to answer too because I'm busy doing something else
If anything for me it's the other way around, my guy is office based so is mostly available, I'm not so I rarely get to reply much from work except on breaks.
Ummm... Most of the time i personal won't respond to text cause its so bullshit and a half (if you wanna communicate fucking wait and call me) but i sleep around 8-20 hours a day so if i dont text back its cause the question is not for me to answer or i am sleeping
most of the time for guys it's cuz were busy, whether it's super important like work or sometimes just hanging with friends, videos games or movies/shows there's times when a lot of us don't check our phones. for me it's mainly work cuz I can't text on the job
video games > girls
well to me there might be a couple of reasons, if a guy doesn't respond within a few minutes then the girl might not be that important to them, and next no service or they dont have their phone with them but more than likely its the first sorry girls y'all wanted to know
Mostly, it depends on two reasons (only that I'd noticed):
a) their level of interest in the gal
b) whether they have both their hands on the mobile or not.
Cheers 💕