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25 yo , Female
I live in a hostel. There's this friend of mine who lives adjacent to my room. As a friend we would crack some lame jokes even some of these are double meaning dirty jokes... But recently something weird happened... I was in her room standing near a table chopping onions.. my panty might be slightly visible as the shorts were loose... she entered the room and suddenly pulled my shorts to see the panties... Isn't this weird... obviously I yelled at her.. in her defence she said it was just a reflex she didn't mean to do it
Next day again I was sitting in my another friend's room studying I was on a chair.. since it was a humid day I was were sports bra and a shirt over it with only a button closed so that it is not open... That same girl came sat and unbuttoned my shirt saying why you keeping it shut...
Few months ago also something weird happened I was sitting she just suddenly out her palm under my ass
Very frequently she keeps on touching my breasts..
Earlier I took these as a joke but these recent incidents has made me really uncomfortable. She was my good friend but now I don't even feel like Looking at her... Am I overthinking this or does this come under molestation too
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It's not normal. She's an obnoxious lesbian. I would dump her in a heartbeat.
When I was first reading it, the first thing you wrote that she did that was unusual, it sounded like she yanked your shorts down and you were down to your underwear. Guys do that as a joke. So at first I thought it was just some kind of a joke. But then when she said that she did it by accident, I knew she was trying to hide the real objective and that was a lie.
I would get myself a new friend and tell her you don't want to see her anymore. This can't all be coincidence and it's violating you.
She is very touchy with others too... And a pick me type... Like she will make sure she gets all the attention in the room by acting like a baby , by deliberately speaking in a baby voice.. acting cute.
Toxic. I would dump the friendship.
It certainly is. Tell her- more insistently- to back down, and that you'll report her to the relevant authorities if she doesn't. Jokes are one thing, and not-so-innocent flirtation is one thing, but she's crossed a line here.
Morally- if not always legally- unwanted sexual contact is unwanted sexual contact, regardless of the genders involved.
I told her that I am uncomfortable with such behaviour
YES! Why are you still hanging out with her?
I am not... I have maintained my distance but at the same time I miss how we were before when these things didn't happen
Oh... Try to find new friends then, it'll make up for the absence of her. I just think she's slightly toxic.
To be honest... She is really a bitch... She so so ill mouthed she character assassinates anyone not fond of her
Yeah, you gotta let go, I'm so sorry, but it's best for you.
She's crossing the line. Avoid her or call her out, very clearly, about it all.
I did.. it's been 10 days I have been avoiding nher
Give it another 100
She is very likely to be a lesbian (which is fine) and you really turn her on. But it's not ok for her to do those things if it makes you uncomfortable.
From the phrasier it sounds consensual, am I misreading?
No it was not... It was spontaneous from her side
This is wrong. Tell her 2 stop. These r misdemeanor crimes.
Yeah it is. Report her. This isn’t ok.
She’s a lesbian and madly in love with you
I hope that's false... It's creeping me out
Of course.