Almost certainly terrible in the bedroom and inexperienced - not sure why guys are into this (unless insecure or religious). I’d rather be with someone that knows what they’re doing. That said, I don’t count someone out just because they’re a virgin but I do have to mentally prepare myself for the fact I’ll need to teach them and take things very slowly with them, and that there’s added responsibility Sue to added feelings on first time. I’ve only been with 1 virgin in the past 5 years - have actively avoided sleeping with a few due to the above reasons. Obviously when I was 16-20 it was a lot more common but was still definitely not a preference. like all things - people with experience are better. Why start with a blank slate? Experienced people can teach you new ways of doing things. Obviously I do respect a woman’s right to wait until a serious relationship and this is a very respectable trait - I’d just rather someone with experience if I’m going to spend my time with them.
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I don't have anything against them. Everyone was a virgin at one time. But I don't place any value on "purity". I generally prefer a woman who likes sex a lot and has experience.
I certainly wouldn't date a woman who was "saving" herself for marriage because I wouldn't consider marrying someone unless I knew we were compatible in every way, including sexually.
But it I liked her and we clicked, I definitely wouldn't hold her virginity against her as long as she had a libido and wanted to be in a relationship with me and give herself to me completely. I would be honored to tenderly initiate her into adulthood and teach her the ecstasy of foreplay and sex.
If all other factors are equal, from ages 13 to 21, virgins have greater sexual market. However, there is nothing attractive about a 30 year old virgin and even a 25 year old virgin would be suspect. Wouldn't you wonder, what is her problem?
They're either actual virgins or "as good as virgins" (some degree of sexual activity but no PIV yet).
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Women have to start somewhere, if a woman wants to keep herself ‘pure’ & ‘virgin’ until the perfect lover comes around to take it from her then cool.
If women start sleeping with guys just to experiment, do meaningful self reflection in their mind view, get it over with, lust then cool.
That is all cool since it is their decision and their decision matters to them. As long as it isn’t illegal, go nuts & have fun!Virginity doesn't matter to me. I've only had penetrative sex with one girl and received oral from 5 total. Everyone makes mistakes. If anything I might be a little worried that a girl that hasn't been in a relationship with a guy before might not know what she wants. But other than that, girls that are virgins or have low body counts are definitely preferable to girls that have high body counts and sleep around.
Depends why, doesn't it?
I mean if they haven't killed anyone because they don't reckon the consequences are worth the act, I can respect that.
If they haven't killed anyone because they believe killing is wrong... then they're weak and pathetic and I want nothing to do with them.depends on the reason :D
she can be picky, shy, her personality can be shitty, whatever...
but it doesn't matter what people think... because they don't know the context...
Some people don't like sex, it's for me like not liking ice cream or sweets. I don't judge them for that.
👀👀👀🔮 wonderful question - a woman in her 20s with no body count - I'd still be wary of if she's done "other things" - aka foreplay or oral - with other guy/s before dating me. I consider that bodycounting
Someone saving herself until marriage is the only type deserving of being provided for in a more traditional relationship.
There's a lot more to a woman than that. The one virgin I dated was a really good girlfriend.
Unless I'm mistaken, that's the definition of a virgin.
Remember... we are all virgins... until we're not.
They are the best kind of girls, I sure don't want used goods, and I sure don't want a ho.
It's cool? I don't know, I just think it's rare these days and shows that the girl isn't willing to be with just anyond
That is a personal matter for those people. I have no input either way. I am okay with it just as I am okay with a three hundred or more body count. We all have past of some kind.
I really don't have any thought about it one way or the other.
I think it is a good thing. It is not something to be ashamed of. I had a very low body count.
They're the ones that deserve to be protected and cherished.
I think it depends on their age. At your age I think it's attractive. At twice your age I would think it's worrisome.
Nothing wrong unless the girl is super religious or just shy and never wanted to experience sex.
Nothing. Being a virgin or not doesn't determine one's personality nor kind of heart they have as all humans at point was a virgin.
she's someone worth investing love, time, energy, resources and protection in
they are still not perfect as people say they are
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