Women, are you aware of WHY men don't approach anymore? Are you aware it has nothing to do with being intimidated?

[rukus88]

[_Maya_]

Lolz can you teach the ones that I run into not to? That would be excellent. Hey you can even tell me and I will pass it along to them. I'll spread your word because I could do without the being hit on near nightly while I'm at work. If that stopped my job would be so much more enjoyable. You let me know which way you wanna proceed. thanks!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Hey cutie 😉
Watcha doin later?

[_Maya_]

Ffs lolz. That's a good one. I laughed.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol good

[_Maya_]

Should have seen that one coming from someone. Congrats on being the sneakiest of them all lolz.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

😂 I'll take that

[rukus88]

You haven't quit? I wish the worst thing that I had to worry about in my career was women giving me constant attention and validation instead of being stabbed in the face.

[_Maya_]

No because it is a good paying job that supports me so I can finish getting my master degree. It's at night so it works out the best with a school schedule during the school year.

[rukus88]

Your a 23 year old attractive woman. Wait till that privilege wears off and you have to face reality. Do you honestly believe people are nice to you because of who you are?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@rukus88 Hey, ease off my girlfriend bro. I like her for who she is

[_Maya_]

No. How'd you get that from my opinion? I thought I was pretty clear but I will be more blunt. No it isn't because of who I am. 95%+ people I encounter as a bartender don't know me from the next point. They are nice to me because the ones that do hit on me are drunk pigs that think flattering me after their fourth beer is going to get in my pants. Get it?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@_Maya_ Don't worry baby I got this

[_Maya_]

@WanderingLoveWizard pfff 😆

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, sorry. I'll see myself out ✌

[rukus88]

No, get out of your feelings and listen to what I'm telling you. I'm not talking about the guy's who hit on you. I'm talking about every interaction you have ever had with any man ever since becoming 18. No kindness, not even from your "friends" is real, all of it is centered around your looks. And nothing to do with who you are. Thats why your a bartender, you never had to develope a personality. This "problem" is the entire centerpiece of your life, you just only complain when it's something inconvenient, but have no issue reaping all of the benefits, not knowing that it is the result of a double edged sword. Your 30's are going to crush you.

[rukus88]

Case in point, this fucking simp trying to white knight you

[_Maya_]

Lolz dude that's sad. Blame women for you're problems. That's the guy's way these days. If we don't open our legs for you we are at fault. You need to self reflect. I'm sure you won't and will be bitching like this here and elsewhere. That's why you don't get chicks. Sad sad sad boy.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

@rukus88 Ain't no simp *crushes head with ATM machine*

[rukus88]

lol, I get plenty of pussy, just tired of hearing them all bitch about how I won't comit because they are past their prime and I don't settle for blown out, overweight, over 30, single moms. you'll know what I mean soon. tinder means I don't have to approach, and feminism means pussy is plentiful. Women are missing out on commitment, not men.

[rukus88]

@WanderingLoveWizard shhhh stop talking

[_Maya_]

But why are you on here babbling about it if life is so good? You get girls and don't commit. So what? Why you complaining then? Let them bitch. You are bitching right now. Why is it okay to bitch but other people can't to you? You see how ironic that is. by the way blocking people is pretty pretty weak sauce. Shows you are a coward. That is why no decent fit and young girl in her prime wants you. I certainly wouldn't lolz.

[rukus88]

Well 1 Just because I'm getting plenty of pussy doesn't mean I'm not MORE interested in a real relationship. Me saying so was in response to your attempted insult (which is every basic, attractive woman's default, cookie cutter, reflexive response) again, insults are the tools of the defeated. But I have no interest in providing for a low value woman. I WANT there to be more high value women but modern western women are widely made undesirable by feminist ideologs (which have completely ruined marriage). Of course not all, before you go quoting the exception that proves the rule. Women value commitment more then men, men value sex more then women. That doesn't mean we don't want it at all, but we are not going to settle, or at least no one you want will. Gauging women's reaction to this gives me valuable insight, not just in approach, but also in vetting. Despite what you may think your actually providing a lot of information, Why do you think I'm still entertaining talking to you? As for your little friend, he was useless in the conversation, and I didn't respect him enough to keep him around. If he was actually contributing I would have allowed him to stay. Besides, your a strong independent women who don't need no man right? Why do you need him? Why do you think a women in there prime aren't married? Why have none of the men fucking you not wifed you?

[rukus88]

Nothing, I thought so, sit down.

[LazerBean]

Because I'm married. Didn't have any shortage of males approaching me before then though, but then again I live in an area with auch higher than normal percentage of masculine men.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think they care. Most normal guys have taken the hint. We have an egalitarian society, if women want to date guys then they can ask said guys out.

[rukus88]

They are too emotionally frail to receive rejection. Have you ever turned down a woman for sex? nuclear explosion

[LiamJHayden]

I still approach, but the more of you who don't the better my odds, so by all means continue.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I thought it was the fear of being accused that kept men from approaching

[rukus88]

One reason yes! but not just false accusations of SA/SH but also of being creepy. another reason is just being treated like shit in general. but there are many. I was very surprised to hear recently that some women actually believe it is about intimidation from the half of the species that stormed Normandy, lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Ah, so this is specifically an American thing

[rukus88]

western thing but yes, look up passport bros.

[EmmaMary]

Please do enlighten us (women) all on this most amazing theory of yours.

[rukus88]

I'd like to hear your evaluation on it.

[rukus88]

No? 1700 opinions and nothing to say now?

[Nikki1989]

LMAO, really?

Men approach me all the time.

[SolitarySolace]

I doubt majority of women know let alone care

[Dinklex3]

?

I don’t think that’s a thing.

[HappyWoman34]

No. Why is it in your opinion?

[NamerOfStars]

What, then, do you think it's about?

[Malwi93]

yeah they prolly got lazy/dont see value

[Jazzy54]

Do enlighten us.