If most guys have to have confidence to get a girl why do women expect men to be committed once they learn this skill?

[chris_987]

I don't know if girls can grasp this concept but if a guy isn't confident then he gets no girls. But if he takes the time out to learn that skill so that he can attract women, why do girls feel like he should stay with one if he's now learn the ability to attract multiple?

[Bellafioref]

Wow girls were NOT LYING when they said never date an insecure man... now I get why. They really be out there using beautiful girls to boost their self esteem and then try to get as many as they can after.

My opinion: It's very simple, they need to stop lying to these girls saying they don't want anyone else when it's simply not true. As long as they are honest about their intent, trust me, no girl will feel disappointed 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[Bellafioref]

+ guys are and have been historically accepted for trying to get multiple girls. We don't expect them to not do this, in fact it's quite the opposite 🤣 The tricky part is when they pretend they want a commitment in order to get with these girls. Then of course we expect loyalty...

[chris_987]

Well this whole question started because I watched a video about a guy flying all over the world to show men how to pick up women on the street, and the men he spoke to haven't had dates in years. So they would approach one girl and it would be awkward asf but by the time they've approach like 20 girls the conversation started flowing more naturally and the guy stop coming of as creepy, which to me was very interesting to watch. But it brought up something I don't think much girls realize. Which is the guy that you've said yes to giving him your number he is more than likely reached a point where he can talk to women and not come off as creepy. Which means that if he had to work for it then I don't see why you should be upset if he leaves or even lies. Because what that video showed to me is that men actually have to work to get a girl.