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This was originally a question but I decided to make it a MyTake with a lingering impact. Also I ran beyond the character limit for questions. Consider this a hybrid MyTake/Question.
I'll need a pass to thrash on the opposite sex this time. As much as I can't stop loving and adoring girls, women, ladies and pinks to the point, where some idiots will start saying a certain 4 letter word starting with S there's no nice getting around sounding like a misogynist. I'll balance this out at the end to somewhat reflect on men too. Let's get to the point.
Real world girls always have some unnecessary problems. Problems, that easily don't have to be.
Like being Crazy out of proportions, cold, ignoring us, being mean, dramatic, money hungry, phone addicted, social media addicted, they want our passwords, they want free meals from us, being even dumber than average or ditzy out of proportion, too lazy to do anything themselves and let men do everything or wait for miracles to happen. Or thinking they are models or gods gift to the world and men.
Whereas the fictional girls are often kind of "perfect" (but of course not flawless either, which is fine because nobody is flawless):
Fictional girls are those anime girls/bishojos, that are cute, sweet and gentle ones. Or the go-getter girls (not weak and helpless maidens), the selectively-openly lewd/lascivious girls, the interesting girls, that have going something for them (e. g. pursuing meaningful activities like beneficial activities like multiplying money, being good at cooking or having "meaningful for them" dedicated hobbies like practicing occult - anything, that beats binge watching netflix romcoms), the super romantic girls (such as Deredere girls), the beach girls, the goth/punk girls. They are all found in anime girls/bishojo's/girls, that probably don't exist.
Do you see now why boys are flocking to anime girls and buy "waifu" pillows?
Here are 10 archetypes examples of interesting girls (I only dislike the tough and mean one). Note, that this is only for getting my point across, not telling you pinks "you should change who you are to be like one of them", although feel free to adapt to it if that's who you feel you are.
BUT WHAT ABOUT MEN? THEY ARE ADDICTED TO VIDEO GAMES AND (insert your pink rant here)!
Feel free to tell me in what ways you think men suck or have unnecessary problems. Here, i'll start with something.
I myself aim to drastically reduce playing video games and aimlessly wasting time on entertainment. However I am tackling a serious problem I have inherited since birth and that is being broke. Money unlocks everything else for me. The only reason I am not so interesting is because I feel locked behind everything, that has a price tag on it. I am still solving that problem of mine. In fact I still feel like my archetype has not been unfolded yet at 29 years. At most only some hints of my archetype are currently known to myself.
Maybe posting this will be in vain. Only because I saw many girls with unnecessary problems and issues doesn't mean most girls are like that. Maybe I haven't touched grass and girls for way too long.
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I think that a percentage of people, men and women these days are out for themselves. Men don’t want to do or have what it takes to support a family and just want to screw around. Women expect to be rescued and doted on by men and just want to screw around. That’s not everyone, but some people.
In each generation, a certain percentage of people are getting to become more spoiled, entitled whining snowflakes. The problem is that some people in first world countries, haven’t got enough real problems to deal with, like chronic unemployment, mental health issues, living at home, no disposable income, nowhere to live, not enough to eat, domestic violence or wars or absolute poverty. I call the things young people complain about today ‘first world problems.’ That said, there are some real problems, like struggling to afford rent and housing and food and paying bills and mortgages.
I had these extreme problems. I have no complaints living in a first world country after what I've been through. Absolute poverty and abusive and toxic family and major depressive disorder.
I too have had my share of problems and you’re an example of someone who’s had real problems. Kudos to you for having the courage to rise above it and not become bitter.
Yup. That was my battle. I feel like retiring after putting in tremendous amounts of efforts *just* to get on a level, that a very big portion of people were born with. Ironically I was born in a first world country with these privileges, only for my parents to take it away from me and relocate to a place from which people are massively fleeing from and are dreaming to emigrate to the first world countries. It's a death wish.
What I will say is yeah a lot of women, girls, etc. can get out of hand and very selfish though I think those are the ones that shout the loudest which end up being made fools on TikTok, News, YouTube, Cop Cams, etc. which ends up in the ‘mainstream’, these aren’t the majority of women just the loudest. Same how men who are toxic, insecure, social media obsessed, anti woman, etc. tend to be the loudest however loud/volume doesn’t mean correct, right?
My male math teacher would always ask us at the end of learning the first basic part of the new lesson, “is everyone ready to move on?” *all students raise their hands while I don’t* “okay, moving on!”. Which always pissed me off since I had a learning disability and I was slow… What made it absolutely worst was knowing that ALL the students who raised their hand would be behind / not pass many tests or quizzes due to this. It would always happen. Ugh! Point is, loud doesn’t mean most correct, just clouds actual progress / discussion.
That besides, I spoke from my real world encounters with the girls, who always had some unnecessary problems. I don't base my perception off highly demanded content from Youtube or Tiktok.
Someone on GAG asked a question why Europeans hate Americans, to which I replied "that's bollocks. Where'd you get that from?". Got replied with a highly demanded content from Youtube labelled "Why Europeans hate Americans" - the equivalent of listening to the loudest bunch. If that's what they watch and believe, ugh, fine, their choice.
@Unit1 Not discrediting you or saying online is to be believed, just saying there are multi-facets.
I guess on this one... I'm standing outside your window on the lovely green grass and inviting you out to touch it with me... lol... I learned very young to ONLY have necessary problems! I just don't want to spend the energy on pointless stuff... I don't hang around other girls (or guys) who constantly create "problems". I've always been too busy volunteering in my community, going to school to really learn something, helping friends and neighbors, spending quality time with friends and family, attending cultural events, doing happy dances, jumping on trampolines... you get the picture, I'm sure. Come on out, the grass is fine!
I would absolutely get ready and go out and touch the grass with you. But I am in Germany and if your profile is truthful, you are in the USA 😊 Been there only twice. California and Florida.
That's a nice way to phrase it, to have ONLY necessary problems. I'm right with you on that.
Ah, you speaking about your activities reminds me of my own days, where I went trampoline jumping, beach raiding, attending some events, participating in cross step waltz. That all is in the past now after I squandered my saved up money on relocating (or rather fleeing) to Germany.
These were moments to hold on to when I think of it today.
BRO LOL. What you are describing are personality traits of real people who have led real lives. They are not unnecessary they just simply are. No matter where you go there will be these people, because everyone lives. I think you need to take some time to see women as real people who have had real experiences and emotions. I’m sure you also have some traits that other people don’t find desirable and that’s okay we all do. You don’t have to like every part of everyone, we are human. Stop being unrealistic
I’d say a lot, not all, but a lot of them are cuddle growing up. Many of them are raised w this idea that they can do no wrong. That she’s the prettiest things on this planet. That all men need to bow to her simply because she’s a female. Boys on the other hand, most of us were taught to stop crying, to do something, that no one is coming to save us. Unlike females. A females a girl’s father or mother will come running to her aid. Other men, such as brothers, uncles, friends, strangers, will stick up for her even if she is wrong. Which yes is partially men’s faults not putting these women in check when it needs to be done. We let them get away w so much. Especially now where women can say men are toxic, narcissistic, or say things like all men should die w no repercussions. But if a man says it a whole herd of women will jump on him, even other men. So why should they act like adults. Many of them get away w acting out, throwing tantrums.
They believe they are goddesses. More mature , more intelligent and in the end they become subservient to their male partner no matter how strong they think they are.
Dads: I treat my daughter like a princess
Daughter grows up and still acts like the world owes her something, and any man who expects to be with her owes her everything.
How about guys? Oh man, we have problems too. Ego is number one on the list in my opinion. I don’t know too many men who have strong egos. I told my cousin I got a bunch of promotions within a year, and he just looked mad. That’s my own blood. There’s this girl that none of the guys wanted until I wanted her. Now every other guy wants her too. See what I mean? All is fair I guess
Which is why most Yankee lads are in crisis. They bury their emotions until it's too late and they injure or kill someone, perhaps themselves, and their "John Wayne" approach to manhood often leads to mental health issues and early death.
Because they're surrounded by effeminate men. No leadership or direction. Wandering, hedonistically, through life. Letting social media dictate their value and values.
I guess how we have to train guys to piss in the bowl, and drip, or throw his goddamn clothes in the laundry basket, keep his smelly shoes outside, and learn how to cook for his family besides barbecues. I blame his mom and dad.
Right lol, he’s acting as if men are not without issues as well.
@waterliliestxt You obviously didn't read
I did, I still thought your post heavily pointed out more of women’s issues.
@waterliliestxt Even someone, that doesn't read would find 2 images pointing out issues in men
…. When you pointed out issues in men and specifically yourself you cited valid reasons why you are the way you. But you did not offer the same courtesy for women instead just called them “unnecessary”.
@waterliliestxt i don't feel like fighting over this. if you read my content, you'd see, that I invited girls to point out the unnecessary problems in boys
You started an argument with me but you’re right I did not look at your other content.
i dont agree. and i am jelous that my mytake got deleted kuz it had a question mark somewhere. but they only nit-pik me.
I don't know because they are girls and you are a guy we are different so both sides will always complain
Men make a lot of unnecessary problems too. I know lots of chill women.
you been on the internet too much lol
I don't know why?