We have a crush on each other, we're colleagues. And yesterday he tried to make it seem like he was just walking past next to me, so others didn't notice, but with this hand he touched my hip (felt like it was pretty close to my...).
(Okaaay, maybe we shouldn't do this at work, it's common sense, but it isn't what the question is about)
We flirted before but he never touched before like this, maybe just my shoulder.
Why did he do this?
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He wants you. If you want him, ask him out for a drink after work. Tell him you are into him but not to flirt with you at the office because some HR bluehair bitch will get you both in trouble.
Work colleagues shouldn’t touch you. It’s a reportable offense. (Why is this the popular question today? Literally eight other people have posted about the same sort of thing….)
Sounds like at this point if he isn’t going to make a move then ask him not to touch you like that again. Crushes are fun in high school and adolescence but we’re adults now and there are boundaries.