One of the greatest strengths of a woman, in my opinion, is her intuition. Women seem to have a great subconscious awareness towards extremely subtle things. The things they pick up on subconsciously relay to their cognitive mind with ease and that's where I see where female wisdom unfolds. However, because of it's delicate and transient form, it get's easily disrupted by cognitive efforts because it's essentially knowledge without external form having to be processed by the stringent rigidity of verbal expression seemingly too limited to be fully congruent with the essence of thought. Having being so delicate, a womens negative traits, such as unabided anger, easily destroy her connection with her inner self, her greater knowledge, simply because the flow of thought can only maintain continuity while relaxed. This is one reason why I would think passivity would be a trait ascribed to the feminine. It's also why I think that for a woman to be elegant and graceful, she needs to be inwardly peaceful, calm, balanced and passively in touch with the energies outside of her. Not to try to suppress them, not to try to battle and dominate her mind and the environment around her, but to keep in unison with the greater essence of her own being.
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Her personality above all else. You can attempt to dress that way, but if you don't have the demeanor or character to actually BE elegant and graceful, you never will be, no matter what you wear. Elegant and graceful isn't a piece of clothing. It's who you choose to be as a person.
An elegant and graceful woman is a woman who has been molded as a product of society to be some sort of ideal. Often this refers not to what she does, but the restraint that she demonstrates to prove how conforming she is to the "higher" standards, ie NOT sitting comfortablely or swearing or telling someone how it is or raising your voice to be heard. To be elegant is to be Superior in the sense is that it's completely relative to whoever else is kind the room. In my opinion, it's easier for introverts or naturally shy people to appear elegant because assuming a correct posture there are fewer words you'll say that can take away the perception of elegance. Elegance isn't the space you take up, but more the space you are given/ society gives you to express yourself because they esteem your presence higher value than others. For men it's the threat of physical dominance without actually having to display violence. Restraint is sexy
Posture, attitude, well-manered, class, adequate dress attire. It's a woman that seems to command everyone in the room, as if we gravitate towards her. Charisma is also important. Oh wait, I described a powerfull one. Ah... But I'm not deleting because it may also be usefull to you? I don't know. :')
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If she knows how to carry herself without looking like a fool.
knowing her self worth and morals, when she moves according to her own speed and doesn't feel the need to conform to anyone
A girl who doesn't feel superior towards anyone and is always there to help
Has a great sense of style too which she owns
she doesn't need to a big speaker but when time arrives she knows how to handle itIt’s more about the way a woman carries herself but what she wears also has an impact. An elegant woman walks with her head held high, she watches her words and doesn’t curse too much, speaks respectfully of herself and others and has a very classic beauty.
Been herself duh.
Tbh honestly scrolled thou the opinions and i was like da fuq why is everyone saying no sense like no tattoos jesus people these days.
Like honestly just them been themselves even if i don't like who are at least there been who they want to be, and simpley i just wouldn't be envolved with them if there not personally compatible.
But because there not personally compatible don't mean there any less elegant or graceful or great.
So yep just been themselves.I'd look into the psychology literature. I've read a lot on what makes males seem more dominant and attractive, but I honestly haven't read much on what females more elegant and graceful.
The only commonality that is immediately obvious to me is to slow down movements and to talk slower but more clearly. Don't make small movements like clicking your pen or tapping your feet on the floor.Certainly not doing what I do
tse1.mm.bing.net/thKnowing when to be quiet and listen. Knowing that ‘less is more’ sometimes. Being polite. Not being loud/obnoxious. Not cursing. Being charitable.
Taking pride in her appearance/paying attention to the details but in a way that shows she has confidence NOT in a way that says she’s desperate for attention.
Being friendly when she has no reason to be.She does everything with CLASS. If she gon be a hoe, she does it with class. She gon dress like a hoe, she’ll do it with class. Talk shit? Does it with class. She never stoops down to anyone’s level. She treats people with respect, if they deserve it. And most of all, she’s never sloppy/snobby
Modesty, manners, kindness... mixed with a backbone
Doesn't talk about people behind their back
Tone of voice not so loud
Dresses well
Good smell
Kind to people, animals... (not to confuse with naïve) ...Very little make up, the way she walks, carries herself, talk, interact with others, and just how she lives. They all contribute to Elegance. 💎💎💎
Good hygiene, good posture, etiquette, high quality clothing, some Rouge Coco & Jo Malone.
Appearing calm, good posture, smooth speech, all that stuff. :)
The smoothness of her movement
The composure of her temperament
The sincerity in her voice
The kindness in her wordsElegant dress sense (tights, skirts, blouses, etc) and gentle feminine traits. However, it would still be admirable if she had an interest in men’s soccer and maybe a dark sense of humour at times
She's cool, fun to be with, not judgmental, understanding, sympathetic, empathetic, smart, attractive, fit, helpful, and not entitled. In other words, something so unrealistic that it doesn't even occur in my dreams.
A calm woman, and someone that speaks smoothly, elegant is something that you feel, you gotta be confident, straight back, and smile
Jesus Christ makes a woman happy and peaceful in her soul. Which make her beautiful inside and out. And God surrounds her with His love which makes her Elegant.
Well I mean if you don’t know why should we tell you? So you can fake being elegant and graceful like what other girls do? No thanks. If you were meant to be elegant and graceful you would be it and hence not need to ask this.
Her way of moving. Women playing certain sports naturally look elegant and graceful while playing the sport - sports like all-stars cheerleading, lacrosse, netball, ultimate frisbee, gymnastics, diving.
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