Masculine looking women?

[Anonymous]

For women like me, what can I do to soften my features and make them look more feminine and attractive. People on Candid called me masculine (when it was still running) among other things ans I can't seem to get that out of my head.
Help me please.

[Gypsy_x]

Okay. Before I answer your question, can I please ask you to ignore the negativity. The hateful, nasty comments have NO truth in them, and have been said my men who have been rejected or ignored by women, and want all women to feel that way too.

Second, you are very pretty. Most selfies involve makeup on and nice lighting. You don't wear makeup (and don't need to!) And obviously your camera isn't fantastic so you can't take fantastic pictures.

To actually answer your question, if you want to look more feminine, wear more feminine colours and patterns. You have beautiful skin, and blush and nude tones would look great, as would dark reds, whites, etc. You don't need to wear frills and overly girly stuff (totally not my style either), but play with silkier fabrics or more feminine knitwear. Basically, I just think your wardrobe isn't super feminine (not that i can see much!).

If you want to wear makeup, you can. I think your hair is cute, and with a bit more length you could rock a sexy fro with more movement in it.

I hope this helped, and I hope you don't let the keyboard warriors affect your self esteem.

[taleets]

i don't see anything masculine? but my tips would be a pretty blush, lip gloss. definitely jewelry, fill in eyebrows for a more feminine shape, false lashes do wonders ( or lash extensions), hair extensions! i think you will feel way more feminine if you do these

[peachblossomluck]

You could wear mascara and lipstick, grow your hair long and change your wardrobe. It's unisex looking from what I can tell. You don't look masculine but the things I mentioned accentuate femininity.

[Aguamarina]

You don't look masculine. You don't have a chiseled face. Just because you think you're ugly, it doesn't mean you look masculine.

[Asker]

I am ugly

[KatherineJ]

No you aren't!

[hahahmm]

Not masculine but I think you will look 500 times better with long hair. And ditch the granny sweaters and five layers of whatever you’re wearing. Get into shape so you are confident wearing things that show off your curves. Not saying you have to show lots of skin but show that you have a narrow waist and hips and boobs. These are feminine traits (!!!).

[Intraluminal]

I don't know how to break this to you gently chocolate. I guess I'll just tell you straight up. You're not masculine at all. Sorry. I didn't want to be the one to tell you, but you deserve to know the truth.

[666satanlover]

You are beautiful. If you want to be more feminine looking, which I'm not saying you're not, but you could play it up if that's how you want to feel - maybe pick some more "feminine" colors you like and wear them. Pale pink and stuff. Dresses. Grow out your hair and rock a large fro if you're able.. super womanly

[QueenofCups]

They're crazy. You look cute and feminine. You could always grow your hair out.

[Ephemera1]

Here's a few things you can improve on:
-smile
-hair style
-selfies

[TacosRAwesome]

Stick to the style in the first picture. Wear lighter / softer colors, necklaces, and things like that.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think you have masculine features but maybe if you thin out your eyebrows? I know big thick eyebrows are in but maybe try that for a while.

[OhMara]

Lipstick, mascara and accessories girl. Get your eyebrows done to give more structure to your face. Always wear earrings and necklaces, put on a bright red lipstick whenever you feel like it.

[HGG3805]

Masculine looking? I don't think so. Pretty.

[KatherineJ]

I don't think you look masculine at all. But a cute outfit might help you feel more feminine.

[HamAndCheese]

You definitely look more feminine without the glasses. That I can tell you.

[stang1558]

change your hairstyle and show off your boobs a little more.. problem solved

[iaaronteeit]

Let your hair grow and straighten it. That should help you. Short hair doesn't help

[Jayson101]

I don't think you do look masculine facially. But maybe it's the shorter hair. If you feminized your hair

[aestheticsofty]

You don’t look masculine

[cth96190]

There is nothing masculine about your face.
I believe that among black women you would be considered to be at the upper end of the scale of attractiveness.

[Asker]

What do you mean

[cth96190]

Three down votes from females for telling a girl that she is good looking.
WTF? 😱

[KatherineJ]

Her race isn't an issue, so why bring it up?

[VV3ZZY]

You loom very pretty. Not masculine.

[DanielKaluuya]

You're not masculine at all; just overweight.

[Pink2000]

She didn't ask you about her weight

[DanielKaluuya]

she asked about her looks. Weight is masculine & petite is feminine. Accept that even when you don't like it.

[Pink2000]

According to who's standards? You don't know her height or weight.

[DanielKaluuya]

I guarantee she's overweight. No question. There's nothing wrong with that because she's young and has plenty of time to lose weight before she hits the wall.

[Pink2000]

You can't guarantee anything based off your own standards.

[DanielKaluuya]

You're so upset at me. You should be encouraging her to get in shape so she can get high quality men.

[KatherineJ]

Dude, that's just rude

[Pink2000]

You don't look in shape yourself. So who are you to tell somebody what they need to do.

[KatherineJ]

@Pink2000 love this reply!

[DanielKaluuya]

@Pink2000 I'm trying to help y'all out. I'm not trying to be rude at all. She complains about not having a man daily. Do something different and get different results. Might not be the man of your dreams but you'll get a good starter nigga.

[DanielKaluuya]

I don't compete with women. That comment about my appearance is void.

[ThisDudeHere]

Workout?

[Anonymous]

Your first pic looks feminine

[PsychoSulley]

Maybe a new hairstyle

[weaverman]

Your lovely wen you smile