So I recently met this girl me and her flirt she said I’m easy to talk to and she shares her favorite songs with me we get along well she even lets me put her arm over her shoulder while at the movies and rub my hand on her arm she smiles at me she plays with her hair doesn’t mind me being in her personal space but when I talk to her she leaves me on read and doesn’t acknowledge my flirting through text she's dry texting when she responds is she interested? Or am I in the friend zone
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Based on what you said she might have possibly liked you at some point, but she changed her mind or she got turned off by something. It happens. Either that or she sees you as a friend although personally I am never that physically close with my friends.
It doesn't necessarily mean she was playing games or trying to lead you on.
She says she’s not ready for a relationship and that we should just be friends I don’t get it though she was letting me get physically close why would she do that what do you think?
Being physically close doesn't necessarily mean she likes you though. There are people who enjoy having physical contact with friends
Maybe her interest changed because she’s not happy about something or there’s someone else. She could also be a bad texter? You can definitely communicate with her to ask if anything is wrong. Or ask her out to build the connection in person as texting is always very hard to be interpreted. Phone calls may also helps.
I think your looking too much into mirages, and not seeing the situation with her. Your literally wrestling with scenarios in your head that may ruin any chance with her by how you may act now with this shitstorm in your head messing up the coolness of what she liked to begin with.
If she’s letting you touch her so much you’re probably not in the friend zone, but something about the situation (or your description) seems off.
She rejected me she said she’s not ready for anything and that it’s best we stay friends I don’t get it though she was letting me get physically close and she seemed comfortable what do you think?
I think cut your losses before you get more attached to this chick. She doesn’t know wtf she wants. Girls don’t let you touch them that much unless they want you to get attached….
Hi, she could just be very shy and I share songs with my boyfriend to as a way of telling him how I feel about him through the imagination cause I can relate to the lyrics maybe she’s not good at communicating her feelings or doesn’t want to come off to strong about you
She could be just really nervous. Or maybe upset about something. I would encourage you to ask her. Let her know that your a bit confused and were wondering how she sees you. Ask her if you may have done anything to upset her as well.
Best thing to do is just ask her. Tell her how you feel. Maybe she's fed up of you not leading and taking control of the situation, some women want their man to do that. To be dominant and assertive.
Have you asked her out?
Maybe she just likes hanging out with you?