I've repeated this time and again. If I go out with a woman I'm paying. That's my mindset. Of the 100 things that i'm concerned about on a date this doesn't make the list. Now having said that at least HALF, probably better than half of the women I've dated have offered to pay thier share. I think it's important to note this. Because I don't think ANYONE male or female should go into a date EXPECTING the other to pay. I've always declined the offer, but I've always appreciated the gesture. When a woman offers that tells me a lot about her.
Just my take.
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Call me weird, but I don't care about money.
I prefer dutch, so the interaction is less about the money and more about the people.
I don't think there is a thing as someone paying without expecting something back at some point.
Who doesn't pay, gets a karma debt. And I don't want to have that with anyone.
If at least one person wants to pay for themselves, their choice should be respected.
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Pay for yourself but be positive on the dates be nice and friendly and smile. People can see if you have anger if you don’t trust and you’re very cautious.
It seems fair enough for me, id go the same way
I think men should pay for the first couple of dates.
Dutch is good.
The inviter pays for the invitee.
in my days, the Man always paided
Dutch treat
I’ll pay
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