Would you ever date someone who's 20, 30, or even 40 years older than you?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Depends on their interests

I've done it before

[lornakrys]

In my experience guys even just 10 years older are less likely to actually treat you as an equal. The gap does close with age but I feel like 20 years is too big. I would possibly be almost equal in age to his kids. Chances are high he would always feel like he knew better and undermine my opinions and decisions. I can't stand that. I went on a couple of dates with guys about 10 years older in my early 20s. That was enough for me to determine its a hard pass.

[just_a_potato]

I could probably date up to 35 years older than me before I cut it off. Whether I could stay in a long-term relationship with someone significantly older than me though, I'm not sure.

[LiamJHayden]

My mom was almost 45 when I was born, so 20 years to me would be like a sister's age, not my mom's.

[Anonymous]

Probably not. I can't see me dating a woman over 50. Women are pretty gross after 40.

[IslaTheWitch]

I date a mind, not a birth certificate...

somehow "how old are you?" is one of the last questions I've ever asked :D

[Radiate143]

There was this silver fox looking dude I once saw. He was rich so he had money to take care of himself. And boy oh boy. I would have absolutely dated him.

[rachel776]

25 years older was my oldest but usually 5 to 10 years older

[coxoabean]

No I wouldn't. The highest I'd go is probably at least 7.

[DishLady]

Probably not. 20-30 years would mean I’m dating someone my parents’ age. Ooof.

[mandyfire98]

I dated a guy practically 30 years older than me once. He was my dad's age lol.

[exitseven]

No, if somebody was 20 years older than me she would be on medicare.

[Apple1996]

Nah I wouldn't

[Booklover_90]

My max is 15 years older.

[12karen]

Nah, not more than 20

[MK1997]

Yes I have a 52 year old fuck buddy

[Pterodon]

I’ve dated 25 years younger

[LazerBean]

Absolutely not.

[Phoenix98]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

No, thanks