Which race / ethnicity are attracted to you more?

[alice55]

I'm White and 80 % of guys that have shown attraction to me irl have been Arabs for some reasons.

White

Black

Asian

Arab

Latino

Others

[7Phoenix7]

I have been approached by all races honestly. Majority has been black, and then a mixture of white/Asian/native American etc.

I will say, the most forward/confident have been black, Hispanic (although not a race) and Indian (Asian). White guys usually think I am not attracted to them, but if I flirt a little bit, everything changes lol.

[alice55]

White guys doesn't seem to be very forwards nowadays to be honest. Majority of culture except East Asian are more forwards than them when it come to flirting.

[NathanDavis]

it's the fists...

[7Phoenix7]

@NathanDavis stop 🤣

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm White too and I'd say 80% of girls who show interest in me are Latinas, and online Indian and Middle Eastern a little bit. As for myself, it changes so often. I'm more attracted to ethnicities than nationalities. I will probably still say South Asian girls, because of their jewelry and they have a lot of features I find attractive. I think you already know ^^. Although, I have recently become very attracted to French girls ^^

You sound really popular with the guys ^^

[alice55]

If I count online then is it a mix of everyone depending on the site some more than others (for example on facebook 10 years ago it all all Indian and Philippine people that were arttracted to me), the funniest are Indian people were all like I have a sport car and money marry me, they're so awkward on facebook XD
One even told me he had a tiger as a pet in his house.
On this site I mainly attract white.
Brown people (Latin, Indian and Arab) seem pretty attract to White people in general. I know they have a preference for fair skin for a lot of them so it could explain why but in France the trends is to be tanned not fair. Every years White people make comment about why Idon't tan and why my skin is so pale.
Always saying I look like a ghost.
The worst was when I was in high school only Arab guys were interested by me / talking to me (but I think that was because I'm a conservative / Christan and dressed modest), White guy in high school don't like religious people and conservative.
As for everyday life I wonder.

Yes this I know ^^
French girls are the best ^-^

I'm but if I took anything else others than a White guy home my family would disown me xD
The hardest in France is finding someone that is ok waiting until wedding that's the trickiest part cause even the conservative White guy don't want to wait.

[KostasKouvalis]

I forgot, I had a few Asian girls show interest in me too. In high school, one in PE took interest in me.

Why am I not surprised?😂

My cousin posted a bikini Pic on Google and some Arab wouldn't start writing her

Yes!

Pale girls are sexy 😏

Yeah, French girls I like more than just their looks. South Asian girls I don't really see as marriage material. But I found out that many French girls also have a lot of features that I find attractive.
This is a little bit embarrassing, but I started watching porn of French couples, and it turns me on SO much! The girls are so natural and romantic. That's another thing. A lot of South Asian beauty I like are artificial things, while French girls I'm attracted to their natural beauty. They also say if you have feelings for someone you start being attracted to other people of their ethnicity ^^

I figured this. ^^
My mom would prefer if I married a White girl, but she says she doesn't care so much anymore as long as she's not black or Asian or a Muslim or Buddhist or something. I could probably get away with certain Middle Eastern/North African girls. A lot of them have European genes.

My mom would only disown me if I was gay. At least you're not restricted to French. White people are still the most open minded when it comes to dating.

This is gonna sound selfish, but I'm gonna be really jealous if you ever end up getting a boyfriend. I'm not gonna hide that I would like it to be ME ☺️

[alice55]

Only Asian who shown interest in me was when I went to a comic con (similar stuff but in France and about anime as a teen), but after there's barely no Asian here in France so.
Who would be surprised by that XD
He was actually quite funny I still remember him 10 years after the whole tiger story and he took pictures with a car and all XD

He was quite motivated normally it's Indian that are as motivated
yes ^^
Dating South Asian girl is hard considering how conservative their culture is, they usually don't let women don't outside their culture;
That's great :)
Tha't's a really sweet things ^^
I watched French porn one time but I was too embarrassed to watch it didn't watch the whole things, i was ways too embarrassed.

A lot of them have European gene because of the slavery, Arab used to take White women as slave and put them in harem or as concubine so some look very White, especially kabyle from Algeria.
Some Turks also look pretty White.
In some countries like Portugal or ex Yugoslavia the people there look Arab so sometime even some real North African look Whiter than them it's crazy.
Middle Eastern/North African girls are all Muslim though, Christian is near non existant there as they have been killed because of their faith.
Arabs countries aren't very accepting towards others religion.

[alice55]

Honesty I kind of am, they definitely would prefer a French guy but they're ok with other White if they're good people.
Thats for sure though in France Arab still marry quite a lot of White French people (usually girl but I have also seen Arab girl with French guy because he converted). Black too marry out of their race a lot but the others ones he don't.

I'm nowhere near getting a boyfriend in real life as I said i'm not popular with White guy because I'm conservative and the while virgin until wedding only make me popular with Muslim in France if I were in America dating would be so much easier for me but in France most people aren't very religious (except Muslim), White people here hate religion so anything to do with religion they stay away from it so even if I'm physically attractive so the virgin stuff throw them out even faster XD

so I'm definitely nowhere near getting a boyfriend XD
They only like virgin if they put out less than a months into the relationship if they have to wait longer they either cheat either break up.

[KostasKouvalis]

😂😂😂😂
I wouldn't be surprised if it wasn't even his, because I saw an Indian guy in Poland taking a picture with someone's sports car. My White friend even did that before. And I thought only Arabs own large cats😂

I know, trust me, I know. And if they do, the guy has to be a doctor or an engineer. I might get away with it in Europe or the Middle East, where they work crappier jobs. And one Indian girl told me girls in Delhi will date White men.

You mentioned something about it before. I'm curious what you watched. Sometimes certain ones make me feel sleazy, but as long as no one hears me or catches me, I wouldn't say it's embarrassing. So many people watch it, so I would be more embarrassed to tell them specific things I watch, because I watch some interesting things. XD Watching foot fetish stuff is more taboo that watching porn.

I watched a couple French erotic films a while ago. One was about teenagers, so it was pretty mild, but the other one I watched was pretty graphic. I didn't expect that, because ours don't even show penises. The really graphic ones we have are from the 70s, and you can only find them online or in adult stores. Though I prefer watching real couples just being natural. It's so much hotter! And the French ones are so kinky ^^ Damn, I think I need to watch some. *blushing

True, but I also heard some of them migrated too. Coastal Turks are the same race as Mediterranean people. I'm familiar with the Kabyle ;)

Yes, I've noticed that! I've seen girls from those countries that could definitely be considered European. They even have a "White non-Middle Eastern/North African" on our census. Officially, them along with South Asians are part of the Indo-European race. Some of them look whiter than me. Hitler didn't consider Slavs as true Whites, but he decided to spare Poles who "became German."

Lebanon is almost half Christian and there are still some in Syria, Iraq and Egypt, but nowhere as many as before.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, my mom often remarks how I'll most likely end up with a Polish girl like my cousin. She's saying I should be married and have kids already. My dad doesn't care about anything.

I heard about that. I could never convert, especially since Muslim men are supposed to be circumcised. Even so, I actually had a crush on a Muslim girl I was talking to online before I joined GAG and met you.

Yeah. I think only like 20% of French people are devout/practicing Catholics. Maybe even less. Don't be so sure. In America only in very religious areas, but even there they get married pretty young and most Americans lose their virginity very early. Also, the hardcore protestant Christians here are kind of crazy to be honest, and most of the Catholics are Hispanic and I doubt many of them are virgins. If you're in your mid-20s and still a virgin and never had a relationship, people think there's something wrong with you and laugh at you.

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't think I am either. I tried a little bit in high school, then university but nothing. A lot of it is because I don't drive, but I'm also a little picky about who I talk to, as more often than not, it's the weird girls who hit on me. But even if they aren't weird, I'm still really picky. I also have a hard time telling if a girl I'm actually interested in likes me or not. Usually not and I come on too quickly and scare her off :( Also, our dating culture is so annoying. You basically have to ask a stranger out and decide within 2 weeks if you want to be in a relationship with them. The funny thing is, I tried asking out a girl I didn't know that well, and she said "No, because she doesn't know me that well." I think building a connection takes time and effort. I want to know that she'll like me the way I am and that I can trust her, like with YOU. I don't want her to end up leaving me because she discovers months later something she doesn't like. Which is weird because I also fall for people really quickly.

I bet you could find one in Poland though. ^^ Poland still has the highest percentage of people in Europe who go to church and they're generally more prudish than other Europeans. Germany has a nudist beach right across the Polish border, and the Poles always complain about it.😂 But t's funny, because Poland has a very famous nude beach too.😂 And there is even one in my mother's city.

[alice55]

That's what I thought too or a photoshop XD
Guys love taking pictures of themselves near sport car on date app and then they got a clio in real life XD
Apparently Indian love big cat too though generally they get attracted by them when the tiger become big, many time I saw on tv rich Arab and Indian getting attacked or abandoning their tiger pet.
Dating and marrying is different, there's some very high class Indian that live the ways European do but when it come to mariage they marry by cast.

I don't remember it been so long, I was 20 or something , I just clicked on the first video I saw and it was awkward and weird. It was just a regular video but porn just don't interest me and I feel embarrassed fo the actor actually like how awkward must they feel to do this kind of stuff.
They censure porn in America? Weird considering they love being so sexual on their music show.

I don't think Turks are the same as European mediterranean people, they don't have the same dna,
They're also pretty mixed.

iHitler whole race stuff don't make any sense at all to be honest, like he hate Slav and love Italian but Italian are much darker than Slav, he don't like French but French are lighter than Italian and he love Japanese but hate any other Asian? He also apparently loved Arab for some reasons.

Arab are Caucasian Indian too though you can cleary difference them most of time some European look Arabs (but they were part of countries that have been invade by Arabs and some Arabs look White cause they took White slave back to their countries). Indian look caucasian but also look very different (and the Southern one don't even look Caucsian at all.

[alice55]

I didn't know they were so many Christian there and to know Israel is trying to lead a war with them, Jews seem to hate everyone that aren't Jews.
A lot of Christian went away because they were mistreated sadly.

People get married and have kids very late now so there's now hurry to anything

I could never convert either, it would be like losing my identity and abandoning all my memories of my time celebrating Catholic days as a child / teen with my family.

Muslim is usually not good news.

There's Catholic and there's the pratiquant one though even pratiquant one have sex before wedding, that's such a crazy things, they're so obsessed with sex and always say "I won't buy a car without trying it".

Except the guys that have never been in a relationship and are in their late 20s early 30s there's quite a lot of them on here but yes American protestant are so weird they hate Catholic.
American dating is extremely weird, in France people flirt for months before they even go on a date, we also have the dating American ways because of tinder and stuff but it's usually used for ons and don't lead to much in general.
The German are quite exibisionist to be honest, they love being naked all the time but it surprise me for the Poles having nude beach XD
Or in Ireland people there are pretty religious too.

[KostasKouvalis]

I still remember the first one I ever saw. It was only a 17 second clip, but I watched it many times.
On TV they do, but Japanese produced ones are always censored which is so stupid. They don't really "censor" it, but they don't show the penis. Often I wonder if they are even having sex. The first time I saw some that showed everything was some some vintage Greek porn, then I later found out old American porn was also like this. So I guess it has to do with the culture. Maybe they don't want show in HD, I don't know. But even in Europe where nothing is censored, showing sexual arousal is still taboo. I was watching a documentary about porn stars and they censored a woman's genitals because she was aroused. The UK showed erections for the first time and people freaked out. But usually in Europe non-sexual nudity isn't censored, even in conservative Poland. XD I have a Polish newspaper with topless women.
The ones I saw on TV were, but the online they aren't. Even in the movie theater they once censored a real life sex scene. They DO, but when it comes to nudity they're very prudish, though they finally stopped censoring ass in documentaries. The channels that show these types of movies you have to pay extra for and they come on very late at night. But sometimes they'll give you a free preview XD We censor EVERYTHING! Even some muscians started censoring their own lyrics at live shows that they wrote decades ago, because they're considered offensive now. I saw a song on YouTube that even censored non-swear words because they were singing about cutting yourself and bleeding.
Some researchers recently said they are. They look nothing like Turkic people from Central Asia.

He only loved Arabs because they hated Jews. But he was even allied with Stalin at the beginning. He was mostly interested in northern Europe. It's even funnier because he had Hungarian and Jewish blood and black hair XD

[KostasKouvalis]

North Indians yes, but south Indians definitely not. I think most people don't consider people from Caucasus mountains White either. They're genetically closer to Middle Eastern people and they found evidence few years ago that European race actually originated in Bulgaria. But Aryan people came from India/Afghanistan region.

It's because of Hezbollah, and Lebanon never signed a peace treaty after 6 Day War. Some definitely do. I saw a video recently where a Jew was saying there is a passage in the Torah that encourages killing Christians, because they're idol worshippers, and he was yelling at a Christian that he should die. Some of them are hypocrites. Surely there's a reason they were kicked out of 100 countries, but Muslims are still worse. It's weird though, because Jews never tried to convert people from what my art history professor said.

It is if your mom is getting old XD

Yeah. Don't get me started.

Yeah, those exist.

Tinder here is mostly used for sex.

They say naturism isn't exhibitionism, but surely a lot them are. But most of the exhibitionists go to Cap d' Adge, and there's also some parks in the Netherlands.
Do you think exhibitionism is a bad thing?

I was surprised too, even though Polish people have a lot of sex, but usually they don't show off in public.

YES XD

[KostasKouvalis]

Yes, French dating culture is definitely much better!

The truth is a lot of religious people want to have sex before marriage but control themselves because of their religious beliefs. India actually had to pass a law, because men were getting engaged to girls just so they could have sex with them, because they figured if they're getting married they might as well. But then they dumped them after they had sex. It happens in other cultures too.

I feel the reason many religious couples have so many kids, is because making kids is the only way they can have sex. When I was younger my mom always told me I should wait 'til marriage. But my second cousins on my dad's side are very religious, and of them got pregnant out of wedlock.

Nah, Polish guys are better. I'M RIGHT HERE! ^^

[BetaBucks]

I'm a magnet for latina girls. Idek why, but it's been that was since I was a preteen and older Mexican girls were literally trying to molest me. All the way up to my middle ages where young latina chicks are still hitting on me. Easily 90% of all the interest I've received from females in my life.

[alice55]

Molest you? They're so weird why would they do this kind of stuff O-O

[BetaBucks]

Horniness, I'm guessing. And lack of options. Super weird tho, yeah.

[avery58]

I'm Latina and irl it's Latinos, some white and black guys. Online Arab, Turkish, Indian/Pakistani guys show the most interest in me, then Latinos. But I'm not really interested much in meeting people irl or online these days, cause I know who I want.

[alice55]

I quite like talking to people online because it's safe.

[KostasKouvalis]

Not as safe as you think. I had a very bad experience online that took me two years to recover from. Even now I still run into some weird people. One plus though is online it's a lot easier to find like-minded people, and a lot easier to approach them. You just be careful.

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis I never had any problem online never, so I don't really know how that can be unsafe, unless you share personal information.
What happened to you?

[KostasKouvalis]

You're fortunate.
It's really a long story. But there was this crazy girl and I was having too many issues with her and she kept insulting me and we would fight. I told her not to contact me anymore and I blocked her, but didn't insult her or anything. Her friends and family, especially her uncle who was in the Navy started harassing and stalking me online and were even following my family and said they're gonna find me and kill me and said everyone on Yahoo Answers hates me. And they sent me some link, which I didn't open. But they messed with my head so much I started to believe everyone was working for them, and I was scared of anyone I saw. I even ended up having panick attacks. I still kept getting some messages from some weird accounts after I already recovered a little, so I just ignored them. I don't know if it WAS them or not, but they messed me up so bad

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis Wow the girl was truly a lunatic and hr family too helping her doing this kind of stuff, that the kind of behavior French people absolutely hate (some Muslim have it).

[KostasKouvalis]

She was a bipolar narccistic sociopath and she thought everyone should except it. She was awful! I gave you the short version of what happened.
Even worse, I was 19 and she was only 15 and said she the only thing she liked about me was my looks. She just wanted a relationship for the sake of having a relationship. She kept pressuring me to videochat and I didn't feel comfortable so she accused me of being a Catfish, and she would flip out if I didn't reply quickly enough or say good bye then stay online. I couldn't get my homework done because she would flip out if I didn't reply to her. She even sent me baby pictures of herself and asked for MINE. That's just weird

[alice55]

@KostasKouvalis She's really crazy but I do know some girls that sounds like her, those are crazy jealous becasue of deep insecurity

[KostasKouvalis]

She was definitely insecure. I think it kind of messed me up, because I enjoy reading/watching stuff about abusive women now.
I still think about her sometimes, but not as often as I used to. She definitely had an infinite effect on me

[avery58]

@alice55 yep. I had a friend from high school who was friends with benefits with a girl and decided to end it and she went psycho. Called him through fake numbers when he blocked her and moved to another state with her dad and faked being pregnant for months and that she had given birth to twins. She even took the time to look for pictures of baby twins that actually looked like my friend, it was crazy. In the end she admitted that it was all a lie and that she realized she didn't really like him, she said she just thought she did because the sex was good.

[avery58]

@KostasKouvalis sorry to hear that

[KostasKouvalis]

I forgot that she threatened suicide too.
You're not gonna like this Avery, but she was Mexican 😂

[avery58]

@KostasKouvalis damn, well I heard there were lots of weird Mexicans in Califorina lol. She sounds like the chola type 😂

Here where I live it's Puerto Rican girls lol. But not all, I've met plenty of cool Puerto Ricans as well.

[alice55]

Some people are really crazy, I don't really know what they get from doing this, I pity anyone who cross their path

[KostasKouvalis]

She was living in Texas at the time, but was originally from California and she claims Texas did that to her LMAO

@alice55 I was honestly thinking the same thing

[SweetJoyGirl]

Ehhh…as weird as it sounds, I always seem to date white guys. I don't know if that is because I am attracted to them more. They are just the ones who are around me the most. lol

[alice55]

Logic, around me there's more White guys but they're not the one who are the most attracted to me for some reasons

[Adogdog]

Indian girls seem more attracted to me for some reason.

[alice55]

@Adogdog This is quite crazy that people that are attracted the most to us and people of others races.

[Adogdog]

Yeah Hahaha

[SweetJoyGirl]

Ehhhh…k.

[PeachyPie93]

I'm white and Native American. Most guys who hit me up are South Asians, black guys, then white guys. A lot of white guys in my city never hit me up, they just look lol. But when I was in the Uk guys used to chat me up often even when I was with my boyfriend, probably because he was always walking ahead of me lol.

[alice55]

I don't get why some guys like to walk ahead of their girlfriend that's so weird.

[PeachyPie93]

I think it is because their legs are so long, so their strides are bigger and they generally don't care to be considerate of the other person. Hence they could hold your hand and pull you along but they rather not lol.

[handsomelad70]

As a black man who resembles cowboy beefcake, the times I have been approached in bars, stores, on the street, etc., have solely been by white women. Most black women likely think because of my good looks, articulation and cowboy instead of ghetto persona that I'm not black enough for them.

[HawkPerception]

White and latina girls are the most attractive to me. I would say there's a higher ratio of attractive white girls than latina though.

[Bricealan]

I don't find it to be a single race/ethnicity. I have had relationships with black women, from Trinidad and have been given very nice attention from Hispanic women but at this point, not from Asian, or Arab women.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

In order.. Whites, Asians, Latinos, Black

On my Facebook inbox, Arabs: "Send bobs" 🌹

[Davey88]

Send what

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

@Davey88 "send bobs" 😔

[DryGermanGuy]

I am sure they meant pictures of horses. Arabs do like their horses! 🐴🐴🐴
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bobs_Worth

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

@DryGermanGuy hahahaha okay I'll send them horse.. 🤗😌

[alice55]

I'm surprised to hear that I didn't know Arabs went on facebook still I'm we're in 2024 only old people go there now

[avery58]

I thought it was Indians who always say bobs lol

[katiesmuff]

I chose black because with only 1 exception that is all I dated from high school forward until I married my black husband which is strong and solid going on 12 years now.

[Joshydavid25]

I get attention from multiple groups, but I guess if I had to choose, it would be Latinas and "Black" women since I'm around them the most.. Especially Latinas.. I mean most of them don't say it, but I always catch them looking..

[mandyfire98]

White women and black guys seem to be attracted to me more.

[alice55]

White women? But you're a girl?

[mandyfire98]

Yep. I am a woman.

[mandyfire98]

I get hit on by both men and women

[ChicoFromThe305]

For me has been black women, they would always touch my hair in school and in middle school some touch me, I think I've only ever attracylted one white girl and one Latina.

[Blacksnake285]

Those black girls are dumb, they should know in Latin America white is right

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm not in Latin America

[RyanEC]

White.
I guess ethnicity specific maybe English, French, Italian, German.

[Nxtawm]

I don’t think there’s any specific ethnicity I attract more, all pretty equal and random

[Mwolf]

Although I've had some black guys hit on me as well.

[patrick994]

It depends, I am generally attracted to ethnic Latinos and whites.

[ProbablyClueless]

Indian and Arab women seem to have a soft spot for me.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Realistically speaking, how often do guys get approached by girls?

Hard for me to know for sure, especially when my social life is basically centered around a small number of guys anyway

[Staximus]

Black and drunk American Mexican women seemed to hit on me the most when I worked at the bar.

[Staximus]

And old drunk white women

[Staximus]

Asian women very rarely. I'm not clean cut looking enough or didn't make enough money

[DarkLegacy]

I am mainly attracted to my own race which is white

[Grond21]

Indian, Latina, Arab.

I'm white by the way

[alice55]

Like me then

[Grond21]

Yep, exactly

[paledreams]

White short 20s women, who don't tan or spray tan that hogwash either. 🤍

[paledreams]

If they smoke, alcohol, or they vapes or they do whatever. Or tatts + all that I'm like "forget them"