Because, just like women constantly encounter insecure assholes who play nice, then insult & berate them when rejected. Guys face their version, where women abuse the "men always pay for everything on the date" social norm, just so they can get a free meal and/or free stuff. there's also women that just want guys to pay for their drinks, by flirting with no intention of it going anywhere. With dating sites/apps we constantly match with women soliciting us to join their onlyfans and/or sexcam site.
We are used to women only wanting to use us for money and nothing wanting else from us, besides maybe a 1-night stand.
Men just want to be treated as people with emotions, likes, and vulnerabilities. Not some statue that hands out cash for women playing with our emotions and feelings.
Heck, men don't even get compliments from women, unless they want something or it's a sarcastic/back-handed complement.
Only compliments i ever get, are not for me, but my outfit. Whey i hear "hey sexy!" it is always followed up by "mean girl" laughter.
When it comes to the romance side of society men are used and treated like crap.
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Guys don't think you want "only money" from them. They are well aware that you want their house, their car, their furniture, their kids, their dog, their boat, so on and so forth. Greed is a big problem in relationships. So much so that 45% of couples openly admit to polling agencies that they argue about money at least occasionally. That means at least 1 in 2 women want your money and if they don't get it, not only will the argue with you to make you unhappy about it, they will gossip about it to a third party. It's that important to them.
Men typically do not want their processions to be desired. They want to be desired for who they are personality wise, what they look like, and their deeds. When you want their stuff, it's a huge turn off and it's easy to show that most women want other people's stuff.
Because there are so many gold diggers out there. (More recently, now that women are actually starting to make decent salaries they're also at risk of getting entangled with gold diggers, so watch your step in the dating arena.)
Not all guys do but the one's that do think women are all gold diggers also get mad at women for not being stay at home wives. It's actually hilarious.
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Please don't generalize. All guys don't think anything. We guys are different, each unique. Sure, some guys think that girls just want money, probably to go shopping 🙄. But that thought has never crossed my mind.
You girls want to be treated as individuals. Please treat us guys the same.
Because there are a lot of girls’ that do
⬆ GUILTY OF IT
And not proud of it.
Back in my high school days I saw how girls in high school went after 25+ year old men, that gave them things, that no high schooler could give them in one package: Flowers, chocolate, wine, gifts, fake and cheap compliments, sweet lies and rides with a car.
And then see how some pinks here say "men should pay".
Or when I heard stories how girls got their boyfriends and it was always highlighted by how he paid for her and gave her gifts.
How am I supposed to not think "gold diggers" after that?
Girls want alphas to fuck and betas to pay the bills. If they get lucky, they find a high-level beta with some alpha tendencies. But they still miss the alpha ex bfs that fucked them like whores and gave them next to nothing. They miss getting used by the superior man and giving 100% of themselves to him, but know that it can never work out happily, so they settle with the safe beta that will make sure she doesn't have to struggle for money and she won't have to do much for him.
Because they are red pilled idiots with a low opinion of women in general and have little experience in the real world.
They have a materialistic attitude that values only looks, money and status. And project it onto women.
In reality, they know nothing about intangible things like personality, love, admiration, loyalty, trust, mutual respect, communication and compromise.All guys? That's certainly not true. That's not even most guys. Most of us assume that the women we are dating are acting in good faith, and generally we can tell if she is not. Who gets taken by avaricious women? Lonely desperate men.
Incel talk. Those men are not living in the real world.
Well they used to just want money. Now they want everything. Your time and a whole lot of things. You have to fix them as well now. Overall it was better when they just wanted money.
Because you always say you don't want a man who makes less than you or less than 6 figures and your money is your money while his money is our money.
Research the "Sprinkle Sprinkle" and the counter, "Drizzle Drizzle" movements.
Because it is the only thing men know how to do. When your only problem is a nail, every tool starts to look like a hammer.
they only want what men can provide for them
some genetically gifted men are used for sex
every other men is used for money
this is how they justify cheating when they can't get the perfect man
I don't know whether they want all my money or just some of it, but I want to spoil her and kiss her plump, gorgeous butt 😘
They have watched too many red pill podcasts
Most women seem so be gold diggers, men on the other hand want sex, not money.
I guess it's the same reason all women think all men just want sex. There's too many of them that DO that ruin everybody else's reputation.
I don 't think that at all... mostly because I'm a poor college student and I still manage to get laid! Do your boyfriends think this way? Message me if u want to talk about it.
I don't, but I also do not automatically trust. That is why I do not go to a nicer place till the third meeting / date. That tends to eliminate those who are only seeking free meals.
Because that's often what we see women going for in practice.
I mean it's usually true 🤷 Look at how many men get dumped if they lose their jobs.
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