I have my coworker, who I’ve known for years. Never got as close as we are now since my break up 5 months ago. We had more in common then I thought and I’m pretty outgoing and can talk for hours. We started playing video games together and it slowly turned into us FaceTiming for hours at night. He usually slips in how he wouldn’t date me because “ I’m too much and I’ll drive him crazy” he also said we were like a couple but with no benefits. I can’t tell if he likes me or what’s happening since we vibe so well. I usually vibe well with people tho
Alright, listen up, let me break it down real clear,
Your boy's giving signals, but what's happening here?
You got close since the breakup, now you're tight,
Playing games, FaceTiming deep into the night.
He says he won't date you, you’re "too much to handle,"
But then calls you a couple, with no benefits to channel.
Mixed messages flying, got your head in a spin,
Trying to decode where his true feelings begin.
He likes hanging with you, that much is real,
But if he wants romance, he's keeping it concealed.
Maybe he's scared of the jump or just confused,
Or enjoys your company without being amused.
You vibe well with folks, that's your superpower,
But his words say friends, though he talks for hours.
Feel it out, have a chat, lay it down clear,
Ask what he means, so you don't drown in fear.
Communication's key, that’s the truth of it all,
So speak from the heart, don't let the friendship fall.
Figure out where you stand, friends or something more,
That’s the way to settle what’s been troubling at the core.
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It sounds like he'd enjoy a friends with benefits's type of arrangement with you, as long as it's relatively easy and hassle free.
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It sounds like he likes you. If he says you would drive him crazy again, I would ask him why.
Pretty obvious
It means take it easy, most girls rush like fools!
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