This is something I have to tell myself a lot, but no one is too hot for you. If you are talking to him on a dating site then he finds you attractive. Either you are one of those girls that don't realize how beautiful you are or maybe you are not the hottest but you are still attractive and he likes your personality. But for vast majority of guys we don't try to date girls we don't find at least a little attractive especially online dating, people in general are pickier online than in person.
Bs. The idea that leagues exist is absurd. My wife is supermodel level of gorgeous. I am average level of attractiveness maybe. A bit above. We are very happy together. I am aware the societal view of "leagues" states that she is out of my league and yet that implies she finds me far more attractive than I find myself so for her she has said that if we acknowledged leagues then we both view each other as out of each other's league which is silly.
I don’t think I am the sexiest girl out there, there are far prettier girls than me, but I have dated extremely hot men.
Because I felt like - Why not?
You deserve what you think you deserve.
If he thinks you are good enough, who you are to decide instead of him that you are not good enough?
He might consider hooking up with you in a gloryhole setting. :)
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Well you must be hot in his eyes or he wouldn’t be flirting with you and keeping on contact with you , so stop selling yourself short and go for it
Don't undervalue yourself. If he thinks you are hot, that's what's important.
No-one is " Too Hot " for anyone. You had your photo on the app right? Real photo? So you matched , congratulations , go for it. It annoys me a little what you are saying because you are putting yourself down , no need to do that.
Conversely boost yourself up , you are plenty good enough for him or you would not have matched , go for it girl.
There are no leagues. Go meet him. you are hot enough, and he probably doesn't think he's all that.
When i was about 25 I had a new hairstylist. We were crushing on each other but I thought "I'm such a nerd, I would bore her." She thought "He's so smart, I would bore him." Neither of us said anything.
If he chose you, it means that he probably likes you, even if you are not a victoria secret model.
It is not a case of being mistrustful or unsure of oneself, there are quite a few couples where she is less beautiful and he is really hot.
We guys don't necessarily look for exalted beauty in a woman, we like simple, average-looking girls.
It's a dating app, so I bet he has seen you right.. if he felt the same he wouldn't talk to you right?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder sis.. you might be a 6 for yourself, 7 for someone else.. but a 10 for him,.. who knows
Hear my story
When I finally proposed to my wife who was my crush at that time.. she was and is the most beautiful female I've ever seen and I was nervous and didn't have much expectations but decided to go for it anyways
As soon I opened up , she started crying and she said she was afraid to approach me for the same reason you are talking about here... I'm like "WHAT THE HELL?"... How can I ever be too hot for a girl like her?
Accept the gift God gave you. Believe it or not, I've known multiple men who "married below their league".
It's not all about looks to us.
I'll say it because nobody else is. It may be a pump and dump scenario.
Don't be stupid, don't do that tf, if you made it that far you keep going, don't sabotage yourself like that 😂
Let's first establish some facts particularly pertinent to this case:
1) How tall are you and how much do you weigh?
2) What's your bra size (band and cup)?
3) What are your waist and hip measurements?
I don't believe in "leagues." I think some people are right for other people. Talk to him! If he thinks you are "not in his league" then who needs him? He is a snob.
A lot of guys find hot woman dull. Maybe he needs your personality to get off. Don't rob this man of your charm just because you aren't hot.
It is only a "fact" because you accept it as such. Outer beauty fade, Inner beauty remains. Maybe he sees your inner beaty.
Let him decide. Don't arrogantly take the choice from him
Why would you sabotage yourself like that? If he decides he’s not interested, then he’ll tell you.
Says it's not an insecurity then describes the insecurity lol
meet him in person and see how it goes first
Reminds me of the mo-ped I used to ride. She was fun.
Why would you want to do that if your too ugly for him? Just move on to your league.
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