My ex boyfriend dumped me for other girl it’s been quite a few months but I can’t stop thinking about it I want to take a revenge what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I feel terrible thinking about this again and again I cannot focus on my studies there’s no contact between me and him and I don’t even want to bcoz he is the one who dumped me for other girl but I feel very uneasy thinking about what happened what should I do I want to make him regret what he did

[chanty305]

My boyfriend left me too recently, well actually I did for self-respect. He wanted his cake and eat it too. Kept entertaining his ex when I told him not to several times. Like everyone else said, getting revenge will just fuel the fire and the best revenge is not even acknowledging him, he will be wondering what you're doing all the time and why you are not losing your cool!

If he don't feel that way, It's still good because that means he was not the one for you. The one for you will not leave you. Life continues on, that means there is a better fit for you out there. You need to try to have faith that that is why he left. You both would be unhappy since he wanted to leave, so either way it will not work out. If it would not be this girl, it would've been another girl in the future. Your connection was just not strong enough. The better connection will bring happiness out of both of you and will suit you better since you will have more confidence that he will not leave and the relationship will just flourish better. So just wait for that relationship. Block him and her from social media and let go of your ego. I know it is hard, I've been through it twice. Take care.

[Asker]

Yeah sure I’ll try to get him out of my mind
And even his girlfriend
It hurts but there’s no other option
And I’m sure his new girlfriend at some point will also experience that he just plays with every girl and needs female attention
Thanks for ur advice!

[Zestyassmf1997]

Get over him and move on with your life. By doing some extra bs to get back at him, it just shows that he’s living rent free in your head. You think he spends all his time thinking about you?

[Asker]

Yeah ik he must’ve already forgotten me…
I’ll try to move on
Thanks for ur advice!

[Anonymous]

You move on. That’s how you get back at him. Shitty thing for him to do but you need to forgive him, not for his sake but for yours. Otherwise you’ll be stuck there mentally, which won’t allow you to progress. Take your time to be mad, to cry, etc, but then you need to move on.