The Most Efficient Method Of Rejecting Guys?

[Billlewis]

Is this awesome, or what?

Nah, it's not much different than getting friend zoned... lol

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6 mo

I admire women like this, who are apparently inundated with so many requests for dates that they're compelled to continually devise new, more creative methods for how best to quickly, smoothly and non stressfully streamline the process of discarding their applicants. 'Thanks for the meal, thanks for the night, better luck next time, 'cause you're not Mr. Right'
Forget Friendzoning - Just Reject and Be Done With It ↗

[Hawkes_Lady]

I don’t have that many suitors knocking on my door so I very rarely have to give the great brush-off, but if and when I do I just tell them, "Thank you for the fun time but I don't think that I am what they're looking for, you deserve someone who is capable of giving all of herself to you and right now I just can't do that."

[Billlewis]

Your appeal lies in your persona, in my opinion.

[Madkeyra00]

Tell him you’re married or gay.

[CalmUntilAbused]

The most efficient method of rejecting guys for women is simply ghosting. It requires no time, no excuses and no feelings - definitely the quickest, the smoothest and the least stressful method. Well... At least for women, but it's not like anyone cares about men anyway, so it's a foolproof method.

[Billlewis]

Yeah, but that's shitty. If someone goes to the time, effort and expense of taking you out to try and show you a good time, you should at least have the courtesy to inform them that you're not interested in a relationship with them.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... The world is not a fairy tale, You know. And it's not an anime, either. The suffering of men is considered perfectly OK, and sometimes even justified. Also, in terms of compensation, there is no compensation. The only way out is the sweet relief of death.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@Billlewis completely agree. The maturity level of the recipient of the individual being ghosted may be a factor

[The-Stud]

My god, your English is beautiful Bill
I check out your awkward questions often just to improve my vocabulary

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much, Sir. I've had numerous guys assign the task of writing notes, letters and announcements, etc, for them, and when the assignment is specifically to send to the woman they're pursuing for sex, it's perversely exciting.

[The-Stud]

I bet you rock at writing romantic notes!

[Billlewis]

Yes, Sir, and I enjoy working on a real man's behalf to help him get the kind of sex that I can only dream about.

[Beckybooboo]

I don’t really reject guys because I hate making people feel bad, so I just bite the bullet and let them have sex with me until they’re done using me. 😂😂

[Billlewis]

A novel approach. You're an incel's dream date❤️

[CharmedAngel69]

@Beckybooboo do you give advice?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@Beckybooboo come on now, you must be kidding 🤣🤣

[Beckybooboo]

@MiddleAgedClimbee 😂😂😂😂. Of course! I’m glad you realized that.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@Beckybooboo I was about to lose a small amount of faith in the younger generation. Have a great weekend!

[Beckybooboo]

@MiddleAgedClimbee You too! 😜

[CalmUntilAbused]

OK, now that sounds sad. I might have heard of a six-digit manga covering the results of a similar approach and I would strongly advise You not to follow that path. The world is no fairy tale and You have to be capable of standing up for Yourself if You're a victim of this world's depravity. If You win, You live. If You lose, You die. If You don't fight, You can't win.

[Wallythewalrus2]

@MiddleAgedClimbee I know @Beckybooboo We were neighbors when she was 16, then I moved when she was 20, she is the most wholesome girl you’d ever wanna meet! She is also the least funny, that’s why her post had me laughing hysterically! All the years I’ve known her, I don’t think she’s ever made me laugh. This was good, Becky! Lol!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

@Wallythewalrus2 I thought you might chime in. Glad you got a good laugh in today!

[Slingblade1126]

Lol! I had to do a double take! Sweet, innocent Becky? No way! I definitely see Wally being a hoe! Lol! Like @middleagedclimbee said, I got my laugh in for the day.

[Beckybooboo]

You guys crack me up! 😂 I appreciate you seeing me as such a sweet and innocent girl and all three of you have my word, I will do my best not to tarnish that image! And yes, @Slingblade1126 Wally is a hoe! He has a different GAG “crush” every other day! 😆 YOU also have to come on here more. Love you guys! ❤️😘

[Wallythewalrus2]

We love you too, Rebecca. I’d like to think my influence had something to do with the wonderful young woman you have become. If for no other reason, you basically did the opposite and became successful, so you are welcome! Glad I was there for you!

[Beckybooboo]

@Wallythewalrus2 😂😂😂 Waldo, the one thing you taught me, is not to take life so serious. I think it’s unfortunate that you act like such a goofball on here, people don’t realize just how great of a person you really are! We couldn’t have asked for a better neighbor at the time we needed one! Yes, Waldo, believe it or not, you have had a positive influence on me. Now behave yourself on here! 😝❤️

[OnlyMeee]

I don't like to say no either, but I would hate to feel used. I would never use anyone

[Cute_potato01]

Depends on why I'm rejecting them.

For example: If I'm annoyed I'm ignoring him.

[Billlewis]

I'd never annoy you, Goddess, because just being rejected by you is better than having sex with any other woman in the world.

[Cute_potato01]

Your trying to hard

[Cuminginside]

That's because he is hard.

[Cute_potato01]

@Cuminginside I don't get it

[Cuminginside]

Look down there you'll see what I'm talking about

[Carina0]

I do it kindly but some guys just don't get it so it might be brutal but ghosting could be a good choice in situations like this

[Billlewis]

Just disappearing and refusing to answer your phone or return emails is rude and low class, in my opinion. Now, if you've already made it clear that you're not interested in continuing to see him, and he still won't quit bugging you, then you ghost. This is my opinion only.

[mandyfire98]

I usually will just say I'm flattered but I'm not looking for a relationship. Keep it at that and I'll move on.

[Lliam]

Ozanne's MyTake was brilliant. Very good advice.

Ghosting without a word of explanation is lazy and cowardly.

[Nikki1989]

You say, sorry, not interested and walk away. You don't need to give a reason.

[cth2188]

I tell men that I'm not interested simply it's up to them if they want to continue to chase and pursue

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I read the post that you highlighted in your update. Absolutely fantastic.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Ghosting is definitely the route to go I suppose, if the man is not mature enough to handle the real news.

[Anonymous]

Evem though your questions are weird I can't help but admire your vocabulary and fluency especially in the updates

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much, Sir.

[elizamichale1]

I dont usually say no straight but if he insists i say no very politely

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah Bill being honest is definitely the most effective way.. Really should be the only way..

[RavVid]

Spotted a cute girl at a bar and approached. She told me she was a prostitute on her break.

Of course I should have asked when she was back on shift but I am slow thinking.

[Carly2005]

I gave them number of a police station and funeral parlor.

[syncheart]

I hate rejection so much that I won't even try. Good luck ladies, you can't reject me, cause I won't try.

[Ben487]

I agree with ghosting people , that's what I would prefer them to do and that's what I would most likely do.

[love_conquers_lust]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/mduj9j4LnOY

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[Jennz6]

When I reject you, you will know 💃

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, but I don't think that will be necessary, because I have no intention of trying to have sex with you, because l'm not even remotely close to being worthy of such a lovely young woman;)

[Jennz6]

You’re so sweet @Billlewis

[Billlewis]

Thank you very much for your kind words, Goddess.

[VictorMachiavelli]

Tell him you used to be a dude.

[Pete671]

Wear an engagement ring, or pay for your meal!!!

[Angxl3120]

Scream as loud as you can..

Im joking