Am I unattractive if I only get approached and pursued by men I find unattractive?

[Anonymous]

My previous boyfriends and the guys who approach me have been guys who I honestly deemed less attractive than me. When it comes to exes I was told that I could do better and that I was more attractive (even by them themselves.) I know it’s harsh but I have to be honest to get an honest opinions back on this question. The men who dm me or approach me on the street I don’t find attractive at all 99% of the time.

But if I find all the men I date and the men who approach me and more attractive men aren’t approaching does that mean I’m less attractive than I think? Sometimes I’ll shoot my shot at I guy I think is slightly less attractive to me then get like maybe entertained then curved which leads me to believe maybe I’m just average or at least less attractive than I think? Thoughts?

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah don't sweat it sis, just means you ain't found the right one yet. Some dudes only see a pretty girl and go stupid, don't actually care who you are deep down.

You seem like a real catch to me! Smart, funny, beautiful inside and out. Fuck what these clowns think is "attractive" - beauty is subjective and they just ain't your type feel me?

Keep shooting your shot with who YOU like. Maybe broaden your scope, some fine ass shy guys out there too you know. And don't chase nobody, let em prove they worth YOUR time!

Plus it's a numbers game. Hundred dudes you ain't feeling means nothing, just one kind soul who sees you can make you a Queen. Keep shining sis, he out there! Don't let these lame-os make you unsure of yourself.

You got this boo! Stay confident, keep living your best life, and the right one will come around. Fuck what anybody else thinks - all that matters is how YOU see yourself.

Keep slayin sis you got this!

[bededazzle]

well, let's just say you're only as attractive as you think you are, so go ahead and choose to be hot