Girls, Ladies, how often do you get hit on or approached when you go out?

[DermalPunch]

This excludes cat calling. I mean asking you for your number or inviting you to have a coffee or tea on spot.

Every time

Sometimes

Rarely

Never

[Anonymous]

I was approached recently. The guy started talking to me so I politely conversed with him. He asked for my number but I didn't give it to him because not once in the conversation did he ask for my name. 🤦‍♀️

[DermalPunch]

Lol. Guys are bad for that tbh

[Jazzy54]

Not a lot. The last time I remember is when an older gentleman (I’d say 70s) said “slow down. I want to see you better. 😬

[DermalPunch]

Those old dudes. I was at a food court and this old guy fainted. So I went to help. He is on the floor in a crisis and says to me, "you could be my nurse anyday". He must have been like 90.

[Jazzy54]

Oh my gosh, lol. 😅

[ShellyB]

I voted "sometimes" but I guess it depends where you draw the line between that and "rarely", it is less common than it used to be because of changes in my life (I am engaged, live with somebody, and work in a job with mostly older people who I see every day).

[Sour-rose]

Sometimes I do. But it's rare to happen to me every month. So i may be a snack but not so much that i have men kissing my seat after I sat down at it.

[Enaya]

Never. And not because I am unappealing or anything.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It doesn't happen often anymore, thank goodness.

[sassyredhead]

the grocery store and the library mostly usually not men in my age range of dating. I attract the late-40s crowd.

[Siri137]

Rarely. Maybe it's my 'resting bitch-face' that does the trick.

[NatalieKeller95]

almost with every step I take outside

[chicken_nugget24]

Never

[DermalPunch]

Maybe you did but didn't catch on.

[chicken_nugget24]

No, I never have. I have low self-esteem, and people mocked me for the way I look all my life.

[DermalPunch]

Just find what works for you amd fix what you don't lkke about yourself. Do the things you love. Everybody can go kick rocks.

[chicken_nugget24]

I wanna change everything 😂

[DermalPunch]

Well if you could change your attitude and perception then "everything" may dwindle down to four or five.

[chicken_nugget24]

I'm working on that in therapy. 14 years of a negative mindset isn't that easy to fix lol

[DermalPunch]

Oh I know. I know. I'm rooting for you.

[chicken_nugget24]

You know?

[DermalPunch]

Negative mindset. Negative internal talk. Busting out of that myself.

[chicken_nugget24]

Oh yeah lol sorry. Hope it gets better for both of us

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I never do.

[Alexz0]

Often enough.