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What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?

The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...
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Please, does anyone have any guidance or advice? The pain is just too much?

so before anything I am currently 48 years old and I have been through therapy since grade school as well as medication’s, and everything just seems to be getting worse. The big thing that scares me and worries me and...
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(27F) I feel like I can’t physically get close or intimate with a guy ever again because it’s always one sided?

I 27 F have been single for 3 years almost. I briefly dated a guy in summer of 2025 but it wasn’t that serious we mostly went on a few dates then realized we weren’t on the same page. I’ve never been the same since my ex...
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Girls, How do women feel about men who are scared to get into relationships?

As in men who are afraid of getting hurt because so many women cheat
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How am I supposed to be calm when I wait for the doctor for my hard belly?

Last month I noticed that my bottom belly on the left side is hard when I lay down. I poke at it and it’s solid hard. I don’t understand. I thought it’s because I’m bloating and starting my period. I’m getting concerned...
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Does anyone else ever struggle with feeling really lonely at night?

Sometimes when it gets quiet and I’m alone with my thoughts I start feeling really hurt that I don’t have many close friends or family who truly check on me or care the way I wish they did. During the day I’m fine and...
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I had a bad trip and my boyfriend broke up with me, am I a bad person?

Me and my boyfriend hung out... we went to Barnes and Nobles... we had a great time. We got a hotel since he lives an hour and a half away. He took out some gummy edibles and I got excited because I wanted to try them. So...
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What is something you did to yourself that still hurts?

I found a song that really resonated with me, so I wrote my own lyrics about my breakup using the songs words/melody. Some parts said "reading about it turning the pages and pages allowing myself to fade in the story...
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From your perspective why do you think so many people have commitment issues when it comes to dating?

What's your perspective and experience with this? I'll admit I have commitment issues. For me, I think I have a fear of getting hurt or losing my sense of self in a serious relationship. I know I'm not the only one scared...
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How do I let go of my boyfriend without hurting him?

Hi everyone, I ( 30f) i have been struggling a lot lately and don’t really know who to talk to. A couple of years ago, I moved to the states two years back ( for reasons i can't post here ). A close family friend let me...
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Can one wrong assumption ruin a strong connection?

She told me that she was afraid I might cheat on her. It broke my heart. It's a long story... but I wanted to explain this in here. Because I'm crying like I have never before. We weren’t in a relationship yet, we...
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What scares you about dating?

For me: My partner is cheating and risks me to STDs. My mate playing games risking me to getting hurt and my time wasted.
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Was I too harsh to tell this broken man that if he really wants me, he can't rely on me 100% to get his act together?

This man and I have very good chemistry. We have known eachother for a while.. I am aware of the stresses thats happening in his life right now, his past, and his dreams. We are both single parents, we share the same...
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Is he really interested?

This guy and I met through mutual friends at a party. We left the group at a point, enjoying each other's company, sitting and talking eventually exchanging numbers. Parted ways with a goodbye kiss. Eventually found out...
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Why do I keep pushing my girlfriend away even though I love her and want to be close?

Lately, I’ve noticed a pattern where I distance myself from my girlfriend ignoring her texts, avoiding spending time with her and I can’t fully understand why I’m doing it. I struggle with anxiety, and deep down I think...
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If you had one, what was a moment of your life you almost died in the stupidest way possible?

For me, it was this one time I almost died from eating salty snacks, such as flamin' hot cheetos, flamin' hot doritos, and spicy takis. I wish I was joking. So when I eat a lot of spicy things I tend to start coughing a...
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Guys, should I tell him I like him or make a different move or just wait?

I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after that, I couldn't stop thinking about...
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I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after Show More
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I’m stressing does it sound like I have breast cancer 😭?

I’m stressing and I’m really scared Last week I was in the shower and I was washing my right armpit and I felt a small lump. I don’t know how long is been there but was considering me is that I have been having nipple...
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Reasons why romantic partners may be disingenuous and pretending to be someone they’re not

Keep in mind some of these reasons are more nefarious then others. So watch out for the warning signs someone’s not who they say they are. Fear of rejection: Fear of rejection is one reason someone may pretend to be...
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Why do I get so emotionally attached to people so easily, yet I'm scared of intimacy and vulnerability, and I'm scared to get too close to anyone?

I often feel that I'm one of the only people of which, once I care about you, I never really stop caring, even if I know it's best we part ways or we no longer have anything in common. I often think about former friends...
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