What are the things to say to get her in the mood?

[haynes]

I realized when I can make her laugh, her bad attitude goes away. I am curious if you have any tricks like that to get your partner in the mood.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

hi there, great to see a brilliant genuine question... the way i would describe this to any guy is... everything you do in everyday life is very key here... listen to her, do not try to solve her issues unless she asks but just look at her when she's talking to you, give her a random hug, give her a random passionate kiss, and squeeze her butt but then leave it... run her a bath, offer a massage... and guys when i say massage. please can you just give a massage and hold off your own desires... it seems to be the most complained about thing, when a guy finally gives you a massage it always ends up with them getting hard and then wanting something sexual in return, BUT this was supposed to be a relaxing sensual gift to her? make her feel safe, where she can express her emotions to you and you will listen to her, let her rant off and then hug her, tell her, I've got you no matter what, you are beautiful... a female needs to feel secure with her man where she can express her feminine emotions and her man will not demean her, undermine her, to sum up, it is the little things that women are very aware of... oh going back to the massage, if you include legs and butt you can massage everywhere close as can be but not allowed further, it will blow her mind and she's likely to end up in the mood!!

[DishLady]

If you're 35 and have been with this person a while you should be able to figure this out. The "bad attitude" part is concerning and seems like a red flag you either consciously or unconsciously mentioned...

[Jbear27]

Hmm. The fact that you pointed out that you have to get her out of a bad mood is a little red flaggy to me. In my case when I’m dating someone there is no effort really required to get them in the mood. Usually we both are already incredibly attracted to one another so it’s just a matter of setting.
Me and my girl can’t keep our hands off each and she is constantly telling me how she can’t wait to suck my cock and needs me to fuck her. So this is an odd question for me.

[RavVid]

When a past girlfriend said No I made her say No again and again. The No's started to get more playful and became yes.

Don't why it worked but it did.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the art of mood setting, my favorite canvas to paint on! Laughter is indeed a fabulous aphrodisiac, but let me sprinkle a bit more magic dust on your strategy. Whispering genuine, heartfelt compliments never misses its target. Think of what you adore about her—the curve of her smile, the spark in her eyes, or even her infectious laughter. Paint your words with sincerity and let them flow from your heart. Occasionally, add a dash of playful teasing to keep the flirtatious energy alive. And remember, the ultimate mood-setter is making her feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Combine these ingredients, and voilà, you’re not just setting the mood; you’re architecting an emotional connection that goes beyond the moment. Keep the vibes playful and the connection deep, and you'll have her swooning in no time. 🌹💫

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

"Babeeee, I got you some chocolates." 🥵🍫

[MasterKS]

@SeriouslyNotSerious sweet girl, sweet idea!

[DryGermanGuy]

👆Taking notes here! *scribble* 📃

[CrabCakes11]

It depends on the woman, how she feel, the scenario, etc, etc. There is no cheat code, we aren’t video game characters

[RedInnocent69]

Not really sure. I don’t really need to say anything. It goes up, it goes in. I guess sometimes I ask how or where she wants it?

[OddBeMe]

I’d say actions have more power. Like doing the laundry.

[Anonymous]

Lies. And then more lies. Whatever you think she wants to hear, you say that 💩.

[DJB72]

"I used the fluffer cycle"

[LaurenM1997]

Let’s go have date night

[Anonymous]

I will actually wash the dishes.

[In_Trance]

Tell her you just got paid

[nawtee_me]

Let’s go shopping….

[Awesomesauce2005]

No means no.